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JusticeandMercy
September 20th, 2014, 06:03 PM
Doesn't really sound like much of a problem, except I don't really like school dances. I don't even know what to do at a dance. I mean, there's the obvious answer of "dance" but...? I don't know anything about dancing and I'm absolutely awful in social situations.
She says it's okay if I don't want to go, but I don't want to take it away from her if she wants to go.
I also don't even know what you're supposed to wear to homecoming.

CosmicNoodle
September 20th, 2014, 06:05 PM
Wear something smart but casual, that way your good for all situations, and if she wants to dance, just tell her you've never done it and let here lead, it'l be easy, even more so if it's a slow dance.
Just keep chilled and all with go well.....probably

JusticeandMercy
September 20th, 2014, 08:58 PM
Wear something smart but casual, that way your good for all situations, and if she wants to dance, just tell her you've never done it and let here lead, it'l be easy, even more so if it's a slow dance.
Just keep chilled and all with go well.....probablyOkay, I'll do that.
Hopefully it goes well.

Cognizant
September 21st, 2014, 12:23 AM
I'm definitely not the most socially inclined, and most school dances are hell for me. So definitely don't force yourself if you don't want to go. In fact, it might even be cute to have your own little makeshift dance at your house with her and maybe some other friends who are "too cool" to go to the school dance.

That's just my thoughts though because I'm a sucker for those kind of little acts of cuteness :P

mrpieface2
September 21st, 2014, 12:27 AM
Don't force yourself if you don't want to go. You don't have to go if you don't want to. If you do go though, try to have fun with your girlfriend!

PinkFloyd
September 21st, 2014, 12:33 AM
I would usually say do what makes you happy, and granted that that is very important, it's probably a good idea to go to this dance with her. I'd say just wear something nice but not too nice and copy what others are doing. Odds are, it's not going to be dancing the whole time. You guys will probably get bored and leave early. Another thing, if there s dancing, be very careful what you do, because usually schools are really uptight about where hands can go. My gf was kicked out of Homecoming last year for grinding.

JusticeandMercy
September 21st, 2014, 01:07 AM
I'm definitely not the most socially inclined, and most school dances are hell for me. So definitely don't force yourself if you don't want to go. In fact, it might even be cute to have your own little makeshift dance at your house with her and maybe some other friends who are "too cool" to go to the school dance.

That's just my thoughts though because I'm a sucker for those kind of little acts of cuteness :PThat actually does sound cute in theory, but I feel like it'd be really weird in practice. :rolleyes:

Don't force yourself if you don't want to go. You don't have to go if you don't want to. If you do go though, try to have fun with your girlfriend!I told myself the same thing. Personally, I'd rather just go to Steak 'n' Shake or Dairy Queen or something, but I also want to make my girlfriend happy. If we do go to homecoming, though, I'll do my best to have fun.

I would usually say do what makes you happy, and granted that that is very important, it's probably a good idea to go to this dance with her. I'd say just wear something nice but not too nice and copy what others are doing. Odds are, it's not going to be dancing the whole time. You guys will probably get bored and leave early. Another thing, if there s dancing, be very careful what you do, because usually schools are really uptight about where hands can go. My gf was kicked out of Homecoming last year for grinding.I'll keep that in mind. Wouldn't want to get myself kicked out.