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[Leemac1999]

I'm sure this get posted all the time but what they hay.Im 15 and I like a girl. she is in some of my classes but sit too far away in most of them to start a convo.She gets a different bus and I don't have her number either and even if I did I am NOT good at keeping up a convo up and going .When I do talk to her we have a laugh . Neither of us has had a proper relationship. I'd say I'm quite cute (not to blow my own trumpet) but I'm not ugly or the best looking either. I have no experience with talking or being with a girl . I need ANY advice with this situation , I really like her and I want a relationship with her.

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

You seem to be in the same situation as me last year except it was a boy and I couldn't get myself to talk with him for more than a few seconds at a time. My social skills are also very poor and I rely too much on the other person to keep the conversations going.

You could ask some of her friends if you could get her number, if they ask why, tell them you have a question on some homework or something. Or you could tell some of your friends about her and have them help you. Keeping a conversation going is always easier in a group

[Leemac1999]

You seem to be in the same situation as me last year except it was a boy and I couldn't get myself to talk with him for more than a few seconds at a time. My social skills are also very poor and I rely too much on the other person to keep the conversations going.

You could ask some of her friends if you could get her number, if they ask why, tell them you have a question on some homework or something. Or you could tell some of your friends about her and have them help you. Keeping a conversation going is always easier in a group My friends know I like her but I have TERRIBLE banter

[Southside]

Try to maybe see her at a afterschool activity or around town?

I had the same problem with my current GF, I never knew how to hold a convo with her or what even to talk about. If you're not a good talker, be a great listener, usually girls have a lot to say. Ask her about her day, school work, what she likes to do, or if she has anything planned for later on.

To get her number, have a good friend(Who will help you out and not embarrass you), get it for you.

[Leemac1999]

Try to maybe see her at a afterschool activity or around town?

I had the same problem with my current GF, I never knew how to hold a convo with her or what even to talk about. If you're not a good talker, be a great listener, usually girls have a lot to say. Ask her about her day, school work, what she likes to do, or if she has anything planned for later on.

To get her number, have a good friend(Who will help you out and not embarrass you), get it for you.When or if I get her number how should I start the convo or say ?

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[ChrisTJ]

Basically think of something you could justifiably start a random convo with her about. Maybe a new teacher or a new class you are both taking. Ask her how she likes the teacher/ class and that's a way to start a conversation. It;s sometimes hard to find a way from that to asking for her number but it's a start!

[Rdsxbaseballfan]

When or if I get her number how should I start the convo or say ?
Start with the typical, how was your day? and see where it goes from there, most of the time, if they are interested they will help keep the conversation going by asking a question as well, but you could also ask a follow up question to an answer she gives to get her talking more about it. It will get easier the more you talk to her...

the complete opposite happened for me, It was easy for me to talk to him when we first met, we talked all the time but when I figured out I liked him more than a friend, I lost all social skills with him and wouldn't approach him...

It will be easier to talk to her if you go up and talk to her as a friend rather than thinking she is the one for you because that is when you get nervous and say weird things. You don't have to give up your feelings for her, just put them aside for a while when you have the chance to talk to her so you can get to know her better and then possibly let her know your feelings

[poiuytrewq]

My friends know I like her but I have TERRIBLE banter
Please don't say banter. It's WAY overused!