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Croconaw
September 12th, 2014, 04:34 PM
My apartment was flooded back in June. I had to stay with my grandma for a month. I would always go to the park because I'm allergic to her cats. One day when I went to the park, I met this girl (L) who currently goes to my school. She is fourteen and in eighth grade. She came out as bisexual to me the day we met. I was hanging out with her for a bit and then she saw me at school. She called my name and we would always talk to each other in the hall. She even convinced me to ride her school bus home and I was at her house for three hours. She referred to me as one of her best friends. She is always happy when she talks to me, but she has been talking to me less. I haven't been seeing her in the halls much. Today when I said hi to her coming out of school, she replied back with one word. Yesterday, she said "Hi. My shoulders are hurting me!" and laughed. I understand that because her backpack looked huge. I feel like I did something for a few reasons.
For the past two days...
1. There is this other girl (M) in my resource class. Three days ago, L walked by and said hi to me, but then M told her she better get to class or she will be late. Now L walks a different direction to her classes. (I used to see her on the way to almost all of my classes, and now I don't.)
2. When she does see me, she usually doesn't say anything. When I say hi to her, she says it quickly and walks away. I have to start the conversation now. She would mostly do it, but not anymore.
3. She doesn't seem as happy to talk to me anymore. (I think.)
Did I do something wrong? I would feel bad if I did. Why would she randomly start acting like this? Thanks for the help.
Broken Toy
September 12th, 2014, 05:13 PM
My apartment was flooded back in June. I had to stay with my grandma for a month. I would always go to the park because I'm allergic to her cats. One day when I went to the park, I met this girl (L) who currently goes to my school. She is fourteen and in eighth grade. She came out as bisexual to me the day we met. I was hanging out with her for a bit and then she saw me at school. She called my name and we would always talk to each other in the hall. She even convinced me to ride her school bus home and I was at her house for three hours. She referred to me as one of her best friends. She is always happy when she talks to me, but she has been talking to me less. I haven't been seeing her in the halls much. Today when I said hi to her coming out of school, she replied back with one word. Yesterday, she said "Hi. My shoulders are hurting me!" and laughed. I understand that because her backpack looked huge. I feel like I did something for a few reasons.
For the past two days...
1. There is this other girl (M) in my resource class. Three days ago, L walked by and said hi to me, but then M told her she better get to class or she will be late. Now L walks a different direction to her classes. (I used to see her on the way to almost all of my classes, and now I don't.)
2. When she does see me, she usually doesn't say anything. When I say hi to her, she says it quickly and walks away. I have to start the conversation now. She would mostly do it, but not anymore.
3. She doesn't seem as happy to talk to me anymore. (I think.)
Did I do something wrong? I would feel bad if I did. Why would she randomly start acting like this? Thanks for the help.
First, no you did nothing wrong, but it does sound awfully strange. She doesn't sound happy and im thinking shes hiding something.
Maybe you should try and get her alone, make plans to got to hers or something , and try find out what it is.
Second, i have seen you a lot since i joined and i don't think youce ever done anything wrong ever. You seem lovely
Croconaw
September 12th, 2014, 05:21 PM
First, no you did nothing wrong, but it does sound awfully strange. She doesn't sound happy and im thinking shes hiding something.
Maybe you should try and get her alone, make plans to got to hers or something , and try find out what it is.
Second, i have seen you a lot since i joined and i don't think youce ever done anything wrong ever. You seem lovelyI have never thought of her hiding something. I thought it had to do with M, because she changed right after that incident (#1 from above). Thank you for the response. :)
Broken Toy
September 12th, 2014, 05:44 PM
I have never thought of her hiding something. I thought it had to do with M, because she changed right after that incident (#1 from above). Thank you for the response. :)
Maybe what she hiding is to do with M. Then everything would make sense
Croconaw
September 12th, 2014, 08:04 PM
Yes, it would. I just feel like I'm in no position to ask. I don't want her (L) to think I'm annoying. It's that common fear of thinking you're annoying others. It's something I'll eventually have to do, though. :)
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