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JacobIN
September 14th, 2014, 08:57 PM
So yeah I will go ahead and get this out of the way. You mayyyyy remember me, and if you do congrats. If you don't that's good too. Anyways I have changed a bit...

Onto my problems. I have recently meet a nice boy from the Buffalo area, and we have been in a LDR for abut a month. Now I don't plan on meeting him for awhile at least, but maybe in 7-8 months I can go. Its about a 12 hour drive or I can take an amtrack train. Either way I was wondering if there was anytime that is the best to visit and preferable surprise him. He is currently a Sophomore in high school and i'm a junior, so I was thinking at his highschool graduation I would definitely be there, (assuming we are still together) and same thing for his prom if I can, although that would have to be planned more or at least have his sisters or someone in on it. Which brings us to problem 2; His family doesn't know hes gay or in a relationship, and same with mine.

Yeah...any advice is wonderful! Thank you!

Croconaw
September 14th, 2014, 09:41 PM
If your family loves you, they would accept you for who you are.

Ben_Frost
September 15th, 2014, 08:37 AM
If you're too uncomfortable with any of the two coming out you can always go to those events as friends only.

CosmicNoodle
September 15th, 2014, 01:59 PM
About t the hole surprise thing, may not be a good idea, you really want to talk to him before traveling 12 hours.

JacobIN
September 15th, 2014, 06:28 PM
About t the hole surprise thing, may not be a good idea, you really want to talk to him before traveling 12 hours.

Yeah that's the main problem, I guess I didn't really type it out well but I want to avoid the surprises.

fast8
September 15th, 2014, 06:42 PM
Yea I talk to him before going if u want to make it work