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Gottaloveaginger14
September 28th, 2014, 05:23 PM
Hey y'all! So I've recently gotten out of a relationship where my bf refused to touch me in any sexual way if I head any hair at all in the downstairs region. So maybe it's me rebelling but i'm considering growing a full on bush. So my question is would this stop any of you guys out there from doing anything witha girl who had a bush or was he simply a jerk.

allisonmyers
September 28th, 2014, 05:39 PM
had bfs that hated the bush and loved it it depends on the guy

chiisaiaoiryu
September 28th, 2014, 06:10 PM
I know I'm a guy here, but I'm a gay guy. That kind of gives me some idea of what you're talking about. Kind of ran into the same problems myself where my boyfriend refused to give me head if I didn't shave my pubes.

I wouldn't say that would make the other person a jerk; it's more that they have a certain preference about something. Some people are so gung-ho about pubic hair needing to be gone that it turns them off. My only guess why they don't like it is either it scratches their face or they don't like the scent of the pubic hair.

Regardless, your guy was not so much of a jerk if he merely didn't like all that. The fact that he won't do anything sexual with you all because of that makes it more like he's pushing you into shaving. Just don't do what you don't want to do, and I'd say it's not worth it to stay with him if he's giving you a ridiculous ultimatum for sexual advances.

Ben_Smith
September 28th, 2014, 11:59 PM
I doesn't matter bush or no bush. He was just being a jerk

Jay bay
September 29th, 2014, 12:40 AM
The guy was a jerk should make no difference

emily-candace
September 29th, 2014, 12:47 AM
Well if he really wants some, he doesn't care if its bushy or not but I do believe he was a jerk too!

DCManchester2014
September 29th, 2014, 07:58 AM
The guy was a jerk.

I prefer it trimmed or bare, but I wouldn't not touch a girl because she didn't, I wouldn't even not lick her out. Its her choice.

ChrisTJ
September 29th, 2014, 09:15 AM
As a girl I think the guy was a jerk. I've been with a guy while I had some hair down there though not a full bush and he didn't mind. It's your body, you have it as you like it.

Your Captain
September 29th, 2014, 02:33 PM
I personally think a bush looks disgusting

Christen
September 29th, 2014, 02:37 PM
its your body
so its your decision
bush , landing strip , triangle or like me shaven complete.
its not on him to decide as hey you are the one that has to live with it.

Jack_smith1234
September 30th, 2014, 04:54 AM
if i was with you, id prefer you not to have the bush, but i wouldnt make you shave if you didnt want to nor would i not touch you :)

CheshireJess
September 30th, 2014, 11:04 AM
I'm personally shaved, but when I still had hair I had a couple of guys refuse to go down on me, but they'd still finger or have sex with me.

Tyler97
September 30th, 2014, 12:09 PM
personally, I like girls with some pubic hair, it's most attractive when it's neatly trimmed and I would do oral on a girl with pubes, but it should be clean.

jacko
September 30th, 2014, 01:20 PM
I don't mind a bit of hair, but a full on bush would be too much for me. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't do anything sexual with a girl if she had it.

lisa S
September 30th, 2014, 04:03 PM
Um, honestly, most guys I know/ been with are just happy that they're getting some. Anything else is just the cherry on the sundae (no pun intended). For the record, I shave totally.

Uranus
September 30th, 2014, 04:09 PM
I'd prefer no bush.
Or at least neatly trimmed .
I guess its more a personal preference for some people because it might make some feel sick, while some not.
Blood makes me gag. Some not. It's a matter of preferences
though, not having a bush would be easier to work with

HUSTLEMAN
October 1st, 2014, 04:54 AM
One, he is a jerk.
Two, I perfer hair but you can do anything you like.

playfull-qt
October 2nd, 2014, 11:21 PM
I'm shaved but if a guy is lucky enough to get me to let him anywhere near my vagina he best not complain about anything if he ever wants to see it again

chrisawesome
October 3rd, 2014, 10:12 PM
I personally think a bush looks disgusting

+1 it truly is I don't want to lick around with hair all over my lips and.... Ugh!

