iamkitkat
September 16th, 2014, 01:55 PM
OK, so this is my first ever time going to a "teenage party" and I am really excited. I have never been to one. The last one I have probably been to, was surrounded by annoying 5 year old children playing pass the parcel or musical chairs.
Of course, like any other party. There is going to be alcohol. It even told me to bring alcohol. To be honest, I'm not really going to be drinking it.
Or maybe I should, just a little taster. Is there a point where you can "feel" when your about to "lose your mind?".
My parents are Filipinos and it took me a while to allow me to go to the woods with friends.
It's like I have to pass through border control every time I leave the house. I can understand why she should be worried but I am old enough to know about "stranger-danger" or the appropriate actions on what to take in the real world.
I have tried talking to her about this "border control" but she is extremely ignorant and stubborn.
I am quite grateful she will let me go to the woods to be honest.
How would I approach this to my Mum? She does let my 18 year old sister but that's because she is 18 I am guessing. Although, she was offered a flight to Spain by my auntie but my Mum was restricting her. She managed to manipulate my auntie enough to not let her go.
So how would I approach this to my parents? Well, my mum.
She's going to think I am going to have sex or land on the moon. I really want to go as its my only chance with a relationship. Assuming everyone else is drunk and I'm an awkward kisser then its fine.
For my mum, ethnicity is relevant. There are mainly white/British there. Again, I have no problem with this. But she does. What can I do to her to stand up to her generilizatrions?
Sorry, for this long post.
Of course, like any other party. There is going to be alcohol. It even told me to bring alcohol. To be honest, I'm not really going to be drinking it.
Or maybe I should, just a little taster. Is there a point where you can "feel" when your about to "lose your mind?".
My parents are Filipinos and it took me a while to allow me to go to the woods with friends.
It's like I have to pass through border control every time I leave the house. I can understand why she should be worried but I am old enough to know about "stranger-danger" or the appropriate actions on what to take in the real world.
I have tried talking to her about this "border control" but she is extremely ignorant and stubborn.
I am quite grateful she will let me go to the woods to be honest.
How would I approach this to my Mum? She does let my 18 year old sister but that's because she is 18 I am guessing. Although, she was offered a flight to Spain by my auntie but my Mum was restricting her. She managed to manipulate my auntie enough to not let her go.
So how would I approach this to my parents? Well, my mum.
She's going to think I am going to have sex or land on the moon. I really want to go as its my only chance with a relationship. Assuming everyone else is drunk and I'm an awkward kisser then its fine.
For my mum, ethnicity is relevant. There are mainly white/British there. Again, I have no problem with this. But she does. What can I do to her to stand up to her generilizatrions?
Sorry, for this long post.