Double Standard

[Ashley2000]

Why is it ok for guys to make comments about girls boobs(how they like them bigger), but when a girl says she likes bigger dicks, she is either a slut or hurting the fragile male ego? Every one has preferences, and neither boys nor girls should be judged for those preferences! I am not afraid to say I like larger penises! :yes:

[Taryn98]

I think size is meaningless, whether it's penis size or breast size. If I have an emotional connection with them, I have better sex. If there is no connection, then the biggest dick or nicest boobs won't make it better.
And honestly I could care less what others think or say.

[NotShortButFunsized]

What taryn said. Size is pretty meaningless except for the fact people love to compare and find any opportunities to outdo someone else. Preferences are preferences, there's nothing to be ashamed about so long as you don't use them to belittle or look down on those who don't satisfy them

Edit: as for the double standard existing though, i agree one exists in this context. nobody likes to be judged no matter how stupid the reason, but if its okay for one side to complain and feel fragile I don't see why the other cant too. same thing if boys have preferences, girls should be allowed that as well.

[MedusaX]

Why is it ok for guys to make comments about girls boobs(how they like them bigger), but when a girl says she likes bigger dicks, she is either a slut or hurting the fragile male ego? Every one has preferences, and neither boys nor girls should be judged for those preferences! I am not afraid to say I like larger penises! :yes:

Penis size isn't the same as breast size. Having sex with a girl with a flat chest is the same as if she had big breasts. While on the other hand having sex with a boy with a micro penis is not the same as having sex with the same boy, but with an average or big penis.
That's how I see it at least.

[Daniella98]

Its nice when a girl has the guts to say she likes big dicks. Guys egos are often fragile. I dont even think its cruel to have that preference. Guy have many preferences

[Gottaloveaginger14]

I honesty agree that there is quite a double standard on this issue. i dont think there is anything wrong with prefering a large penis although i done think penia size should stop you from enjoying sex with someone you love and have an emotional connection with. i honestly prefer a man who's small when he's soft but is a grower. there's just something about feeling him grow in your mouth that i love

[butterfly00]

I think there is a double standard but there shouldn't be.

[ChrisTJ]

The double standard is all over the place. Girls are called sluts for liking sex but guys are called studs or jocks or whatever. Everyone is entitled to celebrate their sexuality in any way they wish whether male, female, agender or whatever.

[Renata_cmp]

To be honest, if a girl says she don't like fat guys or she only likes muscular guys it's ok, but if a guy says he only like slim girls he's an asshole and a mysogin so... I'll say in this particular case, nobody wins. I think both afirmation complete bullshit though.

[biancachica]

I think size doesnt matter and if you love the person you are with you wont mind if they have smaller boobs or a smaller penis. However some people do have preferences and prefer bigger boobs or bigger penises. both guys and girls shouldnt be judged for what they prefer.

[Karkat]

I personally will pick emotional compatibility over parts anytime. I mean, there's nothing wrong with having a preference, but IMO there are more important things to look for in a person.

[Juana]

Penis size isn't the same as breast size. Having sex with a girl with a flat chest is the same as if she had big breasts. While on the other hand having sex with a boy with a micro penis is not the same as having sex with the same boy, but with an average or big penis.
That's how I see it at least.
Girls and boys have their preferences, but maybe there are boys who think that's different to have sex with a girl with small breasts comparing to girls with bigger breasts?!!! I mean it in a psychological way, so in their head.

You're talking about a micro penis, but that's something different than a small penis; men who have that can maybe go for penis enlargement.

I agree with Biancachica that when you're in love with somebody, it shouldn't be important what size of penis or breasts the person has.

