Would a girl rly wanna know?

[Gray]

I've... Had a bit of a dark past before and... I'm scared that if I date someone then they'll back away from this relationship.... What I'm trying to say is... Or ask... Should I tell the girl who likes me about my past... Because I want her to know what she's gonna be dealing with if we're together. Is that a good idea?

[Magenta]

Don't just drop it on her. Keep things simple at first but if things start to get more serious, start letting her in on stuff in your life. It's always difficult when it comes to bad pasts and relationships but as long as you take it at a pace you're both comfortable with, there's no reason she wouldn't want to know or wouldn't care.

Good luck.

[Karkat]

Don't just drop it on her. Keep things simple at first but if things start to get more serious, start letting her in on stuff in your life. It's always difficult when it comes to bad pasts and relationships but as long as you take it at a pace you're both comfortable with, there's no reason she wouldn't want to know or wouldn't care.

Good luck.

Couldn't have said it better. Exactly this.

[mrpieface2]

Don't just drop it on her. Keep things simple at first but if things start to get more serious, start letting her in on stuff in your life. It's always difficult when it comes to bad pasts and relationships but as long as you take it at a pace you're both comfortable with, there's no reason she wouldn't want to know or wouldn't care.

Good luck.

Exactly this. Don't just give her a lot of information about your life at once.

[Christen]

yes dont flood her with all info at once.
but try to keep honest and not hold it back when it gets more serious.

both either drown in info or shut like an oyster is shit

[Croconaw]

Just tell her a little bit at a time. She might get overwhelmed if you tell her all at once.