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Prejudiceisignorance
September 9th, 2014, 03:45 PM
Ok, so there's this guy I kinda like (yeah, I'm gay) and he's in my year and most of my classes and we talk loads but I don't know if I should ask him out! There are a few reasons but the biggie is I'm not sure he's gay...a few months ago in our social/personal education we ended up talking about statistics for gay people and we worked out (on average) how many people in our year are gay. After that he asked me if I knew who any of them are, I told him I didn't (but he now knows that I am) but just after he asked me, he said "Yeah, I might be..." And kinda just trailed off :confused: . Then I told him that I didn't care because you can be whoever the hell you wanna be or who you are and I wouldn't mind. Then he muttered something which I didn't hear...but back to the topic, WADDA I DOOO?
(P.S: I don't know how to ask him either before you say that(like how to word it)).
Living For Love
September 9th, 2014, 06:31 PM
Since you said you guys talk a lot with each other, and you seem close friends, then I guess you might ask him out. Start with something simple and easy at first, invite him for lunch, for instance, or say something like: "Hey, wanna go somewhere with me after school?", make it seem casual, and don't focus on starting a relationship right now. Take things slowly, he seems like he's not 100% sure of his sexuality so you need to respect that as well.
JamesSuperBoy
September 11th, 2014, 11:00 AM
If you are not sure if to ask or how to ask then just chill -
Just suggest you hang out for something or to do something an event gig or even homework - see how it goes.
Prejudiceisignorance
September 11th, 2014, 03:33 PM
If you are not sure if to ask or how to ask then just chill -
Just suggest you hang out for something or to do something an event gig or even homework - see how it goes.
Since you said you guys talk a lot with each other, and you seem close friends, then I guess you might ask him out. Start with something simple and easy at first, invite him for lunch, for instance, or say something like: "Hey, wanna go somewhere with me after school?", make it seem casual, and don't focus on starting a relationship right now. Take things slowly, he seems like he's not 100% sure of his sexuality so you need to respect that as well.
Thanks for the help guys! We're going to Costa in a few days (cuz everyone loves costa) and...yeah. Thanks again!
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