Is this weird?

[Pop girl]

So the other night my friend and I had a sleep over at my house. We were watching movies like we always do and idk why but this time she wanted to watch American pie (if you don't know it it's full of sex scenes) we started talking about sexual things and idk how but we were starting to ask each other questions like "if you could have sex in a spa or at a beach where would you do it?" and "would you let a girl pornstar go down on you if she was really amazing at it and made you orgasm?" And stuff like that. I was really horny talking about it Then she asked "have you ever let someone eat you out?" And I said no she said she kinda wanted to do it and I told her to do it on me. Let's just say a lot happened me doing stuff also all night. The next morning we said nothing about it and have never said anything and I feel like a freak! :confused: I'm not a lesbian and have never thought about it ever and I feel like it was a mistake (even though it was the best feeling ever) what should I do now? Has anyone ever done this or am I a weirdo?:(

[Renata_cmp]

i don't think you're a weirdo. If you had a good time and if it creates no problems at all between you and your friends, i don't think it's something you should be ashamed of.

[hihowisitgoin]

Its not weird

[Jennboh]

not weird at all.
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[Laura Crofty]

I've done this with two besties at a sleep over, nothing wrong in it, as long as you both enjoyed it. Only thing I word say is talk to your friend as it will ruin your friendship if you don't. Tell her the truth if you liked doing it.

[Brenda1997]

It's not weird, just a bit of experimenting, nothing wrong with it.
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[AmyLe]

Too shy to talk about it with friends but I'm jealous to just get to talk about that

[Jdnumber]

You got to have a great time with a good friend, nothing weird or bad about it at all!

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah that kinda stuff happens while we grow up, we get curious and experiment, doesn't have to mean much long term, just a part of teenage years!

[Christen]

maybe you are a bit bi most girls i know are to a certain point.
no reason for feeling guilty you liked it she liked it so its ok.
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[Taryn98]

this is normal experimentation

[Magenta]

Girls experiment, it's no big deal. Sexuality is fluid and you may not be a lesbian but you did enjoy it so you never know. There's no reason to feel bad about it though.

[Luminous]

Saying that you're jealous of what happened or it was hot or anything like that is extremely inappropriate and will not be tolerated. If this continues there will be more severe consequences.

[soft]

So the other night my friend and I had a sleep over at my house. We were watching movies like we always do and idk why but this time she wanted to watch American pie (if you don't know it it's full of sex scenes) we started talking about sexual things and idk how but we were starting to ask each other questions like "if you could have sex in a spa or at a beach where would you do it?" and "would you let a girl pornstar go down on you if she was really amazing at it and made you orgasm?" And stuff like that. I was really horny talking about it Then she asked "have you ever let someone eat you out?" And I said no she said she kinda wanted to do it and I told her to do it on me. Let's just say a lot happened me doing stuff also all night. The next morning we said nothing about it and have never said anything and I feel like a freak! :confused: I'm not a lesbian and have never thought about it ever and I feel like it was a mistake (even though it was the best feeling ever) what should I do now? Has anyone ever done this or am I a weirdo?:(

Same happened to me. It is a usual conversation which narrows down to sex. And so dont worry, you are not a weirdo or anything like that. But if you liked it, try some more and enjoy. I believe in doing whatever thing which gives me pleasure.

[kentucky girl]

No weird at all, if something feels good then do it

[butterfly00]

I have daydreamed about that while I touch myself sometimes. I bet that was amazing! I don't think its weird at all.

[cutie123]

Nothing wrong with that at all! We all expirment!

[Gottaloveaginger14]

So this is like dejavu this happened between me and my best friend a few years back only we watched blue valentine not american pie
things were a little odd between us for a few weeks but finally we talked about it and realized how much we both enjoyed it and agreed that eventhough we aren't lesbians its ok to enjoy each others bodies
we still mess around sometimes but moral of that story is just talk about it when youre ready (sooner not later) and yall will decide what works for you

[Emmaaa]

It's all part of growing up I guess.....

[jenny2234]

You don't need to be embarassed about it. If you both had a good time then what is the problem?

[allisonmyers]

def not weird hope you enjoyed the experioence

[Cangirl]

I hope its not weird either because Ive done that with my best friend to. But yeah talk about it and say you liked it and shes probably nervous about what happened to. I think thats why Im realizing Im bi because of my best friend and some other good friends. It is hard though and embarrassing to start off saying that you liked it but then it hopefully will make it easier for her to say how she felt to :) But I was told that its normal to experiment and even doing it a few times doesnt mean youre a lesbian or anything and if you are thats ok to.

[allisonmyers]

all these things make us who we are

[Laraa.01]

We all experiment as we go through the journey that is puberty and things like this are quite common. I wouldn't say it's that weird, many people on here will have similar experiences like they have told :)

[LillyH]

I'm bi and for me it all started out with friends at sleepovers.

[runnergirl]

Literally the same thing happened with me and my best friend. We never talked about it again either lol it wasnt awkward or anything though. Do what makes you feel good.

[leahmae]

Sounds normal to me. Stuff happens sometimes.

[budapest]

idk it's not weird but u might be bi if u enjoyed it !! kinda weird to talk about it the next morning so i guess it's normal maybe you'll talk about it some day or go further if both of you are interested still

[Nescio]

I don't think it's weird.
I think it's kind of like masturbation. That's pleasurable to straight people too, and if you think about it it's kind of homosexual.
Just do what feels right.

[kiara15]

I think it's fine. You're just experimenting.

[lilg]

i didn't know what straight/bi/lez was when i started doing this. i just knew i enjoyed it.

[cami]

It's completely fine I think, you were just experimenting :)

[neledisapersonne]

I agree with the lot that it is not weird at all, these are very common things but it is a good idea to talk about it. Maybe you already did talk about it though. how did it go if you could talk?

[Babs]

Please don't bump threads that have been inactive for over 2 months. :locked: