Am I Asexual I can't tell.

[MrVanity]

So for the past 4 years I've I identified as a Lesbian and I've dated two girls and had sex with one.

I have never had enjoyable sex and with the exception of certain people I really like romantically I don't even like being touched.

But to be honest most of the people I've had sex with wouldn't be enjoyable in any circumstances. And as a result I doubt I will ever like sex.

But even before that I never really thought about sex.

And now the most confusing part is I kind of like a GUY WTF

This guy I know who also doesn't think about sex much, I just want him to take me out to dinner and cuddle me a lot.

WTF

[ChrisTJ]

It's really hard to tell if you're asexual. I take it you've tried AVEN (www.asexuality.org), they have a lot of info on asexuality to help you figure things out. To me though asexuals never experience sexual attraction to anyone so ask yourself, have you ever felt a sexual urge or attraction towards someone? If so you might not be asexual but demisexual. As for not having enjoyable sex, there's such a thing as just bad sex :P

[MrVanity]

Trust me *Shudders at admitting this* Ive had a lot of sex and my feeling around it range from meh to absolute disgust.

And I'm not Demisexual I can crush on someone I just met I just don't want to sleep with them.

[Gigablue]

You might be. I'm asexual. I don't feel sexually attracted to anyone. I have never had sex, and don't particularly want to. I just seems weird to me. I don't really understand why other people have sex.

AVEN has good articles and forums, which may help you sort things out. Figuring out whether or not you are asexual is somewhat harder than other orientations, since you are defining yourself by what you don't feel. It'll take a while to figure things out.

[fast8]

You might be but then aging u might turn back into liking it later on