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[Gangsturr10]

well, I don't know I know that I like girls but, when ever I j/o I always go to a gay website, because I don't know I just don't really enjoy watching girls have sex, I just don't know I'm confused. Its worse because about two or three years ago my brother started spreading a rumor around his school about me, and its getting me even more confused, someone please HELP!!!!!!

[The Batman]

What was the rumor your brother spread? Don't try and label yourself now just go along with life and when you get older and more mature you'll understand who you are.

[scatman]

Being gay is a physical attraction to other men its common for teans to be confused about their sexuality.
Also you might not be old enough to decide that yet you dont know what will happen as you get older

[Serenity]

Being gay is a physical attraction to other men

No it's not. Being gay is when you have a lasting physical and emotional attraction to people of the same gender- as in the desire for a relationship with them, not just sex.

Yes, it's normal for teens to be confused about who they are and are not attracted to. Just remember these two things: 1) Your sexuality isn't determined solely on what turns you on. Just because gay porn excites you, it doesn't mean you yourself are gay. 2) You by no means have to force yourself into a label. As has been said before, it's totally normal to have confusing and conflicting emotions/attractions right now. Give yourself some time to grow, both physically and emotionally before setting in stone exactly who you are. The teenage years are a time of development in many ways, so you can't expect to just know how you're going to turn out.

Short version: Don't worry about it- just try and enjoy what's left of non-adulthood while you've got it :daisy: