My bf's penis is so small

[DanaW]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.

[Elysium]

Maybe because you're biologically female and do not own a penis, so what do you know about how big a penis should be? Doctors can't just magically adjust the size of your junk. Besides, that sounds pretty average to me. Perhaps you've been watching too much porn, and you may have slightly exaggerated or unrealistic expectations of how big penises are and how they should work.

[TheFSM]

I agree, this seems to be a problem not just with penis size, but many other areas in life. People overestimate things.

[Taryn98]

size is meaningless and you can't change it anyway so why worry about it
I never understand all this size talk, it's pointless

[fast8]

Yea i agree penis size is uncontrollable so why worry about it be happy with whatever u have it will satisfied ur partner

[PinkFloyd]

First off, being under 5" when you're 15 is perfectly normal. Hell, that's even normal for someone who's older like say 18/19. Not every guy has one that's 8 inches. Porn lies.

[DanaW]

Thanks for all the replies already.

The thing is I never even saw a boy naked before in real life so I was just going by pics of older guys I've seen on the interent. And it does seem like I read in more than one place that 6-7 in. is normal.

I also thought (not sure why)that boys penis etc don't grow much after their like 14.

I have to say though I still don't see why he doesn't want a doctor to check out his stuff. It couldn't hurt amything. I even found a clinic that would do this for free without telling his mom or anything.

[Pittsburgh]

I think its fair to say that both boys and girls can have growth spurts so its probably normal, at least that has been my experience

[Tyler97]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.

I thought you girls said size doesn't matter? now you know why boys worry about their size.

[pconnor2001]

Everybody is different.

[DanaW]

I want to say that I know its shallow an dumb for me to worry about his size especially since we don't even have sex. We've been best freinds since 6 grade and we're like "soul-mates" and I love him. I try to ignore this "shortcoming of his but I hear girls kind of bragging about how big their bfs are and I see pictures on the internet and stuff.

It does really help to know though that he isn't as small down there compared to others as I thought. Thanks guys.

also thanks to the person who sent me a private mesaage. I can't reply to it since I don't have enough posts but I really appreciate the info.

[jayjay's toocool]

hes probably trying his best not to feel hurt, a dick is something guys should feel confident about.

[Aajj333]

He is only 15 and it will get larger. There is nothing he can do about it so love him for who he is and be happy he isnt selfconcous

[DanaW]

He isn't self-concious around me at all but he hardly ever uses the restrooms at school because he's embarrased about his penis. It seems like mostly because he has to kind of like milk it afterwards and he thinks its "gay". I don't understand guy's attitudes about this kind of stuff at all

[nklarke]

I think you have the problem, not he.

[Your Captain]

He is still in puberty so its likely to grow

[ComfortableInChaos]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.


Do you seriously tell him "Your dick is too small"? Because I swear to god, if someone told me that right after fucking around, I would leave them... That's just rude and how would you feel if he told you your boobs were too small or your chest was too flat? The only thing there is... YOU CAN ADJUST THE SIZE OF YOUR BOOBS, HE CAN'T DO THAT WITH HIS PENIS. And going to a doctor just for YOU personally when he's fine with his size is pointless. They're going to tell him he's still in the middle of puberty and he's going to grow, just give him time and there really aren't any surgeries that can fix it. If you want a boyfriend with a bigger dick, find one but don't make him feel like shit because you don't like the size of his dick... How rude could you be? Talk about giving him low self esteem...

Not only that, but he's your step brother... Come on, get a real boy friend. Also, if there's a lot of precum, then it's "working right." He's just really turned on by you...

[jayjay's toocool]

He is only 15 and it will get larger. There is nothing he can do about it so love him for who he is and be happy he isnt selfconcous

not neccessarily true

[AdamS]

You know that most boys lie about size too right. Porn is done by 18 y/o and older. And puberty doesn't end at 15 XD Unless he's like reallly skinny (like dangerously) and has stunted growth I don't think you wanna mention doctors or anything.

We all grow differently, most my friends grow differently... this is like half time in football so wait till the end of the match for the score :P

[danimal]

wow he stayed with you even after you suggested he sees a doctor about his penis size? That is NOT ok to say to a guy.

[Farlkas]

Lol, have you seen many penises (of guys your age) or do you you look up pictures of adult sizes and expect your BF to be the same size?

[DanaW]

Well, I'm realzing more and more here that I guess he doesn't really need to go to a doctor. and yeah this was self centered on my part. butHonestly I didn't know that guys would be so bothered by this. I also didn't know that penises etc continue to grow after boys are 14-15. I don't know where i got the idea they don't.

