View Full Version : Honestly? What do you think of your family and friends?
Dimentio
September 7th, 2014, 12:21 PM
Well personally for me, my friends can not always be the best of people, and it's sad to say that when i think of what brings me down the most typically, one of the first few things i think is friends, and it's because in life, I keep the people i need, not the people i want, for instance Kelsey, we've been friends since i was like 4, and we have been friends since on and off, but for a while now she has been doing me more bad than good, but she is also the only person to talk to me, well not really these past few days, anyway, it leads to this cycle of her bringing me down, and us not talking, but not wanting to get rid of her, due to when we first met and when we get along, we really get along, but in the long run, is this what i need?
Then Jake is another example, I always imagined him and i would be good friends, and we kinda were, but then he turned into a bit of an ass, and then doubted my anxiety and depression like he did today, and always made me out to be this person who couldn't do things on their own, or was 100% not right in the head, and yet another person who, when we get along, we really get along, but then when i think of him on a whole, he brings me down!
Now to family, well, only one person to talk about really, my mum, I love her to bits, she has been my rock through everything, and i just love her more than anything, but lately, she never believes anything i say affects me, doesn't tell my sister off for harassing me, tells me off for getting angry, doesn't reward me for doing good, never listens to me, and just, she brings me down a lot also, and of course, I need her in my life as she is my mother, and we have been through a lot together and she has always been there for me as a kid, but then growing up, that all completely did a 180!
So what about you? Is there anyone you feel like you want in your life or need, but you should not have or do not have? As, honestly, the way it seems for me, all those i hold dear are the ones who bring me down the most, which, that is not a good thing, and i think i may need to cut myself loose from this anchors soon!
Croconaw
September 7th, 2014, 12:58 PM
I occasionally feel like my friends are too good for me, and that they deserve much better. There are some people I'm friends with and I truly feel that they consider me their friend. It might feel good to have friends now, but the chances of talking to them after high school are very slim. I've learned that the hard way because my friend graduated. I highly doubt we will ever speak to each other again.
Cognizant
September 7th, 2014, 01:11 PM
I'm overall satisfied with my life. My family might not be perfect and tight anymore, but we all love each other at the end of the day and I value that. I'm also satisfied with friends and my social life. This school year I have been a lot more social and outgoing not just with my current friends, but with new people as well. It's great and I actually am starting to feel like a somewhat reputable person at school. Sure, there's a few old friends that drifted and I wish I still had in my life, but I have to remember that I can't be friends with everybody. Some friendships will drift, and that's the nature of life.
Romance is a different story for me. I am strongly attracted to a person that:
1) isn't into me
2) lives a few thousand miles away
3) is younger than me
It's probably not the best idea for me to keep fixating on the idea of wanting to be with him, but I honestly can't help it, because he's one of the most (physically and emotionally) attractive people I know.
Dimentio
September 7th, 2014, 01:40 PM
I occasionally feel like my friends are too good for me, and that they deserve much better. There are some people I'm friends with and I truly feel that they consider me their friend. It might feel good to have friends now, but the chances of talking to them after high school are very slim. I've learned that the hard way because my friend graduated. I highly doubt we will ever speak to each other again.
That's fine honestly, I knew some kid since i was like 3, ended up bullying me in high school and we no longer talk, and a lot of good friends i have made in life at all different stages we no longer talk, it's just a thing that happens, it is not you or the other person, it's just life :)
I'm overall satisfied with my life. My family might not be perfect and tight anymore, but we all love each other at the end of the day and I value that. I'm also satisfied with friends and my social life. This school year I have been a lot more social and outgoing not just with my current friends, but with new people as well. It's great and I actually am starting to feel like a somewhat reputable person at school. Sure, there's a few old friends that drifted and I wish I still had in my life, but I have to remember that I can't be friends with everybody. Some friendships will drift, and that's the nature of life.
Romance is a different story for me. I am strongly attracted to a person that:
1) isn't into me
2) lives a few thousand miles away
3) is younger than me
It's probably not the best idea for me to keep fixating on the idea of wanting to be with him, but I honestly can't help it, because he's one of the most (physically and emotionally) attractive people I know.
Damn i was thinking it was me then you said attractive ;) XD But it's good you have learned to appreciate the things in life :D But gurlfriend i am getting on the scoop about this guy!
ksdnfkfr
September 7th, 2014, 06:11 PM
Dad: We have a great relationship. He's good at being both a parent and buddy.
