How would you feel?

[NikosamA98]

How would you feel if someone who used to be your best friend but eventually stopped talking and doing stuff together randomly called you 2 months after graduation to ask how are you and ask to hang out or something? Would you feel awkward? Happy? Meh? :confused:

[Harley Quinn]

I'd feel awkward, mainly for the fact that if they were really my friend they'd stay in contact regardless of what happened. I always find, once you're doing okay and progressing fine just without the person, they feel the need to get back into contact. However, if you want to hang out with this friend, I don't see why you shouldn't. It really all comes down to how you personally feel with the situation.

[NikosamA98]

I'd feel awkward, mainly for the fact that if they were really my friend they'd stay in contact regardless of what happened. I always find, once you're doing okay and progressing fine just without the person, they feel the need to get back into contact. However, if you want to hang out with this friend, I don't see why you shouldn't. It really all comes down to how you personally feel with the situation.


We stay in contact but not as much as we did before... I mean, different classes, different friends... still went to my birthdays and called and such but that was it. Sooo you wouldn't like it if that person called you?

[CosmicNoodle]

I think it'd be cool, all my friends stayed in touch so wasnt a problem for me.

[soft]

How would you feel if someone who used to be your best friend but eventually stopped talking and doing stuff together randomly called you 2 months after graduation to ask how are you and ask to hang out or something? Would you feel awkward? Happy? Meh? :confused:

I would first check and find the reason for this and then only decide what I will do.

[Croconaw]

I would be confused.

[Melodic]

That has happened plenty of times with me.. I had a friend I didn't even talk with for 10 months and suddenly they started talking.

I usually kinda just go with things because I'm used to the whole in and out friendship.

[fast8]

It have to take awhile before i could trust them aging like a real friend aging

[Second Chance]

Everything depends on the relationship you have had with the person and if there was a major problem that caused you two to move apart. If you two split because there was a major difference between you two, then I would be cautious in hanging out with your friend again. If you two simply drifted apart due to you both being in different classes, social groups, and having different interests, then it is natural that you both will not see each other for a period of time. In that case, then I would say it would be all right to hang out with your friend especially since the separation was caused by something beyond both of your control.

In short, if your friend is an overall decent person and is not involved in anything problematic such as alcohol, drugs, or anything else that could cause issues, then it would not be a bad thing hanging out with him/her.