I never thougt about how my complaining to him about his penis and balls would sound here. But our relationaship is hard to explain. We've been best friends since 6 grade (long befor we were bf/gf) and we are really close. He teases me about my "fried egg" boobs amd I do the same with him about his penis etc. I don't know if you all can really understand our relationship or not. Our friend s don't know what to think about us :)

Somebody mentioned the stepbro/stepsis thing. well i've said before that we were togther long before my dad even met his mom. I don't know if this guy thinks we should break up because they decided to get married or what. They are ok with it btw.

Anyways he does think I'm like half-insane if that makes anybody feel better :) and I admit I do weird stuff with his penis etc. I keep ordering kind of dumb junk thats supposed to make penises larger. This summer I ordered a "penis pump" to try to make his little thing bigger but h he wouldn't let me try it on him. and other sort of stupid stuff too. Like at Easter I talked him into letting me decorate his penis and balls for the holiday and I honesly thought i was using washable markers but turned out they were permanentmarkers. He was pretty ticked :)

[SammyG17]

Penises never really ever stop growing. The most notable growth is during puberty, but the same can be said about breasts also. (sag, changing cup size, etc. also although I believe this is superstition, I've heard having sex regularly can help a penis grow slightly. 1/4 of a inch or so due to the hormones being released from the actual act of penetration) at 14-15, he is normal if he is soft and between 1-4 inches long, and about half to 1 inch diameter. Hard, he should be 3-5 inches long, maybe slightly longer if he's in a later stage of puberty, and 1-2 inches diameter (probably 1, since 2 is usually adult size) Typical adult males are 2-4 soft long and 1 dia. and 5-7 long, and 1-2 dia. hard. If he is able to precum, and even ejaculate, he is fine. Adult testicles can hang quite low, or not much at all (also temperature dependent) and are generally an inch-2 inches long. Also, generally speaking, most girls finish puberty around 22, most boys around 24.

Doing weird things with penises is ok, as long as the other person consents and you don't do any harm. tasting, feeling, experimenting are all ok. Penis pumps, especially before 22, are not. The penis has special muscle in it that fills with blood to get hard. The suction of the pump causes pressure to build up inside the blood vessels and can cause a bit bigger erection. It can also cause internal bleeding, bruising, and can stunt growth.

Self-esteem is a big issue, especially amongst teenagers. Putting him down because you don't think his anatomy meets your standards is actually quite horrible. Even suggesting he sees a doctor is pretty bad. Even if a guy says he doesn't care what other people say, I'm pretty sure deep down it does hurt. Especially if its someone he trusts and likes to spend time with.

Speaking of time, you say you do all of these things to him. What does he do back to you? It seems awfully one sided. Almost like you aren't worried about how your own body works, or what he does to it. Maybe because you are equipped with it and know what is/isn't normal. Does he ever tell you he doesn't think your clitoris is big enough and you should see a doctor? (and please don't go buy a pump for that, yes they make them, and yes it can cause it to bleed)

You keep mentioning that you've got a few years together. Its good you are close, but should not a girlfriend support her boyfriend with whatever big or little problem he might have?

[Tyler97]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.

I thought girls said "size doen't matter, it's the person that's important", I guess that theory goes out the window.

[mrlobo]

size is meaningless and you can't change it anyway so why worry about it
I never understand all this size talk, it's pointless


you are right

[Body odah Man]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.

I wrote a rant on this but I feel guilty so rewrite time.
Doctors can not magically grow junk.
Don't examine his thing like that unless your a doctor/he's your patient.

[DanaW]

I was going to just kind of thank everybody who posted here. even the real negative replies were great becuase it helped me see all this through the eyes of other people.

But 'sammyg" took time to write a real good and simcere reply. I can't use pm since i dont have enough posts so im going to reply here.

You are totally right what you said about that dumb penis pump I bought. In fact all the junk like that I ordered was stupid really.

About the "self-esteem" thing. All the teasing etc we do is way more light-hearted than it probalby sounds here. He thinks the way i act about his penis and stuff is so weird that its more funny to him than anything. Iwish I could explain our realtionship better. One of my friends thinks we arere like a couple who has been married for 50 years and maybe that says it best.

You seem to be the only person who noticed that our sex stuff is sort of one-sided. It seems like my sex drive is alot stronger than his or something. He'd be happy if f all we ever did was "above the waist" stuff and that's all he ever does with me. But ofcourse he does like that I suck him off etc so he goes a long with the rest of the junk i do down there.

I guess I do have one more question for you (or anybody ). His balls really are pretty small even if they grow some, so I keep wondering if the size of a guys balls have naything to do with how many sperms he can make? His little penis does "spurt" quite a few times when it ejaculates but it seems like not too much comes out.

