A Guy

[ValentinClarke]

There's this guy called B--, at my young farmers meetings. He's tall, strong, amazing accent and he kinda keeps looking at me. When we first met, he chose me to go on his football team without properly knowing me. Btw, he's 18 and I'm 13 going on fourteen. And anyway, he always tries ti say my name whenever he can. He keeps staring at my eyes intensely and he just makes me want to kis him. With inly those looks. Just then, as he was leaving to go to a party. He looked into my eyes when there was 7 other people there that he could have looked at. I really do not know what to do. Is the age gap too big? Am I just getting over a humungous twat face? Help

[ChrisTJ]

I personally think this age gap is pushing it a little and I'm liberal with age gaps. The maturity difference between 14 and 19 is HUGE!

[Ben_Frost]

He's probably into you, or he could just be quite friendly with you, be careful.

[Croconaw]

That age gap is a little big. I'd be careful. He might end up using you.

[ValentinClarke]

What do I do if he does like me?

[Seafood]

What do I do if he does like me?

Be very careful.

[Rania]

What do I do if he does like me?

Be very very careful

[Seafood]

What do I do if he does like me?

Be extremely careful.

[ValentinClarke]

Like, not letting him do stuff, maybe just a kiss?

[Seafood]

Like, not letting him do stuff, maybe just a kiss?

Look, I know too many people that are your age that have been taken advantage of by older guys. Even if they didn't want to do anything in the first place.

If he asks you out and things seem to be moving forward say you want to take it slow because you don't want to speed into anything.

Just be careful.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

At this point, if things get serious, it would be considered statuatory rape. Be very careful.

[Bull]

It is ok to be friends. Get to know each other. Ask yourself: Do you share interests other than farming? How did your previous experiences with a guy work for you? Would you want him to meet your family? Meet his?

I would suggest you become great friends before anything intimate is even considered. Go slow, don't rush it. And as someone pointed out he is an adult, you are a child. A lot at risk for him.

[RavleIncarnate]

As a personal friend, you have told me more than you have let on here. I think the age is big, but love overcomes anything, given time. Take it slow, but keep it steady. Like someone you want to befriend. Don't craze and swarm them immediately, cuz they might think you're weird, but also don't take it too slow, or they won't think you have interest. But make sure you keep a steady eye on things. Hopefully, not a blind eye.

[Magenta]

As a general rule, if you're a young teenager, don't get involved with anyone who is 18 or older. It is considered statutory rape even if any involvement is consensual. Plus, it's a very large age gap with very different levels of maturity. It's different when you're an adult and you're more responsible and aware of yourself.

I'd just steer clear of this guy, honestly. It's not worth the trouble that could come of it considering the ages involved.

[ValentinClarke]

As a general rule, if you're a young teenager, don't get involved with anyone who is 18 or older. It is considered statutory rape even if any involvement is consensual. Plus, it's a very large age gap with very different levels of maturity. It's different when you're an adult and you're more responsible and aware of yourself.

I'd just steer clear of this guy, honestly. It's not worth the trouble that could come of it considering the ages involved.

It's hard to do that when I am going to see hom at every meeting and when I want a boyfriend

[Magenta]

It's hard to do that when I am going to see hom at every meeting and when I want a boyfriend

I don't mean never see him again. But it's up to you to make responsible decisions about who you date if you want a boyfriend. Personally, I don't believe he would be a smart choice because of the age gap and legal problems associated with it. Don't make poor decisions just because you want to date someone.

[Seafood]

I don't mean never see him again. But it's up to you to make responsible decisions about who you date if you want a boyfriend. Personally, I don't believe he would be a smart choice because of the age gap and legal problems associated with it. Don't make poor decisions just because you want to date someone.

This.

[ValentinClarke]

I just want him. It's not that I want one l. I just wanna..
idk

[Fireangel]

I just want him. It's not that I want one l. I just wanna..
idk

Don't worry, go for it, follow your feelings. Don't let pass the chance. :)

[ValentinClarke]

I like him alot
he tries to look at my phone! So maybe he does have an interest

[Remora]

Be tremendously careful. Other than that, it's all up to you, but i would really take the age gap and legal problems into consideration.

Him looking at your phone does not really give me the impression that he's interested in you as much as he's interested in your belongings. This might just be a paranoid Floofster move here but you asked for our opinions and there ya have it.