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Andyyyy
September 29th, 2014, 02:53 AM
So I'm 17 and I have no clue about my sexuality. I'm thought of myself as bi for a couple of years although lately i've been more attracted to males although I can still see myself with a girl. I've had major crushes on guys and girls (probably more girls) and I've even experimented with a guy (which was average). There's just something about males that I find extremely attractive, almost everything about them is attractive but with girls they're just not as exciting. Sure I can still feel attracted to them but my attraction with guys is so much more stronger. I want to have a wife and have kids one day but I just don't know. I've thought about coming out several times but I just haven't been able to bring myself to do it.
Can anyone give me any advice or something? There has to be someone who's experienced the same thing I'm going through.
Thanks
CosmicNoodle
September 29th, 2014, 04:01 AM
Ye, your Bi, being Bi doesn't mean you have equal attraction to both sexes, sometimes, qute often in fact, a person will lean toward oe of the sexes, in your case, like me, you lean toward gay.
I know how confusing it is when you can't guite figure it out, feel free to PM me if you have any more questions.
James Dean
September 29th, 2014, 04:10 AM
Just be happy about who you are. You cannot help what you are attracted to. I think as time goes along you will figure out more of what your sexuality is. At this stage, you should just try not to let it overcome you. Do what makes you happy. We can't predict the future, so stop worrying about what it might have in store. You might be with a woman, you might be with a man. You may come out sooner or later than you think. This is you, and life is what you make it. I know it is tough, but hang in there. I went through sexuality issues myself and it's a hard road to travel down. Make friends who are in the community, people are are LGBT as well. That might be a good step for you to do. Try to focus on career, education goals. Don't worry about it. :)
niceguy44
September 29th, 2014, 04:09 PM
You're bi. It's quite common for one to lean towards one sex more than the other.It seems like you lean more towards gay like I do.
PM me if you want to chat more about this.
Zerep2016
March 30th, 2015, 03:23 PM
Yes you are bi
Luminous
March 30th, 2015, 03:32 PM
Yes you are bi
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