Now I could still be with a girl if she quit shaving, but would not have sex. Eventually I would get tired and want better so I would just break up. I mean you can do what you want with your own body, but he can decide what he wants and doesn't have to stay with you.

If you blame him for being a jerk, it was your fault he left. I mean just get a razor out and clean up that manliness of a vagina.

Aajj333
October 4th, 2014, 12:05 AM
Wow this guy seems like a really big baby if he's afraid of hair

asrlem
October 4th, 2014, 12:14 AM
I think i would go for it either way but he wasnt being a jerk because it was just his opinion.

ozteen
October 4th, 2014, 07:27 AM
I'm shaved but if a guy is lucky enough to get me to let him anywhere near my vagina he best not complain about anything if he ever wants to see it again
This!!!

Karkat
October 10th, 2014, 11:00 PM
Just a jerk! Nothing wrong with hair. Do it, if that's what you want!

Batman42
November 28th, 2014, 11:42 AM
Tbh i think hair there is hot

riverboy
November 28th, 2014, 11:48 AM
I'm shaved but if a guy is lucky enough to get me to let him anywhere near my vagina he best not complain about anything if he ever wants to see it again

I'm not a girl but I agree with this and believe your bf was a jerk. Do what you want to do. It's your body.

Tyler97
November 28th, 2014, 04:15 PM
I don't see why hair would be an issue, even with oral sex, if you're licking an area that has pee, discharge and very close to the butt hole a little hair isn't or at least shouldn't be a problem.

Manjuzze
November 28th, 2014, 06:50 PM
Hey y'all! So I've recently gotten out of a relationship where my bf refused to touch me in any sexual way if I head any hair at all in the downstairs region. So maybe it's me rebelling but i'm considering growing a full on bush. So my question is would this stop any of you guys out there from doing anything witha girl who had a bush or was he simply a jerk.

I would still do it.....but u have to be clean since sometimes smells get int the way

saxmatic16
November 28th, 2014, 11:15 PM
I've been in a relationship where he didn't like it either but it's your body so do what you want with it because if he wants to get any he needs to respect your body regardless

KellyNC
November 29th, 2014, 12:41 AM
I agree with most people that anybody who makes demands about their partner's pubic hair is acting very entitled and selfish. Nothing wrong with having a preference, but if they won't even touch you that problem is on them, not you.

Serioj8279
November 29th, 2014, 09:54 AM
I prefer nothing but if you had a little bit there I don't think I would mind that's not what it's about

Tyler97
November 29th, 2014, 10:15 AM
+1 it truly is I don't want to lick around with hair all over my lips and.... Ugh!

Now I could still be with a girl if she quit shaving, but would not have sex. Eventually I would get tired and want better so I would just break up. I mean you can do what you want with your own body, but he can decide what he wants and doesn't have to stay with you.

If you blame him for being a jerk, it was your fault he left. I mean just get a razor out and clean up that manliness of a vagina.

That's a bad attitude, adults are SUPPOSED to have pubic hair, it should be kept clean and maybe trimmed, but there's no need to shave and if a guy leaves her because of this, then he's not worth keeping.

Cyclist
December 3rd, 2014, 07:14 PM
yea he sounds like a jerk, my girlfriend is not clean shaven and i really couldnt care less! he probably just wanted what he might have seen in porn. sounds like your ex needs a reality check on how i assume a lot of girls are. the world isnt just one big porno. And its your body, its your call.

BKchickenFries
December 3rd, 2014, 07:26 PM
I would be very hesitant to eat a girl out who had a full bush. I would be fine eating her out if it was trimmed or shaved. I don't care about bush when it comes to just sex though

Taryn98
December 3rd, 2014, 07:28 PM
do what makes you comfortable. Don't worry about what others think. I personally hate any hair down there, but that shouldn't stop you.