[allisonmyers]

your right its a double standard and besides it hurts their feelings lol

[Anne323]

totally agree same as a guy who has a lot of sex is a stud an a girl who has a lot of sex is a whore. Life is full of questions

[Renata_cmp]

Double standards sucks, and there are totally on both sides.(unfair stuff for girls and unfair stuff for boys)

[Elena_]

I'm only 14 , so I've never had sex ... (and I've never had a boyfriend :( )
So , I don't mind about the penises size ... But , I agree with you : if a boy goes out with a different girl each day , he is "the boss" , but if a girl does it , she is a "slut" ...
At least , that's what happens in Spain

[Renata_cmp]

honestly i don't see the point of going out with a different person each day anyway, girl of boy so... If you like doing that (and you can!) good for you, i don't care, and im sure a lot of persons thinks the same way.

btw, if you start dating a guy that you like, things are doing great, he's nice, caring and stuff, but you figure out he has a small penis, but you only like big ones, would you dump him?

[Pensive]

Penis size isn't the same as breast size. Having sex with a girl with a flat chest is the same as if she had big breasts. While on the other hand having sex with a boy with a micro penis is not the same as having sex with the same boy, but with an average or big penis.
That's how I see it at least.

It's all about being sensitive to the emotional impact your words may have on another individual. So in private say whatever your preferance; but don't be the arse who says that to a guy/boyfriend. Same applies to guys telling girls they like bigger breasts.

On that note, I do agree with them not being the same, as stated above.

[Emmaaa]

The whole double standard thing is wrong....I believe everyone is entitled to their own preferences and their own comments and shouldn't be judged by others for saying so.

[ScottieDog]

The double standard is really bad around where I live, girls are judged so harshly for even speaking openly about sex while guys get encouraged :(. It really does my head in :(

[KellyNC]

I agree in principal that size isn't really all that meaningful but understand there are some girls who see it as a fairly large factor, and in the same way that some guys might see breast size. Overall I feel the double standard just goes back to society having an expectation of men to be kind of shallow about attractiveness/sex and women to be more emotional and to be more willing to overlook someone's shortcomings physically.

While not specific to penis size, I think you can easily see double standards by how we react to what we see on TV. For example I remember a few months ago there was controversy as people serious questioned the plausibility of an episode of "Girls" where the admittedly average-looking female protagonist Hannah (Lena Dunham) has an affair with a handsome male Doctor (whose name escapes me). Yet nobody would ever seriously ask the opposite question, despite (or maybe because of) the fact that it's far more regular to see in the media.

[Elena_]

honestly i don't see the point of going out with a different person each day anyway, girl of boy so... If you like doing that (and you can!) good for you, i don't care, and im sure a lot of persons thinks the same way.

btw, if you start dating a guy that you like, things are doing great, he's nice, caring and stuff, but you figure out he has a small penis, but you only like big ones, would you dump him?

Well , of course I wouldn't do that , but I know some people who do it (well , maybe not each day ; it was an expression - I was meaning short relationships) : for example , a friend of mine is dating actually three girls at the same time!! I think that's awful ...

[Renata_cmp]

I agree in principal that size isn't really all that meaningful but understand there are some girls who see it as a fairly large factor, and in the same way that some guys might see breast size. Overall I feel the double standard just goes back to society having an expectation of men to be kind of shallow about attractiveness/sex and women to be more emotional and to be more willing to overlook someone's shortcomings physically.

While not specific to penis size, I think you can easily see double standards by how we react to what we see on TV. For example I remember a few months ago there was controversy as people serious questioned the plausibility of an episode of "Girls" where the admittedly average-looking female protagonist Hannah (Lena Dunham) has an affair with a handsome male Doctor (whose name escapes me). Yet nobody would ever seriously ask the opposite question, despite (or maybe because of) the fact that it's far more regular to see in the media.

You mean an "ugly" guy with a "pretty" girl? I don't see that very often... in fact i don't think i ever saw that.

[Juana]

You mean an "ugly" guy with a "pretty" girl? I don't see that very often... in fact i don't think i ever saw that.

They say always that you see quite often an ugly man with a pretty woman, but never an ugly woman with a pretty man!!!

That should be the evidence that men think that attractiveness is much more important than women think!!!!

[Renata_cmp]

i agree with you, although shallowness definately doesn't have a gender.