Placing my hand on the middle lower back of the girl I like. Was it wrong?

[clueless_one]

Let me start with this girl is good friend of mine. She was about to leave this group event and was standing in front of me (back facing me). To try and break "the touch barrier" and see if she might have interest back, I placed my hand on the middle section of her lower back to get her attention and said bye. After I did it, she looked over her shoulder, saw me, looked down behind her shoulder and possibly smiled (I say possibly because I'm not 100% sure, but before this happened, one day I looked at her with a smile on my face she looked down tried to hide her face and smiled - I saw her smile at this time).

Something told me I should break the touch barrier to try and show I want to get closer to her. I would never do it in a wrong/inappropriate way, just to show I care about her.

So, was it wrong for me to touch the middle area of her lower back?
Given her reaction, does she seem interested in me?

[Croconaw]

It wasn't wrong. She might like you.

[clueless_one]

anyone else able to help?

[asrlem]

Im with him that you were right to do it because u had her as a friend for a while and if she smiled then she liked it and you are fine.

[James Dean]

That was kinda risky of you to do. My best bet would be to talk to her to see if she was cool with it or not. From what it sounds like she might be interested and probably thought it was kinda pervy of you to do, I guess she liked that you were brave enough to do it.

[Uranus]

Let me start with this girl is good friend of mine. She was about to leave this group event and was standing in front of me (back facing me). To try and break "the touch barrier" and see if she might have interest back, I placed my hand on the middle section of her lower back to get her attention and said bye. After I did it, she looked over her shoulder, saw me, looked down behind her shoulder and possibly smiled (I say possibly because I'm not 100% sure, but before this happened, one day I looked at her with a smile on my face she looked down tried to hide her face and smiled - I saw her smile at this time).

Something told me I should break the touch barrier to try and show I want to get closer to her. I would never do it in a wrong/inappropriate way, just to show I care about her.

So, was it wrong for me to touch the middle area of her lower back?
Given her reaction, does she seem interested in me?

You must have some balls or you a real baller bro! Thats some risky shit right there, man. Was it a wrong thing to do? Probably not if I understand what you're saying. You said she looked down and smiled, so I don't know but she might be possibly a shy girl? Idk. But hey, she smiled so that's gotta mean something. And since she didn't react in a bad way when you did touch her there, I'd say its all good man. Just don't do it too much cause it might creep her out or make you look like a perv. I don't know her past, but could've been sexually abused and that's why she didn't react , because she might not have known what to do.. If you catch what I'm saying. I'd say talk more for a bit before you try any other moves, to make sure she's thinking what you're thinking, unless you're like me and just go for it and try and lay her quick. Lol but yeah, hope I helped


Good luck man

[Buddy 912]

Nothing wrong with what you did. If she didn't like what you did, it would be a sign to move on.

[allisonmyers]

risky thing to do but if she didn't yell at you or tell you to stop ask her if its ok

[ForLackOfABetterUser]

First of all good job for having the confidence to do it! Secondly since she was a good friend I don't see a problem with it. If she still acts normal with you from now on then I'd say she was comfortable. If she doesn't then just move on there are more girls :p