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ZBUFF
September 14th, 2014, 07:27 PM
so i havent posted here in a while but i feel its appropriate now.

ive been texting this girl for a while and have been wanting to go out with her for a while. last night we were talking and this went down:

>me: i guess. how about girls. do they really have pillow fights.
her: i have to admit that i have had few pillowfights
>thats the best thing ive heard all month
whats so good about girls having pillow fights?
>Its not really the fight part...
what is it?
>well most guys imagine them doing it topless
topless would be weird its usually in a bra
>thats a shame that means the other stuff doesnt happen either
what other stuff
>them sleeping with eachother after
cant say ive ever gone that far with a girl
>like i said, a shame
once me and a girl kissed but thats it
and its was because she had ever kissed a boy before and was going out with someone she liked
>thats so steiotypical
i know
have you ever kissed anyone?
>ya but not for a while
>i hooked up with this girl whie on vacation a few years go but thats it [obvious lie]
thats pretty stereotypical
>i guess, but she was the one who wanted to
i feel like everytime i go on vacation i have a boyfriend so i dont engage with other boys but then when im single im stuck in [town] like now [she has (or had) a boyfriend]

where do i go from here. is she saying she broke up with her boyfriend? im confused. im also [redacted]. halp

Christen
September 14th, 2014, 07:37 PM
no offence but honestly why do guys allways imagine all girl sleepovers as lesbian orgy?
of course it can go for something like that but more often its just hanging out.

as you do with male friends just without the beer and the football (just joking using the other stereotype)

ZBUFF
September 14th, 2014, 07:41 PM
no offence but honestly why do guys allways imagine all girl sleepovers as lesbian orgy?
of course it can go for something like that but more often its just hanging out.

as you do with male friends just without the beer and the football (just joking using the other stereotype)

its just a fantasy really. inside, we really know it doesn't happen, but we pretend it does to keep us "entertained". can we keep on subject though. dont mean to be rude but im confused af.

Christen
September 14th, 2014, 07:53 PM
its just a fantasy really. inside, we really know it doesn't happen, but we pretend it does to keep us "entertained". can we keep on subject though. dont mean to be rude but im confused af.

no offence taken just saw your post and well i am a cynical bitch at times ;)

you are confused because unsure if she is really interested or if you are just a "nice snack" for her?

ZBUFF
September 14th, 2014, 07:58 PM
no offence taken just saw your post and well i am a cynical bitch at times ;)

you are confused because unsure if she is really interested or if you are just a "nice snack" for her?

im confused because i dont know if she is interested. she has a boyfriend also

Christen
September 14th, 2014, 08:03 PM
im confused because i dont know if she is interested. she has a boyfriend also

ah ... i see sorry my english
if she has a BF and is interested to cheat you should think about what will happen if it comes out. if you are willing to draw that trouble on yourself.
as long as it isnt an open relation one gets hurt in the end and that might be you