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Uranus
September 8th, 2014, 09:34 AM
How do I tell a girl about my feelings for her. I care and love for her. I know she has some feelings for me. We are very close and we have in the past shown some affection. But how do I tell her about my feelings for her??? What would be the best way without being a creep or something? Help

Harley Quinn
September 8th, 2014, 04:09 PM
To be honest, the best way with anything like this is talking to her in person and literally just telling her what you feel. If she feels the same way, I don't see why that would make you a creep. I mean obviously don't jump in and say 'I love you' or whatever because that is something that could potentially scare the living shit out of her, but telling her that you care for her and all that stuff, is best to be just literally said. Just tell her you need to talk to her, don't beat around the bush and just come out with it.

highschool
September 9th, 2014, 03:48 PM
^ great advice, or you can just start off by going out with her? that way it's an easier transition to telling her how much you care about her. She might be a little confused if you go and tell her you care about her without making some kind of initiative for a date.

Croconaw
September 9th, 2014, 04:12 PM
If you've shown affection in the past, it shouldn't be that difficult. You can give her clues if you think she likes you. I can say that if she was okay with your affection in the past, then she might like you.

Elysium
September 9th, 2014, 04:20 PM
The way I did it was I asked my crush at the time to hang out with the intention of telling her and, when we were alone, I straight up told her. I did preface it with "needing to talk to her" to prevent me from chickening out, as she knew I had something I needed to say. She later told me she was glad I one, told her, and two, told her in person. I honestly don't think there's a much better way, as long as you're saying it in person.

Also, Family and Friends :arrow: Relationships and Dating
And I've merged the other thread you made on this topic with this one.

Uranus
September 11th, 2014, 12:38 PM
Thanks for your help. It's just I am worried about being rejected but you guys have really good information. Thanks ��

Prejudiceisignorance
September 11th, 2014, 03:39 PM
In the words of Matthew Gray Gubler: 'I like real women, not those rakes that Hollywood sell these days'. That's exactly who someone should feel day to day. If someone doesn't like you because of your look...then screw them (metaphorically)!