Sexual Orientation?

[navybro9666]

hey guys so I'm 18, male, and for the last like, idk 5 years ive been attracted to guys. I don't wanna have sex with them I just like to see them nude and stuff but I do not want to be gay. I watch gay porn all the time so I'm assuming I'm at least bi but I'm not attracted to girls the same way. I don't have any desire to see then nude, but I do have a girlfriend who I do love and we have sex and stuff a lot and I enjoy it but I still am not attracted to vagina. Idk what's wrong with me but it's literally killing me mentally. I can't be gay and I will never accept it til the day I die. even if everyone I knew said they didn't care I would never admit it. so I'm asking if anyone knows how to get rid of these feelings? and I could live a happy life with a girl and start a family but I'm atoll not attracted to girls the same way as guys. helpppp please!

[jacko]

Well, if you're not attracted to girls at all.... You can't "not be gay". You might be bi, leaning over (quite significantly) towards the gay side, but I think that you should accept the fact that you might be gay.

[CosmicNoodle]

Well, if you're not attracted to girls at all.... You can't "not be gay". You might be bi, leaning over (quite significantly) towards the gay side, but I think that you should accept the fact that you might be gay.

Exactly this^

There are many things we all dislike about ourselfs, if your a person who doesnt have something to dislike about yourself your a lucky son of a bitch, at some point we all have to just lay back and accept what we are, no matter what that may be. You may not like the fact that your not compleatly straight, I didnt for years, hated myself for it, but one day I just woke up and though, ohh fuck me I don't care anymore, since then Ive had both girlfriends and boyfriends and I'm mostly happy with my sexuality, you too at some point will have to do the same, just accept what you are and live with it, embrace it.

[Melodic]

TWPR :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Woodstommy]

I would suggest you are bi but with a heavy male orientation

[lionpinewood]

I had the exact same feeling, only when I was, I don't know, 13. Then I denied myself being gay even though I masturbated to gay porn. I also thought I don't want to have sex with them, I only like to see them naked. I swore to myself I would be with girls and have kids, because this is just confusion. Then it didn't stop, so I told myself I would change, but I didn't. Then I told myself I would lie to my future girlfriend and just have sex with her, even though I didn't want to. Finally, when I accepted it completely, I felt such a HUGE relief. It complicates your life a bit, but believe me, it's not as bad as you think. I know, I felt the exact same way. And I suppose you won't believe me, but if you start excepting it, it will get way better.

[JAKE1445]

Pansexual?

[Karkat]

You can't "not be gay".

...That's not exactly true. He could be asexual. Seems entirely improbable because he does seem rather sexual, but if he finds he dislikes sex with both men and women, there ya go.

It doesn't seem that he's entirely gay. I'd say he could definitely be mostly gay and just in denial, but if he enjoys sex with women, I'd hardly say he's gay.

I mean, if that were true, I'd be a lesbian, and not bisexual.

[lionpinewood]

guys, he's not attracted to women... he likes having sex with women but that doesn't qualify him as a bisexual, especially not a straight guy. it's just because sexual stimulation is supposed to feel good, no matter who it's coming from. i think he's is just an immensely confused gay guy, and it will just take time for him to accept it.