[SammyG17]

Testicle size has nothing to do with sperm production, or ejaculate amount. If he regularly has orgasms, he probably gets 1-5 ml come out. average is 3ml with a 4-5 day buildup. Temperature, hydration, stress, nerves, concentration, and length of stimulation (and even type) can all change ejaculation amounts and consistency.

In terms of testicle size, a recent study in the UK found that generally speaking, men with smaller testicles spend more time caring for, and bonding with their children. So if this study is true, size actually does matter; smaller is better.

It truthfully sounds like he is a late bloomer. Although his hormones are working, they may not be in full swing yet. And remember, girls mature faster than boys. So it may very well be true you are actually hornier.

I also know a few guys who really don't want to do anything with girls. Not because they are gay, but mainly just not interested. One of them was scared of hurting her, and another didn't like the taste/smell. So maybe try showing him what to do so he can help you too, one sided sex sucks. And if push come to shove, just have regular sex. Then you both feel good right?

In terms of picking on him, ok thats fine. but you made it sound pretty bad. It sounds like he's submissive and your more dominant. Thats fine, but maybe try giving him the reigns once. He might respond really well to it. But old couple bickering is fine as long as you aren't mean about it.

[DanaW]

Thanks for the info. You sure know alot about this stuff!

Actually our sort of "one-sided" sex relations are great for us. Neither of us wants to have intercourse at this point. He's content not fooling around with me "down there" yet Ican do anything I feel like with his penis etc. without woryying that it might go further than I want it to,

btw, i don't understand why I have to have so many posts to use pm. I'd like to talk a little more to you about this stuff but I don't want to do it here in the forum.m

Sorry to post here again tonight but I wsa reading through "sammyg's two posts again and I realized how much they helped me. they cleared up alot of stuff that ive been wondering and worrying about for a long time. You should become like a sex cousnelor or something. I'm serious!!

[CuteGuy889]

I too had a small one whn I was younger. Until I was 13 lyk I had to take my pants down and stand in my briefs to pee cos else my small one would wet my pants.
Then by 15 thing grw a bit and because I was stick skinny with abs and stick like thighs my penis looked comparatively ok whn undressed.
After 15 I hv put on weight and now my chunky thighs that rub together and the bit of a belly fat make my took look small. may be hormones out of balance as I hv very little body hair and has put on a bubble,girlish butt too.
But I think when I hit 17-18 it will grow further.
My GF doesnt mind it...SHe has been there since my skinny days....She just wants my pants off the moment we are alone!!! I try to keep my briefs on or at least my tank top on to cover up.!!!

[Kapowzer]

I can't even begin to explain how wrong all this is.

[Jdnumber]

He's 15, his penis isn't supposed to be big. The Internet has messed up people's expectations. Just enjoy him or who he is.

[DanaW]

I hadnt checked here for a few days and Im surprised my topic came back to life.

I've got something VERY weird to add to all this. Ive always called his penis "the dam little thing" and junk lik e that. So after reading the posts here i stopped doing that amd right away he wanted to know why i wasnt cussing at it and stuff. I have no idea why but he LIKES this. i swear this is the truth.

i wish somebody could explain to me why on earth a boy would actually like this. Our whole realtionship is kind of "different" but this is pretty weird

[NewGuy7]

Hey DanaW, the girl that I lost my virginity to would also refer to my penis as "that tiny twig" and I would actually get excited when she called it that. What else do u say bout ur bf's?

[justteen86]

It's not all about size, it's what you do with it, I don't have a problem with size though...

[Jaseblader]

size is meaningless and you can't change it anyway so why worry about it
I never understand all this size talk, it's pointless

this is called, the truth ^^

[DanaW]

Hey my topic here seems to die and then it comes back to life. I guess this is just noermal for forums like this.

Ive been pretty sure all along my bf didnt really mind me complaining about his little penis and balls but i had no ide a he actually liked it. i did some googling on this and i found out this is n't quite as odd as I thought. Beleve it or not there are web sites where guys post pics of their penis just for women to make fun of it.

[NewGuy7]

Hi DanaW! Do you enjoy making fun of his penis? Does he like when you call it names? Does he tease u at all or no?

[danibu]

I don't really think he needs a doctor lol
Some penis are big and some are small. If you want a big one, go look for someone else then.

