Confused About Sex

[UltraNationalist]

SO Yeah m a bit tensed and frustrated too..I am Nearly 19 and Still a Virgin, I wanna have Sex with a girl even i got many chances though..but each time i just avoid it because of my religion..My religion doesn't allow to have sex with a girl you aren't married..Yeah i don't wanna do this but on the other side theres a Hellfire going on, forcing me to do it..Any Suggestions please?

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah it's a really tough situation, it's only natural for your body to be wanting to try physical intimacy with girls but obviously your religious beliefs ell you not to. Best advice is just to find other things and hobbies to distract your mind. If your mind is concentrating on a sport or other activity then it's not thinking about that nice girl in the corner.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Now, this is a question that many should ask themselves. Are you letting religion control you because it has been forcefed to you all your life, or do you actually believe it. If the answer is yes, then I don't know what to say, if no, then you should do whatever you want to do (within reason) and not let the scripture control you.

[ChrisTJ]

Now, this is a question that many should ask themselves. Are you letting religion control you because it has been forcefed to you all your life, or do you actually believe it. If the answer is yes, then I don't know what to say, if no, then you should do whatever you want to do (within reason) and not let the scripture control you.

Although as a fellow atheist I sympathise with you on that I try and help people in ways that doesn't mean seriously questioning their religion. I find a lot of people hold religion in very high regard and wouldn't change it for the world and others feel trapped due to family pressure to stay in the religion. I feel then the best way to help is to try an d advise them to find ways of dealing with urges whilst still adhering to what the religion tells them. Then again I know many a Catholic who is at church every Sunday but round someone's house the Saturday night having a one night stand!! ;)

[UltraNationalist]

Yeah it's a really tough situation, it's only natural for your body to be wanting to try physical intimacy with girls but obviously your religious beliefs ell you not to. Best advice is just to find other things and hobbies to distract your mind. If your mind is concentrating on a sport or other activity then it's not thinking about that nice girl in the corner.

Yes You are right, I Am Trying to Distract My Attention from Girls to Gym/Army Preparation but the throttle goes High again once i attend my Semester Coaching classes full of some young ladies..m not saying that m so religious or etc but when it comes to having sex..being a muslim i will have to avoid this unforgivable sin..Secondy The Girls...I Dated like 10-12 times and all the time they left..bcz i never surpassed after the foreplay..well its kinda weird for me..they think ive got small dick or something but thats not true..nd it takes me low that what they're thinking of me..

Although as a fellow atheist I sympathise with you on that I try and help people in ways that doesn't mean seriously questioning their religion. I find a lot of people hold religion in very high regard and wouldn't change it for the world and others feel trapped due to family pressure to stay in the religion. I feel then the best way to help is to try an d advise them to find ways of dealing with urges whilst still adhering to what the religion tells them. Then again I know many a Catholic who is at church every Sunday but round someone's house the Saturday night having a one night stand!! ;)

Well in Pakistan (my country)..The Middle Class family doesn't want their sons to have sex with a girl like that..but yeah everyone does it being into a religion lol..and for daughters..they hate if their daughter hooks up with someone nd lay down..lol..and the higher class families doesn't care abt both their daughters and sons..all i mean to say is yea i can have sex without letting my parents even knw, but i think just after my 2 years military training (gonna apply after 7 months) i should marry nd feel comfortable hahaha, yeah i am not interested having sex with different girls..marrying is a good option for me :D