Feeling jealous

[ozymandias98]

The other day I was at a party with a load of friends, and this girl I like was there too. She (like everyone) was quite drunk and ended up kissing this guy. As I said she was drunk and it didn't really mean anything but I can't help feeling quite jealous. Is this weird that I'm feeling this way?

[Croconaw]

She probably didn't mean it because she was drunk. It's not weird to feel that way because it's only natural that you'd feel jealous. I think you're looking too much into it. If she was drunk, you really don't know her true feelings for that guy.

[Body odah Man]

The other day I was at a party with a load of friends, and this girl I like was there too. She (like everyone) was quite drunk and ended up kissing this guy. As I said she was drunk and it didn't really mean anything but I can't help feeling quite jealous. Is this weird that I'm feeling this way?

No, not at all. I've been in the same situation and you cannot help but feel jealous.

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah it's quite normal to feel a little jealous in that situation, I think most people would even if they don't admit it.

[ozymandias98]

She probably didn't mean it because she was drunk. It's not weird to feel that way because it's only natural that you'd feel jealous. I think you're looking too much into it. If she was drunk, you really don't know her true feelings for that guy.

Yeah she doesn't know him that well. There was this other guy at the party who I'm pretty sure she has feelings for, but it wasn't that guy that she kissed.

[superstarB]

She probably didn't mean to do it, i say it is reasonable to be jealous in this situation.

[Babs]

I think it's normal to feel that way. I would be jealous too. Even though it probably didn't mean anything, it's normal to want to be in the position of the one someone you like is kissing.

[Warrior]

Yeah we've all experienced similar stuff. That's part of the reason I dislike drinking so much, its a huge turn off for me in a girl, I don't like having to deal with it. I'd recommend maybe saying something about it, but once a girl knows you like her your chances drop to just about 0. Great way to get friendzoned. Bad situation all around, but it might help to confront her about it any way.

[Buddy 912]

If you let this cause you to be jealous, you are not ready for a serious relationship.

[Body odah Man]

Why? It is very jealousy inducing

[Lost in the Echo]

Of course it's normal to be jealous in a situation like this. You obviously would have preferred for her to kiss you, rather than this other guy.
If she does promiscuous things like this often, though, then I'd say it's not worth pursuing any kind of relationship with her.