[DanaW]

newguy7 - I more like complain about his little penis etc than make fun of it and i get annoyed when it doesn't work right. The thing is here is this guy I love so much i can hardly stanmd it yet there is this junk. its kind of frusterating. But hey,he does tease me alot too. I admit my boobs arent the best.

danibu - you are totally right it was dumb for me to want him to go a doctor. and your remark about finding a guy with a big one is funny because my bf says Ishould just go out and find a dumb jerk with a big penis and be happy. lol but seriously i'M too in love with him to do that. and he knows it.

[Luisss]

He doesn't need a doctor since it WILL grow. You telling him these destroys self confidence and nobody needs that.

[NewGuy7]

DanaW, what u mean doesn't work right? And y does he tease u bout ur boobs? Hope u don't mind the questions just really interested in ur topic!

[Christen]

to throw in a female opinion - sounds fair average size to me.
sure a big dick on a guy is nice as they like big boobs.
its natuaral there is a lell call it suze range min to max.
porn creates a false imagination there 1. porn stars are over 18 2. they are specificaly selected because of big dicks sure in porn they only show cocks bigger than average.

[DanaW]

I wish i was as sure his stuff will grow somemore like everybody keeps saying. But he says hes' always had the smallest penis and balls in the lockr room at school and Iknow he gets teased. so its not just in comparison to porn star s. But none of this seems to bother him much. so i guess it really shouldnt bother me. Especially since we don't even have sex. bjut it just does.

newguy7 - I dont want to list all the probs I have with his little penis. for one thing my post would be a page long! lol But one example is that after it ejaculates, It wont even get hard again for like 5 hrs. He doesn't care and says this gives him a "break" from me fooling around with it. jeez. sometimes it seems like he has the sex drive of a door knob. Which is like problem #47 lol

[NewGuy7]

DanaW, lol oh I see. You seem like a lot of fun though!

[Snydergate]

Maybe because you're biologically female and do not own a penis, so what do you know about how big a penis should be? Doctors can't just magically adjust the size of your junk. Besides, that sounds pretty average to me. Perhaps you've been watching too much porn, and you may have slightly exaggerated or unrealistic expectations of how big penises are and how they should work.

What he said.....

[lovelycaleb]

In all seriousness, think about this. He hasnt even fully developed. Like mentioned earlier, porn ia a bed of lies (pun). The guys are chosen because they're big, the "first time" girls definetly aren't virgins, and the "teens" are usually 20-somethings with a crapton of makeup on. So what if he is small. He can't do anything about it so i dont see why you should complain. It won't solve anything...

[DanaW]

Well after all this, wednsday he got a boil or something in his crotch so i used this as an excuse to take him to that free clinic. I told them Ithought it was STD or something.

Anyways they said his penis and balls are small but not abnormal. the bad news tho was they didnt think his stuff will grow much more. They told me why but I cant remmber the medical words etc. and they said he has a narrow uretha or something which s why his penis doesnt work too good when he pees.

they kept telling me I was worrying way too much about all this and basicly to just get over it. Like every one here has been saying .But his penis and balls are very important to me and i was pretty upset. As usual he wasn't. This is just so strange. I was so depressed last night that he let me sneek into his room and sleep (just sleep] in his bed with him.which he hardly ever does. So at least there was that.

[Pulp501]

That doesn't sound that small, it will probably grow too. 1-2 inches is small but is it like shriveled up? Some guys do that when it's cold, some is like that most o the time. 5 inches erect is actually average. Adult average erect is actually on 5.6 inches. It's certainly big enough that you can have sex in the future, so if it doesn't bother him it shouldn't bother you

[DanaW]

I probably shouldnt have posted yesterday sinc I was still pretty upset about what the doctor said. Im feeling way better about this stuf today.

Im glad i took him to that clinic because it makes me feel more sure about all this. Even tho his penis and balls are smallr than average their still fine for sex and all. like Pulp and alot of you have said

My bf's attitude is that "either it will get bigger or it wont" which sounds dumb but I undrstand what hes saying. there's npthing anybody can do about this. like you all have been trying to tell me.

Thanks for the replies everybody. maybe it doesnt seem like it but they really helped.

[Tdaykin877]

It's very normal, most people on this lie,

[SethfromMI]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.

If i were your boy friend, I would dump you

[CrazyPerson101]

Okay. You can't change your bf's penis ( & balls ) size, you're just going to have to be cool with his size. It's not cool that you told him he needs to go to a doctor about it ( BUT TO EVERYONE ELSE , SHE DIDN'T KNOW THAT 5 IN. WAS ALSO WITHIN NORMAL AVERAGE SIZE AND ALL SHE KNOWS ( OR KNEW ) WAS FROM PORN so cut her a little slack.) If he's comfortable with his size, then let him be. After all, it is his "manhood" and saying its small really does make guys feel subconscious about their size.

