Worried that I'll end up being a pedophile!

[TurboDieselBandit]

I'm worried that I'll end up being a pedophile because as I get older my tastes and preferences don't change. I've always liked girls and guys, probably guy's a bit more BUT I'M NOT IN ANY WAY ATTRACTED TO "MEN" OR HAIRY GUYS; never have been. The guy's I like tend to have little or no facial, chest or stomach hair and are relatively tall and thin/lean which means most guys I like are 15-19 years old. I turn 21 tomorrow so this really worries me! When I first joined here as Master7Chief I was 15 so my preference was appropriate and considered normal. I just assumed it would change when I got older. In college I'd change and be straight and only like the features of people around my age but that change never came and I'm afraid that it never will. Can anyone here relate? Anyone who has the opposite problem? I really don't know what I can or should do.

[Luminous]

Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Broken Toy]

Well its impossible to become a pedophile if you make sure you control your urges and not urges control you

[Lovelife090994]

Well its impossible to become a pedophile if you make sure you control your urges and not urges control you

This may be the best thing he can do.

[Harry Smith]

sorry stop the witchhunt-you're not going to turn into a paedophile at all despite what other members seem to be suggesting.

Your simply attracted to younger looking guys-in fact the category for this is Twinks-guys with little amounts of body hair that look pretty young. You're not a paedo for shacking up with 19 year old guys, or even 16 year olds.

Calm down guys

[TurboDieselBandit]

Well its impossible to become a pedophile if you make sure you control your urges and not urges control you

This may be the best thing he can do.


That's not what I mean, thanks for replying though. I shouldn't have used the "P" word. What I mean is why don't my preferences change with time in a more convenient way? And does this happen to any one else here?

Let me be clear, I would never run around touching little kids like a freak or even think of such a thing. :yuck: Never have, never wanted to, never will!!!

sorry stop the witchhunt-you're not going to turn into a paedophile at all despite what other members seem to be suggesting.

Your simply attracted to younger looking guys-in fact the category for this is Twinks-guys with little amounts of body hair that look pretty young. You're not a paedo for shacking up with 19 year old guys, or even 16 year olds.

Calm down guys

Yes, this is more like what I like. 16 my even be a bit of a stretch.

[Harry Smith]

Yes, this is more like what I like. 16 my even be a bit of a stretch.

yeah man it's not an issue, it's just like different guys are into different stuff-as long as it's all consensual etc

The thing is sexual attraction isn't the be all or end all, like you could have a 'type' and I guarantee a guy/girl will come along who's the complete opposite and you could quite easily fall for them

[FreshFly1]

Yeah. I guess it's not only you. I've always wondered why i'm only attracted to younger guys. And i've also feared turning into a paedophile

[Hideous]

sorry stop the witchhunt-you're not going to turn into a paedophile at all despite what other members seem to be suggesting.

Your simply attracted to younger looking guys-in fact the category for this is Twinks-guys with little amounts of body hair that look pretty young. You're not a paedo for shacking up with 19 year old guys, or even 16 year olds.

Calm down guys

I agree with this.