thats so unfair!

[Christen]

I admit it in the past 3 years i had sexual activitis with somwhat above 20 partners.

Some call me a slut for that.

So unfair!
If a guy does the same he can be proud , show off and is "the hero" for his friends.

When we do just the same we are meant to be ashamed not proud and called slut , whore or in german "schlampe".

whats your opinion on that?

[deregisterme]

I completely agree. It's so unfair. In Britain the guy is known as a stud, but would need that many partners to do what he does. We are all equal. As long as you're happy, that's the main thing

[asmith1106]

I totally agree. Why should we be put down for doing something we enjoy and want to do, when guys get put on a pedestal for exactly the same thing. You don't hear them complaining when we're doing them ;)

[Christen]

I totally agree. Why should we be put down for doing something we enjoy and want to do, when guys get put on a pedestal for exactly the same thing. You don't hear them complaining when we're doing them ;)

smiles
and to add without girls like us the guys won't be able to get on that pedestral at all

[biancachica]

i havent been with as many guys as you but i totally agree. Girls shouldnt be judged for that in any circumstances. But it makes it even more unacceptable when guys are encouraged to do it.

[CheshireJess]

Totally agree! Us girls should be able to have as much or as little sex as we want without anyone judging us.

TBH, I've never cared much about what people say about me.

[CrazyPerson101]

Isn't that sexist ? And I agree, it shouldn't be alright for a dude to go out and be rewarded and encouraged for sleeping with lots of girls but if a girl does it, they're shunned or gossiped about and called hurtful names. That's just not cool at all.

[TheFSM]

My opinion is that that is bullshit, whoever is calling you a slut should just screw off

[Ben_Frost]

I admit it in the past 3 years i had sexual activitis with somwhat above 20 partners.

Some call me a slut for that.

So unfair!
If a guy does the same he can be proud , show off and is "the hero" for his friends.

When we do just the same we are meant to be ashamed not proud and called slut , whore or in german "schlampe".

whats your opinion on that?

Sadly that's the double standard most societies actively support. If only there was true equality and no sexism.

[Taryn98]

Haters gonna hate
Pay them no mind

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah the double standards are horrible. Pay no attention to people who wish to put us girls down for having a little fun!! :)

[nklarke]

It's true, but it's the reality around the world and you won't change that.

Anyway, the problem in fact is not that you had sex with 20 guys. The problem is why all the people has to know it. Keep it to yourself.

[Christen]

It's true, but it's the reality around the world and you won't change that.

Anyway, the problem in fact is not that you had sex with 20 guys. The problem is why all the people has to know it. Keep it to yourself.

you would laugh tryong to keep that hidden at my school while the guys keep bragging

btw parners .... not only guys

[Pensive]

I admit it in the past 3 years i had sexual activitis with somwhat above 20 partners.

Some call me a slut for that.

So unfair!
If a guy does the same he can be proud , show off and is "the hero" for his friends.

When we do just the same we are meant to be ashamed not proud and called slut , whore or in german "schlampe".

whats your opinion on that?

Decent guys also find guys who sleep around with many partners disgusting too - just there isn't a male equivalent word for 'slut'.

So the issue isn't that guys 'get away with it' but that it's all considered slutty by those who don't sleep around and are decent people.

[fast8]

Yea it happen it should be treated the Same for both sexes but its not

[TPAallDay]

Decent guys also find guys who sleep around with many partners disgusting too - just there isn't a male equivalent word for 'slut'.

So the issue isn't that guys 'get away with it' but that it's all considered slutty by those who don't sleep around and are decent people.
Why can't everyone just sleep around. There is no reason that anyone should consider anyone else disgusting for their sexual habits, barring pedophilia and bestiality

[Gray]

That's just sexist rly... It's just the way we are and that each and everyone of us here enjoy sex and how it's ok if we do it with other people just not with a tom of them but just a fair amount.

[Hideous]

Yeah, I believe no one should worry about your sex life besides you and your partner. Double standards.

[kentucky girl]

I agree, I wouldn't care what others say as long as you are happy

[Rainbowfairy]

It's unfair massively, but nothing we can do to change society

[Zachary G]

who cares what others think as long as you are being responsible and having fun doing what you are doing. i think it is kind of a double standard because a guy who is just as promiscuous can be a slut just as easily. he is only a stud to his peers and that doesnt say much about them.

[Your Captain]

Even as a guy I can agree this is unfair for girl

[Pittsburgh]

Do what you want but do it carefully, make yourself happy and ignore the haters

[cutie123]

It's your business and no one else's! They probably say that because they are jealous

[Karkat]

Decent guys also find guys who sleep around with many partners disgusting too - just there isn't a male equivalent word for 'slut'.

So the issue isn't that guys 'get away with it' but that it's all considered slutty by those who don't sleep around and are decent people.

Doesn't mean there isn't still a double standard.

Also, a person's worth should be measured by the way they treat other people, and not by their sex life. Arguably, the "decent" people are the ones who mind their own business and don't judge others for such irrelevant things.

[Dalcourt]

Yeah, it's a really unfair double standard. However, I'm a guy but I'm called a slut, too...it is just cool for straight guys to have different partners I guess.

Anyway, honestly I don't really care...and I think you shouldn't, too.

[lisa S]

..or just stay away from guys you go to school with. Most of my hookups have been with friends from camp, USY....or this guy I met in Aruba over X-mas vacation whose fam stayed at the same hotel and he happens to live like two towns away lol.

[Jaseblader]

I admit it in the past 3 years i had sexual activitis with somwhat above 20 partners.

Some call me a slut for that.

So unfair!
If a guy does the same he can be proud , show off and is "the hero" for his friends.

When we do just the same we are meant to be ashamed not proud and called slut , whore or in german "schlampe".

whats your opinion on that?

In my opinion they were rude for saying that, even if I thought you were one, I wouldn't say it because its hurtful.

The reason why its okay for guys to do it, is because no man was a girl that's been tossed around, but every woman should assume that their man has tossed girls left and right
im not trying to be rude or anything just saying why

[Kochanek]

God obviously has made you as a voluptuous girl. And no one should be judged for what God made him/her like.
Do it as often as you like and need it.

[Warrior]

I think self respect is always a good healthy option. But happiness is important too. Just follow your heart.

[Christen]

nice to see most that posted share my opinion on this double standart.
even more that both genders see it that way.
sure we can't change it but feels better to know not everyone shares the idea of the "good girl has to control her sexuallity" lol

[Tivhal]

guys who bragg with this are teens or they have inferiority complex.. its like this when you are a teenager, in 5 years or something no normal intelligent person will call you a slut just because you like sex.its another question if you should start to fuck with that many people when you are still so young. i dont think there are many guys who want a serious relationship with a girl who has this many sexual partners, i could never date a girl when i know that she sleeps constantly with other guys..

[AutumnWinds]

i don't see how your sexual history is anyone else's buisness, honestly.

I admit it in the past 3 years i had sexual activitis with somwhat above 20 partners.

Some call me a slut for that.

So unfair!
If a guy does the same he can be proud , show off and is "the hero" for his friends.

When we do just the same we are meant to be ashamed not proud and called slut , whore or in german "schlampe".

whats your opinion on that?

[Abhorrence]

i don't see how your sexual history is anyone else's buisness, honestly.
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