[jockeyboy97]

If i were your boy friend, I would dump you

Right on! I agree with you 100 percent. How would she like it if her boyfriend told her that her boobs are abnormally too small. She should be more concerned about the type of person he his not the size if his dick and balls. How rude and insensitive.

[SethfromMI]

Right on! I agree with you 100 percent. How would she like it if her boyfriend told her that her boobs are abnormally too small. She should be more concerned about the type of person he his not the size if his dick and balls. How rude and insensitive.

exactly. even if he was not going to grow down there (which at his age he is very likely to do so) so what? it is about how you use it anyways. besides, it is not something you can control.

and she would flip out if he told her she had small boobs. Love, TRUE love is unconditional. it would look past those things

[Whiskers]

If doctors could change penis size all doctors would be billionaires

[Catholic Guy]

Maybe you should tell him to come on here so he can talk to other guys about it

[Hardcatch]

Thats just wrong babe. Maybe he thinks your tits are to small or shapped weird. You can only work with what God game and you. Deal with it.

[Renata_cmp]

what can i say, the best way to see if he's gonna developp more is to check his facial hair, sounds dumb but if he's still on full babyface it's obvious his puberty isn't over, so it means it can still grow. And even if it doesn't, you have to ask yourself what you love more, penises or him?

[soft]

Thanks for all the replies already.

The thing is I never even saw a boy naked before in real life so I was just going by pics of older guys I've seen on the interent. And it does seem like I read in more than one place that 6-7 in. is normal.

I also thought (not sure why)that boys penis etc don't grow much after their like 14.

I have to say though I still don't see why he doesn't want a doctor to check out his stuff. It couldn't hurt amything. I even found a clinic that would do this for free without telling his mom or anything.

It is very normal and I have seen smaller. What matters is what it can do and owners knowledge on sex. And why would you take him to a doctor anyway? Best is to see if he can satisfy you and has enough know how.

[tatoluca]

not a problem if u love him

[shybi15]

hahahah im sorry but i have to say this.
5 inches is above average.

[DanaW]

Sorry about that message from my bf. I thought my topic would be long gone by now. But he knows about it and said it was still around and wanted to add his 2cents worth. It would ahve been better if he signed up for his own accunt but he didn't want to. oh well.

Anyways Im trying not to complain so much about h his penis etc and maybe it isn't quite as small as I thought. but one thing I just don't get. Wouldn't most boys love it if their gf payed so much attention to their penis? He almost acts he's doing me a favor by letting m fool around with it and stuff.

[Renata_cmp]

the real question to ask yourself is: would you like hime more if he had a big penis?

[SethfromMI]

Sorry about that message from my bf. I thought my topic would be long gone by now. But he knows about it and said it was still around and wanted to add his 2cents worth. It would ahve been better if he signed up for his own accunt but he didn't want to. oh well.

Anyways Im trying not to complain so much about h his penis etc and maybe it isn't quite as small as I thought. but one thing I just don't get. Wouldn't most boys love it if their gf payed so much attention to their penis? He almost acts he's doing me a favor by letting m fool around with it and stuff.

by saying how small is penis is your giving him the wrong attention. would you like it if he told you and then publically declared how small your boobs are? ask yourself that and then ask how he feels about you saying how small his penis is. common sense woman, use it

[ThePhantasm]

Lol there is nothing wrong with his size XD

[BDOG]

Sorry about that message from my bf. I thought my topic would be long gone by now. But he knows about it and said it was still around and wanted to add his 2cents worth. It would ahve been better if he signed up for his own accunt but he didn't want to. oh well.

Anyways Im trying not to complain so much about h his penis etc and maybe it isn't quite as small as I thought. but one thing I just don't get. Wouldn't most boys love it if their gf payed so much attention to their penis? He almost acts he's doing me a favor by letting m fool around with it and stuff.Most guys (myself included) WOULD LOVE IT. Not many girls play with their boyfriends penis all the time... he shouldn't complain, he should be honored that you want to lmao

[saxmatic16]

First I would like to say yall are only 15 so he has time to grow still! he could get a lot bigger due to puberty so don't worry about it so much girl. It's not the size of the boat that matters, but the motion of the ocean!

[BDOG]

First I would like to say yall are only 15 so he has time to grow still! he could get a lot bigger due to puberty so don't worry about it so much girl. It's not the size of the boat that matters, but the motion of the ocean!
Well said :)

[DanaW]

I didn't think anybody would still be paying attention to this old topic. But I'm glad you are You guys are great.

