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blimpy
September 29th, 2014, 12:28 AM
Hey guys,

I have some female cousins that i am interested in learning more about. As they are from a very different country i want to know how sex is viewed there and in their culture. Im just a bit nervous in brining it up and i dont know if it would be weird. Im just asking for any advice as to how i could talk about this subject?

Thanks
James Dean
September 29th, 2014, 01:25 AM
If you are hesitant about asking them, why don't you just do some research yourself in the meantime. Usually the internet is a good tool to use to know about different countries customs and cultures. Then you can always ask them later if you feel like. It is a tough subject to bring up especially as many cultures have different views and opinions on it.
Karkat
October 10th, 2014, 11:11 PM
If you are hesitant about asking them, why don't you just do some research yourself in the meantime. Usually the internet is a good tool to use to know about different countries customs and cultures. Then you can always ask them later if you feel like. It is a tough subject to bring up especially as many cultures have different views and opinions on it.

Agreed. You could also try talking to someone of that culture online and learning about it through them.
Laraa.01
October 14th, 2014, 11:56 AM
I talk about sex with close friends and relations all the time but it depends how they view it I guess. Otherwise the internet is a great tool for stuff like this.
jordanhardy
October 14th, 2014, 12:29 PM
Sex is pretty much the topic of most conversations between me and my friends
Pensive
October 14th, 2014, 04:13 PM
Yeah I wouldn't rely on a forum like this for an accurate view lol, but where are they from?

I assume you have a very talkative relationship yes? Otherwise asking that out of the blue will seem extra perverted and creepy.

I'd do research online and then if appropriate ask, 'I have read that such and such is commonplace in (insert country/culture), do you know if that's true or are they wrong?'

But I wouldn't ask a question such as 'I've heard all girls love blowing guys all day every day, yeah?' :/ So just approach it from an academic perspective!

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