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Bilbo Baggins
September 22nd, 2014, 05:26 PM
When I say it, i mean a real relationship. Honetsly, I dont want to get into a relationship at 13, or at my school in general. But, at the same time, I really want to be in a real relationship. Not some thing where we just talk and say we're together, i mean something where we go places and hold hands and hug, and do some sexual things togther, when we're both ready, but at the same time, I don't think im going to find a girlfriend, cause, ( No offesne to any Catholics like myslef) I go to a catholic school ,and it just seems unlikely anything like that would happen... Im sorry for the rant... I just kinda want some words of comfort i guess..

Elysium
September 22nd, 2014, 05:27 PM
Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

ChrisTJ
September 22nd, 2014, 06:40 PM
I don't think you can ever say that you'll never find yourself a relationship. Going to a Catholic school certainly won't stop you. Many people who go to Catholic school find partners there or outside school through sports clubs or youth groups or even people that live near them. Just go out, be confident, talk to people your age and you might find someone interested. I found a guy I dated through something outside of school so I'm sure you can too. :)

All the best! :)

Melodic
September 22nd, 2014, 08:39 PM
When I was 13, I didn't really get most relationships either with others my age. I still really don't get relationships with others my age. But like I stated, you are only 13 and have plenty of years to find a good relationship with the same standards you have.

Karkat
September 24th, 2014, 09:15 PM
You're wise for not wanting a relationship at 13. I wish I didn't. :P

And when I was your age, believe me, I thought I'd never be in one as well, but I've been in two notable ones, which were pretty amazing. I mean, results may vary, but it'll happen eventually, one way or another. Just don't focus on it. Focus on building yourself as a person, so you can be a great partner to someone when the time does come. :)