Frogman1238
December 4th, 2014, 04:57 PM
I would say that it may not be the best idea to grow a full bush, I don't mind hair in that area (within reason). But I'd suggest keeping it trimmed at least somewhat, but it's up to you and some guys like it, some don't.

dpriest
December 4th, 2014, 09:04 PM
Keep what is comfortable to you, if you want to trim cool, if not cool to. I used to have a full bush, but recently decided to trim way down. I prefer my bf to be trimmed but I love him for him not his hair or lack thereof, and he feels the same way.

SonOfAnarchy
December 4th, 2014, 09:20 PM
Everybodys diffrent guys will like some wont I myself hate when a girl has a ton.of hair down there I find.it.disgusting and wont.do.anything sexual down there with a girl.with a bush again.thats just me and my preference

leahmae
December 5th, 2014, 07:22 AM
Everybodys diffrent guys will like some wont I myself hate when a girl has a ton.of hair down there I find.it.disgusting and wont.do.anything sexual down there with a girl.with a bush again.thats just me and my preference

In my personal opinion - with an attitude like that you don't deserve to be anywhere near her down there. How one keeps their pubic hair is a personal preference. Saying you won't do anything with a girl who has a bush is just plain rude.

Semi_IronMan
December 5th, 2014, 01:52 PM
A bush?... That's not sexy or sexually arousing at all. Keep it bush-free please

MechaSniper
December 5th, 2014, 04:50 PM
Technically its a personal choice. me i wouldnt care.

Meh Guy
December 5th, 2014, 10:58 PM
Oh please sweetie that was a guy who probably watches too much porn and doesn't get out much. I would do things with a girl even if she wasn't shaved. In fact, I like my girls to have a little fuzz down there. Besides, other than oral sex, which lets be honest you get hairs in your mouth from worse places, my penis is pretty much the only other thing going in there

SonOfAnarchy
December 7th, 2014, 01:42 PM
In my personal opinion - with an attitude like that you don't deserve to be anywhere near her down there. How one keeps their pubic hair is a personal preference. Saying you won't do anything with a girl who has a bush is just plain rude.

Um excuse me but thats my preference im sure theres things you find nasty or disgusting that u wont do and this is america I have the right to not do something I dont wanna do and the right to hate or dislike something

suzzysmith2012
December 21st, 2014, 03:08 AM
Its your body, not his, it's your choice for hair to be out not to be. Tell him you fine if he doesn't go down there, but don't let him pressure you to shave/wax, etc if you don't want ah.

Tony_777
December 27th, 2014, 08:41 AM
Hey y'all! So I've recently gotten out of a relationship where my bf refused to touch me in any sexual way if I head any hair at all in the downstairs region. So maybe it's me rebelling but i'm considering growing a full on bush. So my question is would this stop any of you guys out there from doing anything witha girl who had a bush or was he simply a jerk.

Well... I am the kind of person who just like to make a girl wet. So I don't care about the "bush" or not bush. The only thing that matters is that everything is cleaned up :P that's all

SethfromMI
December 27th, 2014, 04:21 PM
the guy was being a jerk. i prefer girls hairless down there, but it is your choice and it gives him no right to be a jerk about it

eli_w
December 27th, 2014, 06:40 PM
These responses are so disgustingly double standardizing lol. He's not a jerk, or a big baby.
Imagine if it was a girl not wanting to touch a guy because he was hairy down there. No one would be calling her a bitch

If he doesn't want to, he doesn't have to. Just like if you don't want to shave yourself, you don't have to.

Unless he's forcing you to shave your pubes, or pressuring you in any abusive way to do it, he's just a guy that's not interested in tons of hair on a woman.



PS you're probably not old enough to have sexual relations anyways if you feel the need to rebel against him and patronize him by growing tons of pubes just to spite him. Same can be said for anyone else

Ricky.h
December 28th, 2014, 02:06 AM
Hey y'all! So I've recently gotten out of a relationship where my bf refused to touch me in any sexual way if I head any hair at all in the downstairs region. So maybe it's me rebelling but i'm considering growing a full on bush. So my question is would this stop any of you guys out there from doing anything witha girl who had a bush or was he simply a jerk.

