I can't stop thinking about her

[xilegendsn1p3r]

Hello all. I've come to this site in search of help/advice. I'm starting to go a bit insane. I'm sure we've all heard this story a million times. So here it goes...

I met this girl in one of my classes at school (university) and I literally cannot stop thinking about her. She has the most beautiful eyes and a smile that I've ever seen. I was immediately attracted to her from the first day I saw her. We talk and say hello a few times a week. I've literally fallen for this girl. I never felt this way before because whenever I talk to her I get happy and little things like walking with her or sitting next to her or having a conversation make me feel good. I genuinely like her and I'm going crazy for her. I try to show her by smiling and making eye contact and keeping conversations alive. But I think I'm not doing a good job. We make eye contact and she smiles back but I just don't know.

The issue is I can't really tell her I like her or get to know her on a personal level because I am extremely shy and get nervous. I've always been like this. I never was "smooth with the ladies" because I have no idea what I'm doing. My heart rate goes up and I almost start mumbling. I did this before and I felt like a complete idiot. I don't want this one to get away because I really really like her.

Also I'm not trying to be creepy or a stalker by saying I think about her all the time. I'm just a normal guy and I'm in a deep crush.

Also I don't know if this is important but I'm 6'2 and she is short. I LOVE short girls.

Halp.

If you read this thank you for your time.

[Croconaw]

You can just start a conversation with her. If you have any classes with her at school, then you can ask her what the homework was. That can be used as an excuse to talk to her. Height shouldn't matter much. It's not a big deal. I'm sure she'll think you're just being friendly if you say hi to her. That is a good start.

[ChrisTJ]

Yup I agree with Feraligatr, try and strike up a conversation about something random that will get you talking. As long as you stay away from cheesy chat up lines you should be fine. I can't speak for 50% of the population but as a girl I like guys who are a little confident (not too over confident "I'm God" types) and guys who are honest and seem legit. As long as you come across as a nice, genuine guy, you've got a chance.

[xilegendsn1p3r]

Thanks for the replies. We hung out after class one day and she mentioned briefly that she has a boyfriend. I couldn't believe it. Idk what to do.

[Miserabilia]

Ugh I had the same problem, I'M FINALLY OVER IT THOUGH.

I became so crushed on this girl that I couldn't talk to her which is why things never worked out. I couldn't think of anything els and I basicly became obsessed and misareable.

[xilegendsn1p3r]

^the thing is we actually talk a lot in class and through text blah blah blah. I'm literally falling for her and it's driving me insane

[CosmicNoodle]

Ugh I had the same problem, I'M FINALLY OVER IT THOUGH.

I became so crushed on this girl that I couldn't talk to her which is why things never worked out. I couldn't think of anything els and I basicly became obsessed and misareable.

Yup, that happens to me, it's not like I easily like a girl, it takes a very specific and unusual sort of person to spark my intrest, but when it happens I become obsessed and when I can't have them I just end up miserable.

*creeper allert!*

^the thing is we actually talk a lot in class and through text blah blah blah. I'm literally falling for her and it's driving me insane

Try to interact with her outside of school, make the mover from "work friend" to real friend, that way yoiur chances are significantly improved, plus it allows you to have more interaction.

[xilegendsn1p3r]

We still talk at school and in class and I love the little things like walking with her to class and sitting next to her. It just makes me feel good and she brightens up my day. I have never met a girl in my life that has made me feel this way. At this point I have decided to hold my true feelings inside and see how it plays out. I figured that just being good friends for now is good because I'm always happy around her. Because I know damn well if I tell her how I really feel it's just going to ruin the small friendship that we have and make it awkward and I couldn't live with myself if that happened.

[Karkat]

We still talk at school and in class and I love the little things like walking with her to class and sitting next to her. It just makes me feel good and she brightens up my day. I have never met a girl in my life that has made me feel this way. At this point I have decided to hold my true feelings inside and see how it plays out. I figured that just being good friends for now is good because I'm always happy around her. Because I know damn well if I tell her how I really feel it's just going to ruin the small friendship that we have and make it awkward and I couldn't live with myself if that happened.

This seems like a good idea. Good luck. :)

[xilegendsn1p3r]

This seems like a good idea. Good luck. :)

Thanks. I hope it is

[xilegendsn1p3r]

Starting to realize that I probably have no chance. I mean I still like talking to her and she is literally the only thing I look forward to. Just seeing her smile and talking to her makes me the happiest guy in the world.

I've also noticed that I'm starting to get a little depressed. I'm planning to tell her how I feel near the end of the semester and then just try and still be friends. That's all I care about right now.

It's really taken a toll on me because I've never met a girl that makes me feel this way. I just don't know anymore.