Help!

[Uranus]

Every once in awhile my gf calls me and is upset or crying. I hate for her to be like this. It really troubles me. I ask what's wrong but she doesn't wanna talk about it. She eventually does. But how do I comfort her? It's a distant relationship so I can not physically comfort her. What can I do to help her? :( please help. She's sad right now

[Cognizant]

Just keep reassuring her that you care. If you ask if she wants to talk about it and she says no, I'd first let her know that you care and that she can talk to you about it if she changes her mind, then drop it. Just try to keep her company and make her feel like you matter to her.

[Magenta]

The best you can do is offer your support. If she doesn't want to talk, she may just want to hear your voice. Try to take her mind off of things and if she does want to talk, then listen.

It's hard when you can't really help a loved one but just do the best you can and that's all you can do.