Weird feelings when I tell myself my crush likes me and doesn't like me.

[clueless_one]

I tell myself the girl I like doesn't like me and I feel uncomfortable and something in me is yelling NO. But when I tell myself she likes me I get an entirely different feeling completely opposite to when I tell myself she doesn't like me. I get comfortable yet weird feeling. Can someone explain to me what this feeling is?

[Paladino]

It is the feeling of lust my friend! Ahh what a feeling it is, when one encounters another they would like to have relations with! The best thing to do is talk to your crush, flirt maybe, see how it goes. Usually you can tell if there is something there and if you feel like she likes you back then its game on and you can tell them. If they don't like you back and you figure this out before letting them know you like them, my advice would be to not tell them because it would only end in misery for you. Either way it is not the end of the world buddy, good luck!

[clueless_one]

It is the feeling of lust my friend! Ahh what a feeling it is, when one encounters another they would like to have relations with! The best thing to do is talk to your crush, flirt maybe, see how it goes. Usually you can tell if there is something there and if you feel like she likes you back then its game on and you can tell them. If they don't like you back and you figure this out before letting them know you like them, my advice would be to not tell them because it would only end in misery for you. Either way it is not the end of the world buddy, good luck!

But what happens if there is something there and you find out after she gets someone else. You will regret not doing anything. Though, Im only looking at signs if she is interested in me. All other girls I've been interested in rejected me but I never had this feeling before when saying she doesn't like me or does like me. I never even previously told myself stuff like that.

I over heard her say she is a shy girl to a girl friend of hers. Thats making me think about it even more. Previously being a shy guy, I never spoke to the girls I liked, only answered their questions (usually really quickly) and asked questions on rare occasions and looked at the girl I liked from a distance.

This girl is almost acting exactly the same way I did, plus a little more. I've noticed her look at me from a distance, she acts so outgoing around other guys talking and asking questions but doesn't to me (she still acts outgoing to others when I'm around). Her torso faces, she looks at me from the corner of her eye and sometimes fully (when looking fully, she looks away). Now when asking her questions, she has started to give me full eye contact when talking but sometimes her eyes wander around but she still replies, she stalls her answers to questions going umm when she knows the answer (seems to still want me around her a little longer). She also seems to place,point or stretch her feet towards me to seem to get a little closer. One time when I smiled and looked at her, she tried to hide her face and smiled (i saw her smile), I also placed my hand on the middle area of her lower back one time when she was just standing in front of me, she looked over her shoulder, saw me, looked down (hiding her face) and probably smiled (couldn't see).

So what do you think, she has been looking from the corner of her eye and fully, stretches, points or places her feet in such a way its more closer to me and have her torso facing me almost all the time, she doesn't talk to me only rarely and now gives me full eye contact but sometimes her eyes wander when replying to me. These are now the most common signs I've noticed her do currently, all after I placed my hand on the middle of her lower back.

[Paladino]

But what happens if there is something there and you find out after she gets someone else. You will regret not doing anything. Though, Im only looking at signs if she is interested in me. All other girls I've been interested in rejected me but I never had this feeling before when saying she doesn't like me or does like me. I never even previously told myself stuff like that.

I over heard her say she is a shy girl to a girl friend of hers. Thats making me think about it even more. Previously being a shy guy, I never spoke to the girls I liked, only answered their questions (usually really quickly) and asked questions on rare occasions and looked at the girl I liked from a distance.

This girl is almost acting exactly the same way I did, plus a little more. I've noticed her look at me from a distance, she acts so outgoing around other guys talking and asking questions but doesn't to me (she still acts outgoing to others when I'm around). Her torso faces, she looks at me from the corner of her eye and sometimes fully (when looking fully, she looks away). Now when asking her questions, she has started to give me full eye contact when talking but sometimes her eyes wander around but she still replies, she stalls her answers to questions going umm when she knows the answer (seems to still want me around her a little longer). She also seems to place,point or stretch her feet towards me to seem to get a little closer. One time when I smiled and looked at her, she tried to hide her face and smiled (i saw her smile), I also placed my hand on the middle area of her lower back one time when she was just standing in front of me, she looked over her shoulder, saw me, looked down (hiding her face) and probably smiled (couldn't see).

So what do you think, she has been looking from the corner of her eye and fully, stretches, points or places her feet in such a way its more closer to me and have her torso facing me almost all the time, she doesn't talk to me only rarely and now gives me full eye contact but sometimes her eyes wander when replying to me. These are now the most common signs I've noticed her do currently, all after I placed my hand on the middle of her lower back.

I think that she might have a crush on you back buddy. Those are signs that things are looking good, she seems to be shy around you but not around others. I think you should talk to her more, but not too much! Don't come on too strong, but don't come on too weak. Drop signs that you are into her and see how she responds. If all goes well you could ask her out, the worst she could say is no, and if she does then it is not the end of the world.