View Full Version : Question for bi guys....
Cognizant
September 20th, 2014, 08:07 PM
Picture this. In 15-30 years time, you meet a wonderful girl. You marry her and have kids with her and your kids become teens who understand the concept of homosexuality.
Let's also say that for all intensive purposes you still have strong attraction for guys.
Would you tell your kids that you're bi?
NikosamA98
September 21st, 2014, 09:54 PM
Yeah I would do it eventually when they start asking about puberty and love and such
Unde4dmau5
September 21st, 2014, 11:25 PM
I agree with Aaron's statement. I mean, I'm sure the children would find out eventually, but I don't think it should matter until they reach puberty and begin to wonder about those things.
Lovelife090994
September 22nd, 2014, 02:20 AM
Yes. They'd find out eventually. Although I'd probably have an open marriage since I really don't see myself settling with just a woman or just one person.
lionpinewood
September 22nd, 2014, 08:18 AM
yeah, why not. wait while they are at an age where they can understand the concept completely and tell them. your kids will be well educated, kind and tolerant human beings. but don't forget to tell your wife first lol :P
Rdsxbaseballfan
September 26th, 2014, 06:36 PM
Of course I would, in 15-30 years homosexuality and bisexuality will be more accepted than it is now.
If I were to settle with a girl, although I haven't really been attracted to one as of recent, I would teach my children from birth that homosexuality is normal and when they get old enough to understand it, I would tell them
Hudor
September 27th, 2014, 01:47 PM
yes i would. I would also see to it that my kids don't view homosexuality as a big deal.
CosmicNoodle
September 27th, 2014, 03:01 PM
If I have kids, the concept of sexualiry will be introduced at a young age,hopefully allowing them to grow up being accepting.
And I'm not goi g to make a big show of commingnout to my own kids or anything, the chances are it will just come up in conversation one day or they will figure it out.
Semi_IronMan
September 28th, 2014, 09:11 AM
I personally wouldn't, but I think its a good idea
Throwaway24
November 13th, 2014, 02:25 PM
I just kinda go with the idea of if it comes up dont hide it but if it dont come up then it dont need mentioning
SethfromMI
November 13th, 2014, 10:11 PM
eh it depends. if the time was right to tell them I would. otherwise I don't think I would tell them just to tell them, even when they were older . I mean I am not ashamed about it and I am not in the closet, but it is not something I just tell everyone to tell them .
if i thought it would help them then sure, I would
CrazyPerson101
November 14th, 2014, 12:46 AM
It really depends, If I feel the need to I will, if not I'll keep it to myself.
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