In all honesty I like my girls pussy to be shaved, but I love sex and I've had sex with a lot of girls and basically when we are fucking I don't care anymore because all I can think of is my dick in you, so I wouldn't care..

Nolf
December 28th, 2014, 03:35 AM
Every guy is different, and has different standards to get turned on. He sounds like kind if a jerk not even touching you if you weren't shaved, but if he genuinely couldn't take it then maybe he needs a certain kind of girl. Either way it sounds like his loss, because you have more of a right to your body than him. I personally have a hard time going down if the bush isn't at least trimmed, but that wouldn't stop me from having sex.

Tony_777
December 28th, 2014, 07:40 AM
Every guy is different, and has different standards to get turned on. He sounds like kind if a jerk not even touching you if you weren't shaved, but if he genuinely couldn't take it then maybe he needs a certain kind of girl. Either way it sounds like his loss, because you have more of a right to your body than him. I personally have a hard time going down if the bush isn't at least trimmed, but that wouldn't stop me from having sex.

I agree with you.
I do hope the OP feels better.

NickC
January 2nd, 2015, 09:03 PM
Hey y'all! So I've recently gotten out of a relationship where my bf refused to touch me in any sexual way if I head any hair at all in the downstairs region. So maybe it's me rebelling but i'm considering growing a full on bush. So my question is would this stop any of you guys out there from doing anything witha girl who had a bush or was he simply a jerk.

Honestly, it depends on the guy. Im gay and i shave my entire crotch mainly because it makes my dick look bigger but also because it looks nicer and cleaner and my bf loves it that way. But, most guys do not like it when a girl has hair down there. View it like this, if you were a guy, would you like to lick or touch a hairy pussy? I mean, come on, if i was str8, and a girl i was about to have sex with had hair down there, then that would be such a turn off for me. It is such a turn off for me when i see that a guy that im about to have sex with has pubes. I mean, the hair is disgusting. And all my str8 friends feel the same way as me and your bf does.

girladviser
January 5th, 2015, 02:58 PM
i dont think the same way im straight and i like girls with bush and hair on legs, arms and pits are not a problem. At girls it looks best when it shows out the pants :)

i let my bush grow too but if a girl find its to large im ready to trim but her i should always be many hair

gothy
January 5th, 2015, 03:52 PM
Do what you want. Get rid of him. He sounds lije he could only cause problems in the future. Especially if he is already telling you what to do with YOUR body. If i was you, id tell him to go fuck himself. Because no girl wants to fuck an abusive control freak.

mattsmith48
January 8th, 2015, 12:18 AM
Personally I prefer girl that shave. I shave so I expect the same from girls.
I dont know if I could have sex with girl that doesnt shave.

benbeny
January 9th, 2015, 12:07 PM
though everyone has preference, but that's your body and you have rights to do whatever you feel good on it.
so yeah maybe he's only a jerk if he doesn't allow you to grow the bush

Ninni
January 9th, 2015, 12:24 PM
simple answer, he was a jerk, don't give a damn about him

Becca029
January 10th, 2015, 01:58 AM
your body your choice

LITTLEANGEL19
January 17th, 2015, 10:32 AM
Hey y'all! So I've recently gotten out of a relationship where my bf refused to touch me in any sexual way if I head any hair at all in the downstairs region. So maybe it's me rebelling but i'm considering growing a full on bush. So my question is would this stop any of you guys out there from doing anything witha girl who had a bush or was he simply a jerk.

It's your body you do what you like, don't let anyone tell you what to do:)

Darth Vader
January 17th, 2015, 11:14 AM
I wouldn't care either way :)

HououinKiyoma
January 17th, 2015, 12:49 PM
Simply put, the guy was a jerk... Sorry for being repititive..

SevenRhye
January 17th, 2015, 06:15 PM
I prefer to have shaved, just becaise I feel better and I don't have to leave cum on bush, because I can't clean it...

Prettyboy_Jah
January 17th, 2015, 06:22 PM
When it comes to females, i highly dislike hair down their. i find it unattractive, oops!