I think i'm really mean

[hellokitty]

Me and my boyfriend have been going out about 3 months, and now, we have just begun to have sex (PLEASE, DO NOT LECTURE ME ON NOT HAVING SEX, I WANTED IT, I ENJOYED IT, I'M NOT GOING TO STOP) but i think me bf penis is too small. When he is having sex with me, i barly feel it b'se its too small, and i am at the stage were i am considering finding someone else b'se it doesnt even feel good for me. Am i totally mean, or do other understand my problem??

[Serenity]

Girls Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[JoshDude]

Well theres nothing you can do about it unfortunately. I mean, if you dont get pleasure at all out of it, then you may have to leave. It sounds mean, but it truly isnt. Sex is a very important issue in relationships, and if you dont get yours, then it aint worth it because you wont last anyway.

[jay92]

get him to try this trick:

it is supposed to make it feel better for the girl, dont know if it would work with a small diick or not but its worth a shot.

get him to insert his pinky finger into your vagina for a minute or two untill the vagina slowly closes over it, once it has slide the dick in and go for it.

Hope it helps

[IfPiratesCouldFly]

Well, I don't know about the post above me, doesn't sound very valid haha, but yeah try it. Anyway, I wouldn't personally break up with someone cos the sex is bad unless thats the only reason you're really in the relationship, in that case, yeah, find a new one, best advise i can give

[jay92]

yea i havent tried it, dnt need to but let me know if it works!

+ I wouldnt break up with a chick if she had small tits and i couldnt feel them on me if i hug her...

what if you had small tits? wouldnt be very nice iff someone broke it off with you for that

think about it

[IfPiratesCouldFly]

Sex and breasts are two different things though, I don't agree with breaking up with someone cos they have a small penis but, I understand where she's coming from.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Are you sure its really small? Like do you know how big it really is (inches wise)? You also gotta remember that women have a hard time feeling much pleasure just from intercourse (since their clitoris doesn't get stimulated at all, and the g-spot doesn't get much outta it either). So are you sure its that you're not "feeling it at all" or if its just that you can feel his penis but it just doesn't feel good? That, or he really is small.

[Close102]

DO NOT BREAK UPWITH HIM!!!!!!!

at least not yet because he might start rumors that u just went out with him for sex.

if its really bad tell him how u feel

[scatman]

dpends how old you are you guys may have more growing to do

[sara1220]

+ I wouldnt break up with a chick if she had small tits and i couldnt feel them on me if i hug her...

what if you had small tits? wouldnt be very nice iff someone broke it off with you for that

think about it

i agree... if u really like eachother then u would look beyond sex. sex is not what u should base a relationship on...