If you read my bf messsage here, you know he ignores me about all this. but after reading Seths reply I've got to wondering if this is sort of an "act". Maybe it bothers him more than he lets on. Hes gone to bed to night but I'm going to talk tto him about this. thanks Seth.

And Renata asked if I'd love him more if he had a big penis. I sure as heck wish he did!! But now that Ithink about it, the answer is no. In fact I don't think I could love him more then I already do. Really,if I didnt love him so much, it wouldn't bother me about his penis etc. I would just move on you know?

And thanks to Xatoku for saying most guys wuold love for their gf to play with their penis more. I'm going to make sure my bf sees your post! lol

[Daniella98]

My bf and me are 15. I'm a girl btw and I guess i should say he is also my stepbrother but we were like best friends long before my dad even met his mom

We don't have sex but like after school I take off his clothes so i can watch him go around naked and I do junk with his penis etc. But it is real small. He wont let me measure it but I compare it to my hand and i don't think it's even 5 in. when its hard and only an inch or two when it's soft. His balls aren't very big either.

He doesn't seem to care that his junk is so small but Iwant him to go to a doctor. Couldn't they give him hormones or something? And I don't think the little thing even works right. it drips alot after he pees and when it s erect it drips continuosly (I know it's precum but its not just a few drops. So maybe a doctor could make it work better too. He thinks I just act "weird" about all htis and kind of ignores me but I don't see why he won't have a doctor check it out.

Sounds like you have some cruel kicks to his selfesteem. If he doesnt care and he is satisfied, so be it. He is not the only guy who isn't huge... Im sure it might work for you if you wouldnt degrade him by his penis

[Renata_cmp]

maybe your thoughs about all of that will change once you two had sex. Im sure a lot of girls are pleased with boyfriend with 5' penises as much as there is ones that are not with a boyfriend with a 8' one. With that said, maybe im again just being too dumb and naive, maybe big penises are a definitive factor about how good sex can be, don't know...

[Tyler97]

that's a very shallow attitude, it would be the same as someone posting "my gf's tits are so small", rude and wrong.

[SethfromMI]

I didn't think anybody would still be paying attention to this old topic. But I'm glad you are You guys are great.

If you read my bf messsage here, you know he ignores me about all this. but after reading Seths reply I've got to wondering if this is sort of an "act". Maybe it bothers him more than he lets on. Hes gone to bed to night but I'm going to talk tto him about this. thanks Seth.

And Renata asked if I'd love him more if he had a big penis. I sure as heck wish he did!! But now that Ithink about it, the answer is no. In fact I don't think I could love him more then I already do. Really,if I didnt love him so much, it wouldn't bother me about his penis etc. I would just move on you know?

And thanks to Xatoku for saying most guys wuold love for their gf to play with their penis more. I'm going to make sure my bf sees your post! lol

if you truly loved him it wouldn't matter what size his penis was. period. your just being shallow. plain and simple

[Zachary G]

Maybe because you're biologically female and do not own a penis, so what do you know about how big a penis should be? Doctors can't just magically adjust the size of your junk. Besides, that sounds pretty average to me. Perhaps you've been watching too much porn, and you may have slightly exaggerated or unrealistic expectations of how big penises are and how they should work.

very good points, i would have to agree with you on this one. her expectations are more than unreasonable.

[DanaW]

I knew when i started this topic that people would think I'm shallow etc. But its confusing for me tobe so attracted to this guy even though his penis and balls seem almost like just toys to me .Being able to talk about it here has helped alot. thanks again to all who replied.

One more note for Renata. You could be right I won't worry so much about the size of his penis aftr we start having sex. He wants to but I dont feel like I'm ready yet and he never pressures m me or anything.

[Renata_cmp]

one more question if you don't mind, have you got 'accustomed' to see big penises because you watch porn or something? Because i don't 5% of the male demographic have penises this big, and the pornstars probably go their enlarged by non-natural means anyway.

[danielgrand]

don't talk to a guy who loves you about his penis size! SO not cool!

[Waleedbt]

This is so wrong.

I mean why did you make a post about this? help? there is nothing that you are asking us to help you with anyway.
Like someone said here, if you were my Gf i would be happly broken up with you, i mean if your not going to drop the subject on something like that then i wouldnt want to be with you, heck you never even said why you like the guy in any of your posts too, i mean you are always saying how good your relationship is but all i can see is that you probably never look him in the eye, talk to him, have fun , hang out, i feel like all you do is check his penis, which is very shallow, and now you made a big post about it for a bunch of people to know. Im sorry, but what kind of person are you? you even took him to a doctor ! , im serious, there must be a limit that you have past ages ago and you have had to be stopped at some point.
Is this how relationships are now? sex and sizes is all that matter nowadays?

