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Leemac1999
September 28th, 2014, 05:17 AM
I like this girl and I'm pretty confident she'll say yes but I get the feeling that I don't want to because I know that it will eventually end because we are only 15

Rdsxbaseballfan
September 28th, 2014, 05:32 AM
You don't know that it will eventually end, I know of 2 people who started dating in 8th grade when they were around 13/14 and now they are getting married at age 19/20...

and if it ends, why would it matter? You aren't just going to like/love this one girl, there will be plenty of other girls out there that will like/love you

My friends would tell me, Its better to regret something you did than regret something you didn't do

Semi_IronMan
September 28th, 2014, 08:21 AM
I like this girl and I'm pretty confident she'll say yes but I get the feeling that I don't want to because I know that it will eventually end because we are only 15

I say go for it, you don't know what will happen if you don't ask her out and you might regret not asking her out because you won't know what would have happened if you had. Who knows? She might be the one

Hideous
September 28th, 2014, 08:26 AM
Take chances, maybe she'll say yes and since you said you're pretty confident about it I say go for it.

Ambrosia
September 28th, 2014, 01:38 PM
99% of your relationships are bound to fail until you find that rare 1% that will be the love of your life. The entire point of dating as a teenager is to learn what you like in a person, what you don't like, and the proper way to treat a partner. The heartache is worth it in the end because without it you may never know what you actually want.

There is so much fun to be found in dating as a teenager. So many firsts to experience, puppy love, kissing, going out on dates that your parents have to drop you off at until you get a car. You may not always remember your partner when you get older, but those experiences will always stick with you.

Please take the chance. It won't be one you regret, even if it ends.

sweetcake
October 14th, 2014, 10:32 AM
99% of your relationships are bound to fail until you find that rare 1% that will be the love of your life. The entire point of dating as a teenager is to learn what you like in a person, what you don't like, and the proper way to treat a partner. The heartache is worth it in the end because without it you may never know what you actually want.
Wow.. This really opened my eyes. Thanks to you I have a whole new perspective on dating. All this time I kept my heart to myself because I don't feel the attraction, hence, I keep turning people down. Maybe now I'll start opening up more and try new things.

Btw, I say go for it! Optimism is a turn on:) Goodluck

Ambrosia
October 17th, 2014, 03:06 PM
Wow.. This really opened my eyes. Thanks to you I have a whole new perspective on dating. All this time I kept my heart to myself because I don't feel the attraction, hence, I keep turning people down. Maybe now I'll start opening up more and try new things.

That is all the fun in being a teenager. Glad that put it into a new perspective for you, though. I know from experience that it all pays off.

Laraa.01
October 17th, 2014, 06:06 PM
You really gotta live a little. yeah you're young but if you don't ask her out you'll never know and never be with her. If she's really the right girl for you, it will last the course. If not, it was never to be :)

SethfromMI
October 18th, 2014, 09:59 AM
what if she is the one for you. you will never know if your nor willing to even give it a chance

tcjonvt
October 18th, 2014, 04:27 PM
99% of your relationships are bound to fail until you find that rare 1% that will be the love of your life. The entire point of dating as a teenager is to learn what you like in a person, what you don't like, and the proper way to treat a partner. The heartache is worth it in the end because without it you may never know what you actually want.

There is so much fun to be found in dating as a teenager. So many firsts to experience, puppy love, kissing, going out on dates that your parents have to drop you off at until you get a car. You may not always remember your partner when you get older, but those experiences will always stick with you.

Please take the chance. It won't be one you regret, even if it ends.

What he said ;) I love learning something new every day :) Haha