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KangarooInMalibu
September 10th, 2014, 11:05 AM
My friend and I have been best friends for 5 years now. Back in January he asked me to go out with him. I said "Yes!" and told him he was my 1st boyfriend to which he said "I am honored!". We dated for a few months (which included a wonderful Valentine's Day in which he bought me beautiful red roses and took me skating). Then one day after school, while hugging each other, he told me "I think it would be better if we were just best friends".

During our relationship, we never fought. Our relationship didn't mess anything up involving our friendship. All of our friends thought we were a really cute couple, and a good handful of them actually got really mad that he broke up with me. Some of our more uninformed friends have asked us if we were still dating, and one of our friends thought we were dating again due to how much we still hang out together (which is everyday at school since we have pretty much every class together).

After our break up, I never lost the feelings I've felt for him. Sometimes, I truly feel like he still has feelings for me as well, due to the things he's done for me, and the way he acts around me (which according to many websites the things he does do mean he does has a crush on me).


Is it ok if I still have a crush on him/feelings for him? Or is that a bad thing?
pantelis60
September 10th, 2014, 11:36 AM
Of Course is not a bad thing! I think the reason he said to broke up was that when 2 bestfriends are starting to dating it change the way you see each other, the thing you can trust in each other e.t.c. and he might did not want that but he is definatly still in love with you!
KangarooInMalibu
September 12th, 2014, 10:52 AM
Of Course is not a bad thing! I think the reason he said to broke up was that when 2 bestfriends are starting to dating it change the way you see each other, the thing you can trust in each other e.t.c. and he might did not want that but he is definatly still in love with you!

Ok. Thank you!
Magenta
September 12th, 2014, 11:02 AM
This happened with my best friend and I was still in love with him after our relationship. It's perfectly normal to still have lingering feelings. I mean, you're best friends regardless and you'll care about and love each other no matter what. He just doesn't want to cross that line anymore and it happens.