All im trying to say is stop humiliating the guy, i feel bad for him being talked about here now, and i feel he is such a nice person that he overlooked this place too, you should do the same, mind his feeling, people have emotions too, think about it, will you be fine if he posted something about you on the Internet? the place where anything you say will be here forever, the place where there is no more privacy.

[Renata_cmp]

Hey calm down dude. I don't think she's only think about this guy's penis, or else she would have dumped him for a guy with a big penis since ages (which would be one of the most disgusting things to do...). I just assume she got shocked by the 'real' size of boys after being blinded by porn. With that said i don't really understand why is this so a problem since they aven't had sex yet, but still.

On a side note i found the amount of guys 'shocked' by this thread quite comical. I guess if a dude post a thread about how he's upset by the small boobs of his girlfriend the reactions would be equally as rude.

[DanaW]

I think my topic has kind of run its course. But I cant resist checking back here and there's always a reply or two Iwant to comment on lol

Waleedbt. Don't you realize we are all "annonymous" here? DanaW is not my real name and i I never mentioned my bf name. So Im not publicly humiliating him or anythimg. and starting this topic really has helped me. just being able to talk about this stuff if nothing else.

My bf and me have been best friends for like 4 years. long before we were bf/gf. We are very close and do eveything togther. I've said before I cant really describe our realtionship. Its different from any couple I know. its like we are helplessy in love and we're stuck with each other whether qwe like it or not. lol

Renetta. I just dont know why Im so obssessed with his penis etc. I hardy ever watch porn or anything. and about your other reply, I figured alot of guys would be upset by this topic but Im glad they replied. I sure didnt realize guys are so senstitive about their penis

And like you kind of pointed out,I hear guys talking about the size of girls boobs all the time. they dont seem to think that's such a big deal.

[danielgrand]

Hey calm down dude. I don't think she's only think about this guy's penis, or else she would have dumped him for a guy with a big penis since ages (which would be one of the most disgusting things to do...). I just assume she got shocked by the 'real' size of boys after being blinded by porn. With that said i don't really understand why is this so a problem since they aven't had sex yet, but still.

On a side note i found the amount of guys 'shocked' by this thread quite comical. I guess if a dude post a thread about how he's upset by the small boobs of his girlfriend the reactions would be equally as rude.

why don't you go look and let us know.

[DamWayne]

Not very kind for him. If he don't mind maybe it's not that bad.

[Renata_cmp]

why don't you go look and let us know.
Wut? What do you want me to do exactly?

[danielgrand]

On a side note i found the amount of guys 'shocked' by this thread quite comical. I guess if a dude post a thread about how he's upset by the small boobs of his girlfriend the reactions would be equally as rude.

why don't you go look and let us know.

Wut? What do you want me to do exactly?

I'm just saying go look and see if there are any threads like that and what the reactions are and let us know what you find.

[Baseball1999]

Maybe because you're biologically female and do not own a penis, so what do you know about how big a penis should be? Doctors can't just magically adjust the size of your junk. Besides, that sounds pretty average to me. Perhaps you've been watching too much porn, and you may have slightly exaggerated or unrealistic expectations of how big penises are and how they should work.

I totally agree

[Jaseblader]

I agree, this seems to be a problem not just with penis size, but many other areas in life. People overestimate things.

So true but also he is a late bloomer

[NeuroTiger]

Omg...thats normal for a 15years old. Maybe he is a late bloomer. He still has time to grow his package.

[Decim]

You should be more worried about whether or not he treats you right, considering he could end up being 10" by 20. You're both 15... there's lots of growing up to be done.

I think my topic has kind of run its course. But I cant resist checking back here and there's always a reply or two Iwant to comment on lol

Waleedbt. Don't you realize we are all "annonymous" here? DanaW is not my real name and i I never mentioned my bf name. So Im not publicly humiliating him or anythimg. and starting this topic really has helped me. just being able to talk about this stuff if nothing else.

My bf and me have been best friends for like 4 years. long before we were bf/gf. We are very close and do eveything togther. I've said before I cant really describe our realtionship. Its different from any couple I know. its like we are helplessy in love and we're stuck with each other whether qwe like it or not. lol

Renetta. I just dont know why Im so obssessed with his penis etc. I hardy ever watch porn or anything. and about your other reply, I figured alot of guys would be upset by this topic but Im glad they replied. I sure didnt realize guys are so senstitive about their penis

And like you kind of pointed out,I hear guys talking about the size of girls boobs all the time. they dont seem to think that's such a big deal. Just for future reference, if you used your real email for VT, anyone can easily search your e-mail and find your account.

