So this girl I like...

[jjmcray]

is confusing me...

i think she likes me too, and i have taken her out on a date and stuff... but she is confusing me... I know that I dont have the right to say what she should and shouldn't do... but I do have a right to feel the way I feel...

I already told her I like her and stuff, and she keeps posting myspace bulletins and stuff hinting that she likes me back... but the problem is she keeps going out to places with other guys, but it makes me feel weird... and again, I know I don't have the right to stop her from hanging out with other guys, I just feel confused...

Anyone got any advice?

[steven]

all of the advice i can give you is to ask her if she likes you, she will either say yes or no. if she says yes, then ask her why she goes out with the other guys alot and say how you feel, and that you want to spend more time with her because you love her.

Steve

[jaymacs]

She's probably playing hard to get. Or making herself seem more attractive. She even could be going out with other guys to make you jealous. It probably makes her feel better as well, knowing that there's a couple guys that are interested in her. Or of course, she could just be friends with them. Either way, i feel like this girl either wants to make you feel like this, or doesn't know you have deeper feelings for her.

I know this bothers you, but like you said, it shouldn't, and you shouldn't act like it does in front of her.

I'd say ask her out on another date. It'll show you don't care about the other guys, and you may get a date with a girl you like!

But if you don't feel anything special with this girl, as in, you don't share a spark, she may just use you as a pawn. You should be staying away from drama :-P

Telling this girl you love her and saying you don't like it when she goes out with other guys gives off a jealous vibe, and that's not what anyone's really looking for. She should be free to do what she wants...but so should you.

Take this opportunity to meet other girls, even just as friends. I mean, you're not tied down, and if you've already got her in mind she should know that. And she can't get jealous; there shouldn't be a double-standard. In fact, the harder to get you play, the more attracted she'll be to you.

[scatman]

your not alone....................

[ThatCanadianGuy]

lol definitely I agree with scatman if you know what I mean...

[scassie]

i go out with diffrnt guys cause i like guys to talk to and stuff. i don't want anyone to think they own me and if they say i cant go out with anyone else i dump em. but if the really right guy comes along then i will just be his but till then i play around.
are you trying to own her and r u the jealous kind of guy?
i went with this 1 guy for 6 months and he told people he owned me. well NOT!!!!
so just keep trying.

[Mzor203]

Just remember that some of these guys just might be her fiends, and that even if she likes you, you're not the only person in the world. Everyone has the right to have friends.