View Full Version : Straight, Bi, or Bi-Curious
justarandomteen
August 31st, 2014, 01:43 PM
Hey recently I have begun to question my sexuality. I used to STRONGLY identify as straight, but now I think I might be bi-curious. Basically, I am still physically and emotionally attracted to females, and would like to have a female relationship, but now I am also attracted to guys as well. I am, say, able to think about a guy "He's hot" or have urges towards them also, but I can't really see myself pursuing a relationship with a guy. So, what do you think... Am I straight, straight curious, just a teen with hormones, bi, or bi curious.
EDIT: Right now I think of myself as bi-curious, but not sure. That is why I am posting this
EDIT: Another edit. After kinda questioning myself, I realized that I could be in a relationship with a guy, but having a public one (involves coming out) I might not be comfortable. But having one where we are in a secret one (like during sleepovers) I could do.
trackstar15
August 31st, 2014, 01:49 PM
I think youre more straight but curious. Since you said you cant see yourself in a relationship with a guy then its mostly curiosity making you feel attracted towards them.
Living For Love
August 31st, 2014, 01:55 PM
Just because you're able to tell whether a guy is hot or not doesn't mean you're attracted to them, and doesn't mean you're bisexual as well. We all have eyes on our faces, right? We're all able to see if a person is attractive or not. I'd say you're still straight, even though you might be a bit curious about other guys.
newengland_teen
August 31st, 2014, 03:12 PM
I'd say you are bi-curious because that is the exact same thing I do. I can see a girl and think "Wow she is hot" and I can see a guy and think "He looks pretty good too". But also like you, I really wouldn't want to date a guy. I consider myself bi - curious because I think about both girls and guys, but wouldn't date a guy.
Jack russell dad
August 31st, 2014, 03:17 PM
Hey recently I have begun to question my sexuality. I used to STRONGLY identify as straight, but now I think I might be bi-curious. Basically, I am still physically and emotionally attracted to females, and would like to have a female relationship, but now I am also attracted to guys as well. I am, say, able to think about a guy "He's hot" or have urges towards them also, but I can't really see myself pursuing a relationship with a guy. So, what do you think... Am I straight, straight curious, just a teen with hormones, bi, or bi curious.
EDIT: Right now I think of myself as bi-curious, but not sure. That is why I am posting this
First off, nice wolf pic. Beutiful
Being gay, or bi means men turn you on, but you also have a desire for a bf, and a relationship. Sex isn't all that goes into a relationship. There is so much more.
1: love
2: trust
3: care
4: attraction
5: affection
6: devotion
7: a strong bond
And there are/is much more to a real meaningful relationship. You soubd bi-curious, but mostly straight
Microcosm
August 31st, 2014, 03:52 PM
I'm the same way, except I've known about this in myself for a while now. My advice is that you don't need to place yourself into a category. I mean fuck it. Guys are hot sometimes.
justarandomteen
August 31st, 2014, 07:09 PM
First off, nice wolf pic. Beutiful
Being gay, or bi means men turn you on, but you also have a desire for a bf, and a relationship. Sex isn't all that goes into a relationship. There is so much more.
1: love
2: trust
3: care
4: attraction
5: affection
6: devotion
7: a strong bond
And there are/is much more to a real meaningful relationship. You soubd bi-curious, but mostly straight
Okay, thanks for the advice! :D
Also thanks about the pic
I'm the same way, except I've known about this in myself for a while now. My advice is that you don't need to place yourself into a category. I mean fuck it. Guys are hot sometimes.
lol true dat :metal:
Wyatt 13
September 4th, 2014, 01:50 PM
I am gay, im sure of that and I don't like chicks, BUT I don't like guys in a romantic way, I can't picture myself dating a guy I just want a friend to hang out and mess around.
Nonameanon
September 4th, 2014, 03:22 PM
I thought I was just bi-curious, then I found somebody I really like, emotionally and physically. Now I know I'm bi.
oceandude33a
September 7th, 2014, 03:37 PM
honestly it sounds the exact same as me, and i was like 12 when i first realized it and I'm 18 still feeling the same..im sexually and emotionally attracted to girls but only somewhat sexually to guys
sam16
September 7th, 2014, 03:47 PM
Straight with changing harmones..
LoveLessOne
September 7th, 2014, 08:43 PM
straight with the ability to see that a girl is pretty without feeling attracted
football matt
September 12th, 2014, 02:29 PM
sounds like your just curious and trying to figure things out. I would worry too much. Maybe you are bi, if you are it's cool but don't rush your self trying to put a label on it.
Fireangel
September 16th, 2014, 06:59 PM
Don't worry, go for it and be happy bro :)
Dying Ember
September 17th, 2014, 10:05 AM
As others have said, probably straight but curious
Its completely normal
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