Gay or bi?

[Thisguyzack]

Ok, hi im zack and i have a quedtion.
I like boys and their fisical aparence, and i want to have sex with them not with girls. But i dont want to have a boyfriend or a romance with a boy, i want to have a romance with a girl but nothing sexual, what am i?

[Hideous]

Maybe you're a heteroromantic homosexual (or bisexual).

[Erik13]

Ok, hi im zack and i have a quedtion.
I like boys and their fisical aparence, and i want to have sex with them not with girls. But i dont want to have a boyfriend or a romance with a boy, i want to have a romance with a girl but nothing sexual, what am i?

how old are you? it could be that you are too young to really know what you want.

i am almost 14 and right now i am pretty much thinking i might be gay. i have no real interests in girls on a sexual level, but i do have a lot of friends who are girls. i am attracted to guys, but as far as a romance or anything like that? i don't know what i want right now. and i am alright with that.

i don't really want to label myself in the sense that i am either this or that, because i don't want to limit myself to any particular thing. i FEEL gay. i am attracted to guys sexually. but it doesn't mean that i can't or won't be attracted to girls in the future.

[Thisguyzack]

What is that?

I am 14

[asrlem]

Ya heteroromantic and homosexual because u want to have sex with a man thats the homosexual part then the heteroromantic part is where you want to have romance with a girl because hetero is the opposite sex.

[Erik13]

I am 14

that's what i thought. don't limit yourself. just be you and the rest will sort itself out.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Ok, hi im zack and i have a quedtion.
I like boys and their fisical aparence, and i want to have sex with them not with girls. But i dont want to have a boyfriend or a romance with a boy, i want to have a romance with a girl but nothing sexual, what am i?

Perhaps heteroromantic homosexual. (Also, I tried to hold myself back, but it's spelled "physical".)

[James Dean]

I would say I would let your sexuality figure itself out. I want to say you are possibly bisexual. You seem to be confused at this point and not really sure of what you like. As time goes on, you will be more sure of yourself.

[CosmicNoodle]

Heteroromantic homosexual, (my god there are so many different lables), ut dont worry about that now, your only 14, theres a good chance your sexuality will grow and change anong with you, in a few years it may well be different, don't worry about labes right now, just sit back, enjoy the ride and the rest will sort itself out.

[Semi_IronMan]

Ok, hi im zack and i have a quedtion.
I like boys and their fisical aparence, and i want to have sex with them not with girls. But i dont want to have a boyfriend or a romance with a boy, i want to have a romance with a girl but nothing sexual, what am i?

dude we're like the same person, I'm also experiencing the same thing. I THINK WE'RE BISEXUAL, but hey we're stil young (14 years) we still have many years to figure out our sexuality. Just live and don't worry about that at the moment

[Thisguyzack]

Im so confused

[James Dean]

Don't worry about it. It's ok, use this time to do more research on sexuality. Just worry about yourself and do what you feel makes you happy. As time goes on you will start to learn more about sexuality and bisexuality so hopefully you won't feel so scared about it. Hang in there, I understand exactly how you feel. You're not alone, and don't feel confused. You can always talk about it. :)

[Zachary G]

I would say I would let your sexuality figure itself out. I want to say you are possibly bisexual. You seem to be confused at this point and not really sure of what you like. As time goes on, you will be more sure of yourself.

I have to agree with this, instead of trying to label it I say just go with it an let it figure itslef out. there is a lot of confusion there and you need to figure things out.

[aceasarsalad]

Ok, hi im zack and i have a quedtion.
I like boys and their fisical aparence, and i want to have sex with them not with girls. But i dont want to have a boyfriend or a romance with a boy, i want to have a romance with a girl but nothing sexual, what am i?

You're a lot like I am.

I want to be with a girl, but I don't want to do anything sexual with them, I'm not really attracted to them that way.


I looove boys. I love how manly they are, their voices, their dress, their shirtless bodies (hehe) and especially their private parts ;)

If I had to choose between a sexy girl and a sexy guy, I would totally be all over the guy.


So to answer your question, it sounds like you might be gay. But hey, there is honestly no point to labeling yourself. If anyone asks what I am I just tell them "I'm me, and I like to play with guys." That way it's the truth and I don't need to put any other kind of label on it. PM me if you want to talk more about it. :yes:

[SethfromMI]

maybe you want to have the sex without the serious relationship?

[ethana512]

I'm sort of the opposite. I mainly like boys and I want to have a boyfriend but I want to try sex with a girl sometime.

[Lost in the Echo]

I don't really think there's a need to label yourself yet. Your hormones go wild during puberty, and your sexuality can fluctuate. Just wait until it becomes clear to you which sexual orientation you truly are.

[vboy]

At the momment id say bicurious but you still have to mature alittle