I Smell Down There!

[Abbeys]

My new b/f (3 weeks) has said he won’t go down on me cos I smell.

I haven’t had that many boyfriends but they have never said anything.

My new b/f is a bit inexperienced and I don’t think he’s done it before.
Could he be making excuses because he doesn’t know what to do or maybe I do smell!!!:whoops:

[Juana]

Maybe you have to confront him!! And when you wash yourself very well there, then it must be another reason, or not?

[Abbeys]

Maybe you have to confront him!! And when you wash yourself very well there, then it must be another reason, or not?

Thanks Juana for your response.

I keep myself scrupulously clean,almost to the point of obsession but this thing is making me feel paranoid and I'm losing my confidence,which isn't that strong to start with.

I will try to find a way to talk to him about it without it upsetting either of us.

[Magenta]

Every girl has their own unique smell. The vagina is self-cleaning so you don't need to do much other than rinse it with water or occasionally, if you want to, use a very gentle, unscented soap.

If it has a fishy smell and yellow discharge, that is a sign of a vaginal infection. If your discharge is clumpy and you're itchy, it could be a yeast infection. If you're really concerned, consult a doctor.

But odds are, he may not know it's supposed to smell. A lot of guys are misinformed that discharge is odourless. That is not the case. Don't be too worried about it unless you have any uncomfortable symptoms.

Try not to clean too much or you could give yourself an infection. Lots of supposed vaginal soaps and products actually kill off the useful bacteria that lives down there and keeps you clean and healthy.

[cvijetak]

Consult a doctor to be sure that everything is OK :)

[emily-candace]

we all smell and Im sure he smells too, Don' worry bout it if he wont go down there then you don't need to go down there on him either.

[butterfly00]

we all smell and Im sure he smells too, Don' worry bout it if he wont go down there then you don't need to go down there on him either.

This is what I think too.

[Abbeys]

Update.

Hi all,thanks everyone for your input and advice.It’s very reassuring to know I am not alone and to get such a broad spectrum of opinion to help me make the right decision.

I had decided to dump him but I didn’t have to.

We had the talk and it turns out he thinks he may be gay or at least bi so when it comes to getting close to a girls bits he finds it a bit overwhelming.

We have broke up and we will remain friends,I know it’s a cliche.
He is a lovely guy and I don’t want to lose him as a friend.

I do tend to pick guys that are a bit effeminate,a bit girlie,you know the quiet sensitive types so maybe that says something about me that I need to explore and think about.

Meanwhile,I am guyless!!!:( and will stay that way for a while.

Hopefully,not too long.

Abbey

XXXX

[Christen]

in germany we have a clichee "jemanden riechen können" meaning if someone likes the smell of the other. any human has an own unique smell also pheromones the fitting smells can cause atraction just as looks.

he may used it as an excuse in your case but a bit of truth is in there.