This very confusing person or friend maybe

[RunnerRunner]

Ok so i think this post would be better off here than in the twpr. But theres this kid where in middle school, he would bully the shit out of me. Yes i told the principal about it and he did fix it a bit. Me and him became friends, then he stabbed me in the back. it all repeated again with the principal going into it. But technically he had the high ground in middle school and i was lower than him. he was popular and many friends and i barely had anything. Plus he looked better than i did in middle school since i was a geek back then.
Now in high school i have all that he had in middle school. many people consider me pretty good looking, thin, athletic etc etc. But long story short and stuff this year which is my final year, the same kid came back after going to a private school from 9-11th grade. now senior year he is with me in the same school and karma along with life beat the shit out of him. now i technically have the high ground. Im not being mean but he has gotten bigger like near obese, all trashy and stuff etc etc.
So i walk in the halls either with my music in my ears or friends with me and i see him and he sees me and he stares back me, i kinda ignore him but its kinda hard to at times. So thats happened for a few times. Then today i logged into Facebook and i see he sent me a friend request. I dont know if he is wanting to be my friend or something, knowing how he is and not wanting to take chances back then. i just don't know what to do.
Sorry this all sounds confusing and all over the place. But what do you guys think i should do knowing what he did to me in middle. I just feel like he is walking in my middle school shoes now. But what should i do, like if accept the request and he starts talking to me

[NikosamA98]

Well, if he is walking on your middle school shoes right now, I think you better than anyone knows how it feels, and he knows how it felt to be you when he was a bully. I think we all should treat people the way we'd like people to treat us, and now that he is walking in your old shoes you better than anyone can show him what he did wrong in the past. You can treat him like shit and be another bully (just like him at that age), or you can forgive and teach him the right way of peace and justice to maintain the balance of the galaxy. Or maybe I'm just overthinking and you should just ignore him and keep going on with your life :D

P.D.: With great power comes great responsibility

[Broken Toy]

I wouldn't trust him because in not saying treat him like shit but i might accept his friend request but don't talk because if it seems like he has changed he could be stabbing you in the back again and he just seems like an unpleasant person

[RunnerRunner]

Hmmm well i can accept it, see how it goes with that. im expecting a message on fb from him as soon as i accept him. Im planning to test out this week, see if he says or does anything. I agree with you NikosamA98 about with great power comes great responsibility. Im not the type of person that will treat someone like shit if you treated me likeshit but what i will do is just ignore him. Like if he sends me a message might just read it and not respond.

[Ben_Frost]

Ok so i think this post would be better off here than in the twpr. But theres this kid where in middle school, he would bully the shit out of me. Yes i told the principal about it and he did fix it a bit. Me and him became friends, then he stabbed me in the back. it all repeated again with the principal going into it. But technically he had the high ground in middle school and i was lower than him. he was popular and many friends and i barely had anything. Plus he looked better than i did in middle school since i was a geek back then.
Now in high school i have all that he had in middle school. many people consider me pretty good looking, thin, athletic etc etc. But long story short and stuff this year which is my final year, the same kid came back after going to a private school from 9-11th grade. now senior year he is with me in the same school and karma along with life beat the shit out of him. now i technically have the high ground. Im not being mean but he has gotten bigger like near obese, all trashy and stuff etc etc.
So i walk in the halls either with my music in my ears or friends with me and i see him and he sees me and he stares back me, i kinda ignore him but its kinda hard to at times. So thats happened for a few times. Then today i logged into Facebook and i see he sent me a friend request. I dont know if he is wanting to be my friend or something, knowing how he is and not wanting to take chances back then. i just don't know what to do.
Sorry this all sounds confusing and all over the place. But what do you guys think i should do knowing what he did to me in middle. I just feel like he is walking in my middle school shoes now. But what should i do, like if accept the request and he starts talking to me

I went through this when moving from middle school to high school, and I even had to switch schools and this kid I thought was my friend followed me to the new school. Now that I'm out he sent me a friend request in FB, I decided to be mature and accepted him, but I don't talk to him neither open myself to the chance he might ruin my newfound life as he did when I began High School. I suggest you watch him closely, add him and don't be the way he was with you, but don't open up and let your guard down so that he does the same he did before.

[RunnerRunner]

I went through this when moving from middle school to high school, and I even had to switch schools and this kid I thought was my friend followed me to the new school. Now that I'm out he sent me a friend request in FB, I decided to be mature and accepted him, but I don't talk to him neither open myself to the chance he might ruin my newfound life as he did when I began High School. I suggest you watch him closely, add him and don't be the way he was with you, but don't open up and let your guard down so that he does the same he did before.

True, like i will accept him sometime this week and just watch him closely. I know where and who he hangs out with so the people can tell me more about him. it seems to be that he is very known around my school district. But i will accept him and not let him ruin the goodness of high school.

[Living For Love]

A Facebook friendship request means nothing, to be honest, I'd just accept it, talked to him if he talked to me first, but otherwise, I'd stay away from him.