Also, I know you wouldn't appreciate your boyfriend telling you to go get silicone implants because your boobs are too small, when you haven't even become an adult yet.

[Kochanek]

The reason, why so many women have difficulties to estimate the distances while parking the car: Because men show them 4 inches an claim its 8 :-D

Honestly: 5 inches is not quite big for a man. But your bf is 15, I think it will grow. And above all. It's not the size but the technique that counts ;-)

[Decim]

The reason, why so many women have difficulties to estimate the distances while parking the car: Because men show them 4 inches an claim its 8 :-D

Honestly: 5 inches is not quite big for a man. But your bf is 15, I think it will grow. And above all. It's not the size but the technique that counts ;-) The fact of the matter is, a majority of people actually have 5-5.5" junk. It's more common than any other size. Everyone lies about their size, and most of the people who "measure" don't even do it correctly.

[DanaW]

Laith wote "You should be more worried about whether or not he treats you right" That's obvious I guess but it seems like I forget this s sometimes. And he does treat me right. to be honest better than I deserve.

I just looked back and i started this topic on Sep 4. That's like 2 1/2 mnths ago! I keep thinking I should just forget about it but whenever I check backhere there 's always stuff that's worth while for me to read. and you all seem to be very sincere

I reaqlly am trying not to act so "weird' about his penis etc. It still seems like he just doesn't care about any of this but it sure can't hurt for me to be more understamding of his feelings. Honestly I didn't know guys are so sensntive about tehir penis.

[Renata_cmp]

But are you upset because of this? Why? Sorry lol i sincerely can't understand why it would be better if he had a bigger penis...

The fact of the matter is, a majority of people actually have 5-5.5" junk. It's more common than any other size. Everyone lies about their size, and most of the people who "measure" don't even do it correctly.
Amen to that. The amount of guys claiming they are 8' or more here on VT is quite comical...

[marrisa]

size is meaningless and you can't change it anyway so why worry about it
I never understand all this size talk, it's pointless

I respectively disagree.Size is not "meaningless"as it isn't everything either.I don't want my boyfriend to have a tiny penis.I like a decent size penis.It may be pointless to you but not all of us.We all have our likes,dislikes,and turn on's and turn off's.Thanx.:)

[nklarke]

I respectively disagree.Size is not "meaningless"as it isn't everything either.I don't want my boyfriend to have a tiny penis.I like a decent size penis.It may be pointless to you but not all of us.We all have our likes,dislikes,and turn on's and turn off's.Thanx.:)

So, a boy with small penis will find a girl who doesn't care about that. It's not meaningless for you but it is for many other girls.

[hatsoff123]

How would you know what's big and whats not big. What if I was to say your boobs are too small so so you should do something about it. I mean come on. Leave the boy alone.

[Renata_cmp]

I respectively disagree.Size is not "meaningless"as it isn't everything either.I don't want my boyfriend to have a tiny penis.I like a decent size penis.It may be pointless to you but not all of us.We all have our likes,dislikes,and turn on's and turn off's.Thanx.:)

So if you fall in love with a guy, he loves you too, you two have amazing chemestry, everything is great in your relationship, but then you realise he has a 'tiny penis' you'll dump him? :/

[suzzysmith2012]

Give it time, seeing that he's 15 or so I imagine he's not totally finished growing "down there" , I'm no medical penis doctor, but I think a lot of the so called penis enlargement stuff is a hoax. Just be happy with him.

[marko1707]

I agree with suzzy. Just wait I am sure he will develop

[Curious1997]

i feel like im being cursed by the gods. whenever i pee i always drip on my pants :( im already 18 but this things that happens kinda disappointing. the truth is my penis when not erect its size is like my thumb and if it erected its size is 3.5 :(

[awesomeness14]

His penis is perfectly fine

[Vermilion]

Maybe because you're biologically female and do not own a penis, so what do you know about how big a penis should be? Doctors can't just magically adjust the size of your junk. Besides, that sounds pretty average to me. Perhaps you've been watching too much porn, and you may have slightly exaggerated or unrealistic expectations of how big penises are and how they should work.

Nicely said :)

i feel like im being cursed by the gods. whenever i pee i always drip on my pants :( im already 18 but this things that happens kinda disappointing. the truth is my penis when not erect its size is like my thumb and if it erected its size is 3.5 :(


I wouldn't worry that much If it works it's fine

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[Elysium]

i feel like im being cursed by the gods. whenever i pee i always drip on my pants :( im already 18 but this things that happens kinda disappointing. the truth is my penis when not erect its size is like my thumb and if it erected its size is 3.5 :(
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