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AlexanderTheGreat
September 28th, 2014, 04:18 PM
So, the main thing I look for in a girl is being weird. Not like being weird as in not showering for days and they have a weird obsession with tulip colored tulips. I mean being weird as in they are bonkers, spontaneous and crazy. You tick those boxes, you have found the key to my heart. I just can't find anyone like that. Everyone is just so boring and normal. They are either really creepy and freakish (in a bad way) or they are 'basic bitches'. There is only one person who is crazy enough but she's my bestie and I'm not ending that. I just seems like the people who pop up once in a blue moon who are those kind of bonkers, spontaneous and crazy people never turn up at all. I don't know where I'm going with this post. I just feel like expressing my thoughts on the internet would help, you people seem pretty nice and helpful.

Ambrosia
September 28th, 2014, 04:45 PM
You are still very young and have so much time to find that person and you will. I know that is a common, cliché answer, but we can't avoid the truth. I know from experience and others experience that this is a fact. You will date (or not date, it doesn't matter!) and eventually find that girl who fits you perfectly. Everyone obsesses about not finding that person who "clicks" with them. When you eventually stop obsessing it will go away and then it will happen.

My boyfriend is a man who needs his alone time. He is weird in so many good ways, not much of a social butterfly, and has a lot of quirks that most women can't relate to. He didn't think he would ever find a female who could match his quirks. He assumed that some day he would meet a woman and just have to deal with her being just like everyone else and he would have to be okay with it. It took years (and he didn't date at all during this time) before he met me. We click, we are weird, and we spend more time cracking some of the strangest jokes you can hear.

You will find someone. You just have to be patient. Once again, cliché, I know. But you can not hide from truth.