Girl wants to go to dance with me

[Horatio Nelson]

So, apparently there is a girl that wants to go to homecoming dance with me. I haven't met her yet though. I was made aware of the situation by my football coach, but I'm kind of nervous to meet her. What if I don't like her? What do I do if I don't?



On the other hand, though probably unlikely, I hit the jackpot and she's super awesome.

[Ben_Frost]

Why don't you ask your coach more about her? Or you could ask any of your friends if they may know her.

[Croconaw]

I would just go with her. You might end up liking her. Don't judge someone based on looks because they might be a really nice person. I don't know how you can tell if you like someone by only seeing them once. Get to know her better before deciding you like her.

[mrpieface2]

I would ask your coach more about her. I would also go to the dance with her. If I were you I would go to the dance with her. Besides, it's only one night.

[Stronk Serb]

Ask the coach to maybe introduce you to her. Then figure out the rest with all cards in the open.

[Horatio Nelson]

Ask the coach to maybe introduce you to her. Then figure out the rest with all cards in the open.

That's my plan. I'm kinda nervous though. :P

[Stronk Serb]

That's my plan. I'm kinda nervous though. :P

We all are when it comes to stuff like this :D

[Gumleaf]

I don't know much about homecoming, I'm thinking it's a one off event right? If she wants to go with you, then I would say yes. You get to meet a new person, and if you don't hit it off, then it's ok because it's just a one off and there is no obligation to continue going on dates with her and stuff. But go with a positive mindset, you might hit it off, a chance of a new relationship or just a new friend. Sometimes in life you have to take a chance and do something risky.

[Horatio Nelson]

I don't know much about homecoming, I'm thinking it's a one off event right? If she wants to go with you, then I would say yes. You get to meet a new person, and if you don't hit it off, then it's ok because it's just a one off and there is no obligation to continue going on dates with her and stuff. But go with a positive mindset, you might hit it off, a chance of a new relationship or just a new friend. Sometimes in life you have to take a chance and do something risky.

You're right Stephen. :D

[Magenta]

Meet her, talk to her a bit, see what your first impression is. Like the other guys are saying, yeah, why not go with her and see if you hit it off? Just for fun. But try to meet her first and if you get this awful first impression then just let her off gently and say thanks but no thanks.

But I think it's cute and you may meet someone really nice this way.

[Horatio Nelson]

Meet her, talk to her a bit, see what your first impression is. Like the other guys are saying, yeah, why not go with her and see if you hit it off? Just for fun. But try to meet her first and if you get this awful first impression then just let her off gently and say thanks but no thanks.

But I think it's cute and you may meet someone really nice this way.

What would I do without you guys? I greatly appreciate the advice. :D

[ImCoolBeans]

Well, if you don't like her, then you can respectfully tell her that you aren't interested in going to the dance with her. Just be gentle and polite about it. You don't want to go to a dance with somebody you don't want to really be there with, it will suck. When are you going to meet her?

Hope it goes well.

[Cognizant]

Well, if you don't like her, then you can respectfully tell her that you aren't interested in going to the dance with her. Just be gentle and polite about it. You don't want to go to a dance with somebody you don't want to really be there with, it will suck. When are you going to meet her?

Hope it goes well.

Basically this. To be honest, I was asked to go to last year's homecoming by someone who hates dances. While her and I are good friends, I honestly found myself annoyed/disappointed because for a majority of the dance, she wasn't interested in dancing (or being there at all, really, which made me confused as to why she asked me). Had I known that she would be like that, I would've respectfully said no thank you.

But yeah, I guess I would just try to meet her a little while ahead of time to get to know her - give yourself some breathing room incase you guys don't really hit it off, yknow?