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mrmee
September 10th, 2014, 08:33 PM
This will probably be more geared towards my fellow fellas out there, but anything is appreciated.
I dont know how the hell it happened, but somehow i wound up with three girls that want be more than friends. They each have their perks and shortcomings, but dont we all? A little about myself to give a general idea: first off, im country. living in the boonies tend to have that effect. next, im athlectic. also a result of farm life, hard word, get strong and fast, yea. Im flirty. Sometimes without even trying to be, but with everyone. I have some morals. Depending on the subject, i can be extremley goodie-goodie. The three big ones that i have no morals, are sex, drugs and alcohol. So now ive told you my life story, now to the girls discriptions.
One ive known for over 10 years. She is a little on the heavyset side, but she already told me she wants to have sex with me when she turns 16 (in a few months). Likewise, she told me that when we were dating like 3 months ago for the 6th time. i hate off and on relationships like that. one of the breakups was when i caught her cheating with her ex. however, ive known her so long, and she meant a lot, blah blah blah.
Option number two is the most recent to express her intrest. Actually, she tried to get the girl mentioned above to tell me, unknowing of the situation. She's very athletic (holds the female mile time for the grade), however she is not as popular, not as country, and shows no intrest sexually. I would be her first boyfriend though, because she's picky.
Finally, option number three. She is the perfect shape, she's country, drinks but does not do drugs, and is athletic. She seems like she is sexually interested, but wants me to make the first move. But theres a catch. Isnt there always? She does not go to my school, and lives about 30 miles away. I met her at a football game (she used to play too) where we hit it off, but i cant see her but at the games.
Tell me what yall think. The sooner the better. Thx

crazyBoyjJ
September 10th, 2014, 08:45 PM
Wow I wanna say that ur so lucky to get three girls going after you. I wish I was like you. The best option to me seems to be the second girl she seems to be pretty decent. It doesn't matter about her poularity, its her personality, u shouldn't either be concerned about sex either. Get to know her better. The first girl sounds like a slut in my opinion I would cut her off. And long distance relationships are hard so consider that in mind.

So good luck on however u choose.

mrmee
September 10th, 2014, 09:15 PM
Wow I wanna say that ur so lucky to get three girls going after you. I wish I was like you. The best option to me seems to be the second girl she seems to be pretty decent. It doesn't matter about her poularity, its her personality, u shouldn't either be concerned about sex either. Get to know her better. The first girl sounds like a slut in my opinion I would cut her off. And long distance relationships are hard so consider that in mind.

So good luck on however u choose.

lol, thx, but its a lot simpler when theres only one going after ya. lmao.

Ive known the first and second since elementary school, so i know them really well. The first has just been in the equation for so long, its hard to just let go, especially when she keeps coming back. The second i just thought of as a friend and nothing more for so long, so its a transition too. As for the third, its not too far, and we both still have phones. For the past month, my messages went from 500/month to 5000/month

crazyBoyjJ
September 10th, 2014, 09:25 PM
lol, thx, but its a lot simpler when theres only one going after ya. lmao.

Ive known the first and second since elementary school, so i know them really well. The first has just been in the equation for so long, its hard to just let go, especially when she keeps coming back. The second i just thought of as a friend and nothing more for so long, so its a transition too. As for the third, its not too far, and we both still have phones. For the past month, my messages went from 500/month to 5000/month

Well as they say if u love someone let them go if they come back to you its meant to be, but I can't really advise u anymore cause I have never been in a relationship. That was what I felt from saying when I read ur thread the first time, but I'm not a relationship expert I've never been in one.

phuckphace
September 11th, 2014, 06:53 AM
#3 no question.

mrmee
October 4th, 2014, 11:55 PM
No sooner did i pick #3, did #1 tell me she was moving back to the school #3 goes to and she was looking forwrd to seeing her more than anyone. When she found out i was going after #3 thanks to my loudmouth best friend, she kinda punched me in the face and tried to kick my nuts. I took #3 to homecoming yesterday, and #1 kept walking up to me asking where other guys were acting like she diddnt try to put me in excrutiating pain the day before. She even went as far as to sext my second best friend and tell him to show me to make me jelous. However, she left early so i got to spend time with #3, which ended in cuddling and kissing in the parkin lot. Btw, my team won 48-6, literally making the entire other team quit football. lmfao

phuckphace
October 6th, 2014, 07:38 AM
you're welcome brah. congrats :D