Mom: We have standard a parent child relationship. Sometimes I feel like I'm a hardship on her.
Ex-friend: Was a good friend in one way....was a user in another way.
New friend: So far is a really great friend. Has autism like me. Is very simple, honest and trustworthy.
LoveLessOne
September 7th, 2014, 08:27 PM
im sorry. i would try to like write down your issues and stuff or even the best things that happen to you!
PinkFloyd
September 7th, 2014, 08:35 PM
I think my family and friends are great. They're all fantastic people that I love being around.
LoveLessOne
September 7th, 2014, 09:11 PM
i think my family should be smacked my my friends need to be my family
Dimentio
September 8th, 2014, 10:34 AM
I think my family and friends are great. They're all fantastic people that I love being around.
It's nice to see you are surrounded by people you love :)
Dad: We have a great relationship. He's good at being both a parent and buddy.
Mom: We have standard a parent child relationship. Sometimes I feel like I'm a hardship on her.
Ex-friend: Was a good friend in one way....was a user in another way.
New friend: So far is a really great friend. Has autism like me. Is very simple, honest and trustworthy.
It's always weird seeing someone who gets along with their dad because of my own, but that's nice to see!
But i am happy you have found such a good friend to have in your life :) I know this is a trait of Autism but being trustworthy and honest is such a huge thing in a friendship i find personally! So that's great, hope things go better for you than with the last person :D
NikosamA98
September 8th, 2014, 07:48 PM
I love my family. Couldn't ask for a better one...but friends? I wish I could talk to them with confidence as I do with my friends online :/
CharlieHorse
September 8th, 2014, 10:40 PM
friends:
I have many acquaintances, but not many close friends. A few that I should talk to more. :/ I'm not a very good friend. I don't appear to be a good person and i'm not attractive, so nobody really likes me or approaches me.
My family is all doing their own thing and we've never really been a family because my dad is so stubborn.
All in all I hate people.
Melodic
September 8th, 2014, 11:19 PM
Friends: In real life, I really only have one close friend. He's probably the best friend I've ever had.
Family: Most of them I'm not close to, and I'll keep it that way.
Body odah Man
September 9th, 2014, 01:12 PM
My family are really sweet to me.
My friends: God, they are sooo kind to me and so much sweeter than they should be to me. They forgive me for soo much, are so considerate it warms my heart. I don't know what I've done to deserve them but I am grateful to have them
Dimentio
September 10th, 2014, 11:52 AM
My family are really sweet to me.
My friends: God, they are sooo kind to me and so much sweeter than they should be to me. They forgive me for soo much, are so considerate it warms my heart. I don't know what I've done to deserve them but I am grateful to have them
That's so so so so so so sweet to hear :)
friends:
I have many acquaintances, but not many close friends. A few that I should talk to more. :/ I'm not a very good friend. I don't appear to be a good person and i'm not attractive, so nobody really likes me or approaches me.
My family is all doing their own thing and we've never really been a family because my dad is so stubborn.
All in all I hate people.
You are literally my favourite person and i love you XD But your looks should have nothing to do with friends, with relationships no matter what someone says, sure, but friendship? Like I am ugly as fuck and made some also ugly friends, but we loved each other for our personalities!
Blood
September 11th, 2014, 08:39 PM
Sister: She is one of the very few people I'm extremely close to and I love her to fucking pieces. We argue, we fight, we bitch, but in the end we'll always be there for each other. We do almost everything together and I don't hardly ever get tired of being with her.
Brothers: I love all of them, even though they're little demons in the making. They can get on my nerves but they're my world and I would do anything to make them happy.
Parents: I don't really know what to put here. My parents and I have our various differences and we butt heads more than we should but I love them.
My friends, internet and real life, are amazingly flawed, crazy, and unique. I love them all.
Dalcourt
September 11th, 2014, 09:52 PM
My friends, no matter if real life friends or online. They are all amazing, I like talking to them and being with them...I have friends from different age groups not only my age. Being with friends is always great.
Family: This is far more complicated...I don't have much family to begin with and I'm not really close to them. It's not that I don't like them at all...it's just a bit stained. There are only two I really love and that's my maternal grandma and my father.
Magenta
September 12th, 2014, 01:15 AM
Honestly, my family is a mess but I'm old enough now to mostly ignore it.
I have a good group of friends and I've weeded out the ones who weren't as great as I thought they were and I'm happy about it. I'm pretty content.
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