I just lost my best friend.

[CosmicNoodle]

Like the title was my best friend has had, for a complex set of reasons, had to stop all communication with me, it's not that we want to stop talking but we have to for her sake. It's only been a day but I already feel more alone, depressed and unwanted than I ever have, (you know who you are, dont think this is a plea for mercy, you made up your mind, stick with it)

My question is, how do you deal with rejection like this, I've never had to deal with rejection before and I don't know how to do it?

[NikosamA98]

Is it really necessary that you stop all kinds of communication? Why cut down a friendship like that? I cried a lit for my best friend, and I was depressed and I didn't get over it. But nothing bad really happened, it was just me overthinking everything. The thing is that I also felt rejected and I didn't know how to get over it

[CosmicNoodle]

Is it really necessary that you stop all kinds of communication? Why cut down a friendship like that? I cried a lit for my best friend, and I was depressed and I didn't get over it. But nothing bad really happened, it was just me overthinking everything. The thing is that I also felt rejected and I didn't know how to get over it

I'm not sure, but she sees it as a necessary move, for private reasons I can't disclose.
I just feel alone because of it,

[ImCoolBeans]

Do you love this person? I'm sorry if that's a hard question to answer. But I've been in a similar situation before. I fell in love with my best friend and for the sake of the circumstances that it happened in we really don't speak anymore. It ruined my life, because I let it ruin my life. I sat around feeling horrible, leaving myself to my own devices, where I had trapped myself in a negative mindset, believing horrible things about myself, living unhealthily, and obsessing over him. Over time I started to mature a little bit and realized that it honestly wasn't worth it. In life you really have to take care of yourself, and get yourself to move on, because if you dwell on something forever, you're just going to end up like that, and that really is no way to live.

Some things just aren't meant to work out perfectly, and often times when things end, it can be quite messy. But you can't let yourself believe that you are worthless. I'm not saying that it won't hurt, and I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but time, maturity, and focusing on doing good for yourself helps to heal emotional wounds.

[Ben_Frost]

I've been there, and it helped me to grieve for the loss. But I didn't let it get the best of me, I sure felt down and depressed. But I found a way out delving into hobbies, and meeting new people.

[DeadEyes]

Loss is a part of life, something you have to learn to deal with sooner or later.