What do I do?

[Coolguy10890]

What do I do if I'm asked by ppl if I'm gay or not? Lately 2 guys asked me "Are you gay?" Luckily the first guy told me he was Bi, so I felt comfortable of telling him. But there was a 2nd guy in math today who asked if I was gay… I'm pretty sure he's St8… and I was like to him: "Why?" And he was like: "Just, are you gay???" And I tried avoiding the question and in the end I lied by telling him No. Now when I look back on it, avoiding that question probably raised suspicion… but, anyway guys what do I say to ppl who ask me if I'm gay, if I don't feel comfortable telling them but they are pressuring me to tell them? I'm not out to the public… since I'm personally still questioning myself, and I know I'm not straight…

Lemme know! What should I say if ppl continue to ask?

[Cognizant]

I'm personally comfortable telling anyone who asks me if I'm gay; even if they're just asking it to be a dickhead, I'll still say "yes, and if you have a problem with that you can suck my dick."

But if you're not sure how comfortable your community is with homosexuality, I'd probably wait a bit.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I've been asked this tons of times. But when actually coming out to people, I never let them ask a question and me respond, I don't know why, but that way I'm left feeling vulnerable.

[Coolguy10890]

But if you're not sure how comfortable your community is with homosexuality, I'd probably wait a bit.

But if they are expecting an answer what do I say?

[Cognizant]

But if they are expecting an answer what do I say?

You don't have to say anything you're not comfortable saying.

[Croconaw]

Tell them it's none of their business.

[The Flash]

Depends on how you feel. If you think they should know, and you feel comfortable telling them, then by all means, tell them.
If you're not comfortable, lead them away from the question, like tell them someone's calling you or just bring up a different subject that's relevant. Or tell them you're not sure. If you think something bad may result in you telling them the truth, don't tell them.

[Abyssal Echo]

I'm out so most people know. If someone asks I say yes.
It's up to you if you're comfortable then tell them yes if not you can say no, avoid the question or tell them it's none of their business.

[Big O]

If you don't know what your sexuality truelly is then there is no sense in telling if you may not be later

[James Dean]

Tell them what you feel comfortable responding to. I guess if it's a guy you like and you are trying to see if you can be together then I understand. If it isn't a friend or someone I love and trust, it's none of their business and they don't need to know.

[Perfectly Flawed]

Most people are just curious about that stuff and mean no harm. Telling them usually won't involve conflict; however, if you know they are bigoted telling them may not be the proper way to do things.