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DjRenagade
September 4th, 2014, 06:21 PM
Sorry if this is really lengthy, it is a issue I been having with another girl, but I feel like this girl is really it. So I am in 10th grade and so is she to begin with. The issue is that at first when I talked to her via messaging on instagram(Yes, I myself am shy) I messed up big time and basically messed up on me introducing myself to her. I want to be able to talk to her this year but I do not know how. A little more information is that I play tennis year round and so does she and girls tennis is active right now. For what I have heard from some of her friends is that she is joining the schools robotics team but I myself am in a division that she wouldn't join causing her to join a division all her friends are in. Finally, I hang out by her at lunch but she is always with her friends no matter what (Even walking to another class) and that I have her in my chemistry class. Can somebody give me some ideas on how I can get back to talking to her without screwing up? I myself thought I could somehow find a timing in person if I can come to one of her home tennis games and stay with her a bit after the game or that I could hang out with her at robotics somehow (still am planning on how at the moment). Oh and she is very athletic, intelligent, and popular but very beautiful with a great personality (Obviously). Meanwhile I am known as a nerd who is intelligent, programs and designs projects in free time, play tennis many days every week, and not that popular. Thanks if you managed to read all that and sorry for typos, I got home from tennis and am tired. I want to know how to get back to talking to her normally and get going into a relationship.

CosmicNoodle
September 4th, 2014, 06:28 PM
Well I'd say wait till robotics or tennis and just say Hi, reme!her she's just a normal person, like you or me, just strike up a conversation about anything. Trust me, if you are comparable you'd be surprised how badly you can fuck up in conversation and still have potential, allow me to demonstrate, my last girlfriend I met here on VT, we started talking in PM's and the first thongs I ever said to her over the first few days consisted of me accidently insulting the intelligence of the country she lives in and epthem going on to explain how an internal combustion engine works, smooth I know, what I'm trying to say, is that if you are comparable, you'll be able to talk about anything and still like each other, don't try and force or, just let it happen, if orts meant to be them it is, if its not, bad luck.
Good luck,

DjRenagade
September 4th, 2014, 06:41 PM
Should I take into account that her best friend hates me for my guts just because I failed at talking to her in 7th grade and forget about this girl? Or should I just continue

Waleedbt
September 4th, 2014, 06:58 PM
Paragraphs, please.

Anyway, i was going to say to go for it, but. If her best friend hates you, i don't know really. Still try though! Good luck bro!!

DjRenagade
September 4th, 2014, 07:13 PM
Lol sorry, I am tired and wanted to type quickly

Edit: How would I get past her normal friends when i talk to her?