My stupid brother...

[Mzor203]

IS DRIVING ME ABSOLUTELY NUTS!!!:guillotine::furious::bigsmash::headbonk::nuke:

The above smilies basically show my feelings. He is so obnoxious, always tries to hurt people, is so full of himself and just won't shut the :censored: up.

What I need is a way to give him a nice little suprise, something that will get him in trouble, or give him a good smacking or something that won't get me in trouble, but that will sober him up a little. I need help!!!!!!!! I've been enduring this too long, and I think someone might get hurt if he continues with his idiocy. I'm not cruel, but he needs a good beating right now.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Have you tried simply telling these concerns to your parents, rather than going out of your way to get him in trouble (because you know if your parents find out, you'll be in trouble, too)? How old is your brother? Some ages are just crazy for many kids. Forget the terrible two's, I'm talking about the horrific 9-12's. It usually starts to calm down during ages 13-15, and hopefully by 16 and 17 they're more mature... Point is, hitting him isn't going to help, it's just gonna get him pissed off at you. And if he's a terror as it is, why make it worse for no gain of your own? The best first step would be to talk to a parent or guardian about your concerns and whether or not there's anything they can do.

I know siblings can be a real pain in the butt but, having lost a sibling, I'm not real fond of the "blarrrgh help me strangle my brother/sister because they woke me up watching TV" type complaints. If it's something small like that, try to talk to them. If it's bigger, wlel, you don't like it when he bothers you so why go out of your way to bother him back? Is that solving the situation? Do you really think being mean is going to "put him in his place" or whatever? it may be tempting but honestly. Appreciate the fact that you have a brother, and talk to your parents about keeping a closer watch on him and punishing his bad behavior. That's part of what parents are there for.

[Mzor203]

The thing is, I have talked to my parents, they just always believe him and I always end up getting in trouble no matter what happens. The thing that really set me off was when, earlier tonight, my two brothers got into an argument, and then suddenly the annoying brother went berserk and was suddenly on top of my other, nice, calm, sophisticated brother and was trying to smash his face in with his foot. Guess who got in trouble? Mainly me and my other brother. It is just so freakin unfair. When he gets going, it really seems like he's out for blood. Once, I was really close to tears after my annoying brother tried to smash my other brother's head into the pavement and I only just managed to get him off and get our mom. When she saw my slightly moistened eyes, she got really mad at me, and my brother suffered no ill effects.

ANYWAYS,thanks for any help, and just so you know, my annoying brother is 10, my not annoying brother 12,and I 15.

[The Batman]

since he is 10 you really need to help him before he ends up hurting the wrong person and gets himself hurt.

[Mzor203]

Yes, but how? Enlighten me here. I would hold a grudge against him and not talk to him and that might work, but no matter how hard I try I can never do it.

[Gavin]

I think being the oldest one,you need to set an example to him,b/c he is the one that is going to look up to you in a few years time,since you're the big brother in the family,sit down and talk to him or something like that,tell him what he is doing wrong stuff like that.

[Mzor203]

No, I have talked to him, I have tried to set an example,I have done everything I can to try to get him to be better. The thingis that HE IS HELL BENT ON BEING THE MOST AGGRESSIVE IDIOTIC AND STUPID PERSON THAT EVER LIVED!!!!!! There is really nothing normal that will help me right now.

[Gavin]

why dont you just stay away from him right now and just let him calm down,he'll probably want to talk to you when he's ready.

[Mzor203]

After years of being like this? I don't think so. I think something really needs to be done about him.

[Gavin]

Well i dont think you can doing anything really about him other than you keep telling your parents about him and what he has done,keep a log of it all,and dont hit him that would just make things more worse

[Mzor203]

Keeping a log was one thing I was thinking off, though in a different way. I would have a graph for
my two brothers, each day giving them a score out of ten, and then after a month show them their charts. Maybe that would show him how he's being.

[Gavin]

That could be a possibility but however that is all up to you and decide how you want to go about it all.

I hope it all gets sorted out

[Underground_Network]

Maybe start a competition between your two brothers. Tell them that you'll be keeping track of their behavior, and whoever behaves the best after a month gets a prize. Don't tell them what the prize is, as that will get them even more absorbed into the competition. The prize could be something small, or even something like an old toy you have lying around or something like that. I was a CIT (counselor-in-training) over the summer for 2nd graders, and I know 2nd graders aren't 10 years old, but they can be a bit nutty, and having contests over who behaves the best was a way to keep them in line..

[Mzor203]

Lol, that's interesting. I might do that, it would probably work. Lol haha 2nd graders.

[Requin]

Wow, he sounds like a dick. Remember he is 10, most ten year olds are either kind and shy or a little nob head like your brother. Since your parents don't do anything and talking doesn't work, you could always spy on him rather than beat the shit into him which is what he needs. I mean like film him beating somebody up, hurting someone etc. It might get you into trouble for spying but if it shows what your brother is really like and your parents might actually punish him and stop believing him all the time. The reason for this is probably becuase he is the youngest and they assume that he is always innocent. BTW If your parents still don't believe that he is like this after filming him then i think they need the counselling not your brother. l0l