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Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 12:19 AM
This might seem a bit loserish, but my first and only kiss was fucking terrible. I have no idea how and would like some help.
Cognizant
September 20th, 2014, 12:38 AM
Honestly, in my experience just go with what you think is good right then and there. Pacing is key - don't move too fast and don't put tongue in too early or it might catch your partner off guard.
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 12:43 AM
Honestly, in my experience just go with what you think is good right then and there. Pacing is key - don't move too fast and don't put tongue in too early or it might catch your partner off guard.
That's the thing, I don't know how to do any of that. Like, put tounge in or anything, I don't know how.
ChrisTJ
September 20th, 2014, 08:14 AM
Just go with the flow and it will come. Tips are don't put your tongue in too early and avoid 'daggering' with your tongue. Your tongue movements should be slow and steady. You'll get yhe hang of it :)
mrpieface2
September 20th, 2014, 04:34 PM
My friend gave me a tip when before i had my first kiss. "Don't think. Feel." Dont think about being "perfect" or anything. Just do what your body does.. If that makes sense?
Hope this helps!
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 05:09 PM
My friend gave me a tip when before i had my first kiss. "Don't think. Feel." Dont think about being "perfect" or anything. Just do what your body does.. If that makes sense?
Hope this helps!
Yeah it does. Thanks.
Karkat
September 20th, 2014, 05:16 PM
Go slowly, and don't worry about being perfect- no one is at first. Believe me. I thought I was going to be a lost cause entirely, and I probably still suck, but I'm a lot better now that I've given myself the chance to improve.
Also, make sure the other person knows you're gonna kiss them, and wants to be kissed. Especially for the first time. Like that might sound really unsexy/unromantic, but getting an off response because you misread signals is even worse. Protip.
You might even want to hold off on tongue until you get confident with moving your lips and mouth. There's no need to rush. :) Like others have said, just go with the flow, and don't think about it too much. Be in the moment, don't worry about what comes next. It'll come to you.
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 05:19 PM
Go slowly, and don't worry about being perfect- no one is at first. Believe me. I thought I was going to be a lost cause entirely, and I probably still suck, but I'm a lot better now that I've given myself the chance to improve.
Also, make sure the other person knows you're gonna kiss them, and wants to be kissed. Especially for the first time. Like that might sound really unsexy/unromantic, but getting an off response because you misread signals is even worse. Protip.
You might even want to hold off on tongue until you get confident with moving your lips and mouth. There's no need to rush. :) Like others have said, just go with the flow, and don't think about it too much. Be in the moment, don't worry about what comes next. It'll come to you.
Alright. Thanks for the help. Now I gotta get a girl... :)
Karkat
September 20th, 2014, 05:20 PM
Alright. Thanks for the help. Now I gotta get a girl... :)
No problem! (Find one for me too, please? [I kid])
TheN3rdyOutcast
September 20th, 2014, 05:42 PM
This might seem a bit loserish, but my first and only kiss was fucking terrible. I have no idea how and would like some help.
Don't worry, I'm worse off than you on the loser scale. I haven't even had my first kiss yet.
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 06:36 PM
Don't worry, I'm worse off than you on the loser scale. I haven't even had my first kiss yet.
That just means you're waiting for the right person.
I found that person and fucked it up.
ksdnfkfr
September 20th, 2014, 06:37 PM
Remarkably I've done a lot of kissing with one person. If you can find someone who hasn't done much if any experience, then it's just a matter of practicing together. Learning how with someone who is learning also is fun.
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 06:40 PM
Remarkably I've done a lot of kissing with one person. If you can find someone who hasn't done much if any experience, then it's just a matter of practicing together. Learning how with someone who is learning also is fun.
I was thinking this, but my last girl had tons of guys under her belt.
Karkat
September 20th, 2014, 06:48 PM
I was thinking this, but my last girl had tons of guys under her belt.
Then find someone who isn't going to judge you for your inexperience. :)
The guy I'm kinda sorta pursuing (not exactly, but we are planning to kiss once we see each other in person again) doesn't have experience, but I couldn't care less. In my eyes, kissing him is all that matters. (Cue gushy lovey montage music [That sentence is so barfy but I can't think of any other way to phrase it ehh])
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 07:00 PM
Then find someone who isn't going to judge you for your inexperience. :)
The guy I'm kinda sorta pursuing (not exactly, but we are planning to kiss once we see each other in person again) doesn't have experience, but I couldn't care less. In my eyes, kissing him is all that matters. (Cue gushy lovey montage music [That sentence is so barfy but I can't think of any other way to phrase it ehh])
That's really sweet. I hope you get what you want. ;)
Karkat
September 20th, 2014, 07:08 PM
That's really sweet. I hope you get what you want. ;)
Lol, aww, thanks.
You too. :)
Seafood
September 20th, 2014, 07:10 PM
Lol, aww, thanks.
You too. :)
Thanks
:)
Karkat
September 20th, 2014, 07:12 PM
Thanks
:)
You're welcome :)
Magenta
September 20th, 2014, 08:44 PM
First kisses almost always suck. It's not really something we can explain to you, it's something you feel and figure out what feels best for you. Kinda like sex just... not sex. For example, I love if someone bites my lip and drags their teeth over it. Some people don't.
Just... experiment, I guess. :)
Melodic
September 21st, 2014, 08:52 PM
First kisses are always awkward. Soon you'll both feel comfortable and find what fits you both.
ImagineRepublicCity
September 22nd, 2014, 05:58 AM
Look man, the first time you do so, normally it's not as you expect. The first time I did was hilarious and awkward, but it gets better from there.
Just take things slow, you have to go with how your partner likes it too. If your partner like to get down and dirty, then you just jump head first, if your partner likes to enjoy every moment, you do so too. (It also depends on how horny you are but that is not all too relevant)
I don't know if you're talking about kissing or making out, but I assume the latter. Just making it general, normally you start of slow, and you get slowly more into it. It's just like movies really, it's kinda just like opening your mouth and sticking your tongue out (but not stabbing). It's hard to explain, but you begin to understand it a bit more the more you do it.
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