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wow_
September 2nd, 2014, 12:00 AM
Not sure where else to post this. I kinda need help or advice or??

I'm gay. I'm a guy who is attracted to other guys. But I don't like to have sex with anyone (or anything?)
I just recently tried it for the first time and I was very uncomfortable and thought that it felt wrong. Also, the idea of sex and all that is kinda disturbing and an uncomfortable topic to me.
Some of my friends think that it's weird and odd and I just wanted to know if this is kinda like normal or not really?

thanks

Lost in the Echo
September 2nd, 2014, 01:32 PM
It sounds like you're an asexual homoromantic ( meaning you feel little or no sexual attraction towards the same sex, but do experience emotional attraction ).

I wouldn't worry. Everyone is different. Sex appeals to most people, but to others it's just not as interesting. Nothing wrong with either. You can't control what you do and don't like.

JamesSuperBoy
September 2nd, 2014, 02:07 PM
Not sure where else to post this. I kinda need help or advice or??

I'm gay. I'm a guy who is attracted to other guys. But I don't like to have sex with anyone (or anything?)
I just recently tried it for the first time and I was very uncomfortable and thought that it felt wrong. Also, the idea of sex and all that is kinda disturbing and an uncomfortable topic to me.
Some of my friends think that it's weird and odd and I just wanted to know if this is kinda like normal or not really?

thanks

I guess then you have told friends how you feel but there view and opinions will of course be limited by thier own experiences and also of course maybe they just do not want to admit how they really feel - its you that counts so maybe take it easy there is no huge must list of must does re sex.

Calliope
September 2nd, 2014, 07:38 PM
You're most likely asexual. It's 100% normal, don't worry! It's a real sexuality and you should make that very clear to your friends.

Nonameanon
September 5th, 2014, 02:51 PM
It could just be that you have a low sex drive.
Nothing wrong with that.