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lxl
March 20th, 2008, 05:01 PM
im not sure where to put this kind of story, so im just posting it here...
well lately i had fights with my BFF becuz we misunderstand each other so easily
like im more playful where my friend is more serious and VERY sensitive...
and the worst part is that whenever we have a fight, my friend goes around people that it was mostly my fault that came to this fight... it happens every time we fight
so i look like the bad guy, and i go explain how it wasnt bad as they heard from my friend
seriously i dont know how far i can keep up with this friendship becuz it feels like we are not meant to be best friends like this...
i started off the morning at school with another misunderstanding and it stresses me out so much....
im sorry im dumping all these stuff but i just need some advice....

steven
March 20th, 2008, 05:36 PM
i would say talk to your friend and say that its not your fault why you argue, and tell him that when you argue then keep it private as its no one elses business so then no one else gets any false stories, otherwise i dont know what to do and im sorry i cant be any more help, but meybe if you know how sensitive he is then meybe you could be abit more 'lenient' and change the wording of your conversations abit? so that it doesnt sound as bad when you say it? but otherwise i dont know anything that will help you, my advice is to talk to him and to tell him to try and keep your arguments private.

jaymacs
March 21st, 2008, 01:12 AM
You should take some time off from hanging out with your best friend. Hang out with some other people. And then, if you feel the need, have that talk with your BFF.

But if your assumption is right, that you're not meant to be best friends, then just remember that there's other people out there that may be even better friends with you.

I think you should just tell your friend that whatever you say has no intention of harm. You're just like that. And if they don't take that to heart, things may not work out.

Requin
April 21st, 2008, 10:58 AM
If you seriously keep on arguing with each other then maybe you shouldn't be friends. Especially if he spreads wrong rumours about you, that's not what a good friend does.
Have a talk with him about this try and sort it out first, and if that doesn't work stop hanging around with him.
Why made you like him in the first place?