Smoking weed but parents dont know

[JakeD14]

Ok so from my previous thread I have been smoking weed for a week or two now. My parents dont know, but I would like them to know so I have more freedom with it in the sense that I can smoke in the house. Both of my parents seem to be weed friendly, as I've heard them talk about it before saying that there is not much wrong with it, but I don't know how they would take it knowing one of there children is using it. What do you think I should do and opinions on this situation?

[CosmicNoodle]

Well your the only one who can figure your parents out enough, none of us know them, but I would reccomend not telling them, they might freak out and stop you.

[Pulp501]

I wouldn't tell them. Even if they are in support of it being legal that absolutely does not mean they want you to use it. I wouldn't take the risk. Most teens parents don't know they smoke, so you aren't the only one who has to sneak it.

[CharlieHorse]

you have 2 options.

tell them: "hey ma, pa. I smoke sum o' dat dank ass shit".

don't tell them: "..."

Sometimes just plainly telling them is the best way

[Babs]

I doubt telling your parents will give you more freedom. They'll probably punish you and keep you from going out because weed is illegal and can be dangerous.

[SpencerTheName]

I agree with the others. It's best not to tell them, even if they may talk about it freely. You won't talk to them about your sex life, would you?

[Typhlosion]

Whether you tell them or not, I find it highly improbable that they would allow smoking it indoors. That stink impregnates everything.

[CrazyPerson101]

Ok so from my previous thread I have been smoking weed for a week or two now. My parents dont know, but I would like them to know so I have more freedom with it in the sense that I can smoke in the house. Both of my parents seem to be weed friendly, as I've heard them talk about it before saying that there is not much wrong with it, but I don't know how they would take it knowing one of there children is using it. What do you think I should do and opinions on this situation?


Honestly, I don't know your parents so I can't give you a direct answer, I do hope you stop smoking weed, but if you want to tell them, you need to sit them down together, just you and them and you need to be calm, cool, and collected and be ready for their reaction and whatever happens afterwards. Hope this helped

[Uranus]

Tell them when you are high. It should be easy ��

[JimmyP]

My mom knows I smoke and she's cool with it. I didn't tell her, though. She found my stash. She didn't tell my dad but he's an intelligent dude, so I'm sure he knows.

One way you could broach the conversation with your parents would be to say something like "I've been thinking about trying marijuana" to them and see how they react. Minimal risk and you can gauge their potential reactions.

[Buddy 912]

Ok so from my previous thread I have been smoking weed for a week or two now. My parents dont know, but I would like them to know so I have more freedom with it in the sense that I can smoke in the house. Both of my parents seem to be weed friendly, as I've heard them talk about it before saying that there is not much wrong with it, but I don't know how they would take it knowing one of there children is using it. What do you think I should do and opinions on this situation?

Stop using it now before you mess up your life. Say what you will, you will surely fuck-up your life!

[BDOG]

Stop using it now before you mess up your life. Say what you will, you will surely fuck-up your life!I agree with him, but i'm going to give you a good reason... I used to smoke an ounce of weed every 1-2 days It was all good with no health effects or anything. But the last 2 times I've smoked It made my heart all screwed up, the first time this happened in july of this year it went away fairly fast but now the second time which was mid-september I did it and the same thing happened, but now almost 2 months later I'm still having heart problems and thinking I'm going to die all the time. Quit smoking weed man don't make my mistake... BTW I wasn't a wannabe stoner, I've been smoking weed since grade 6, so if it can happen to me it WILL happen to you. If your going to smoke weed I'd wait till I was 20-25 b/c your brain is still developing, again I'm going to give you a reason.... My IQ was 135 when I was younger but now it has gone down to 104 so It does indeed make you not as smart.

[smileff]

a little alcohol isn't bad, but smoking, never touch it.

[SethfromMI]

I agree with him, but i'm going to give you a good reason... I used to smoke an ounce of weed every 1-2 days It was all good with no health effects or anything. But the last 2 times I've smoked It made my heart all screwed up, the first time this happened in july of this year it went away fairly fast but now the second time which was mid-september I did it and the same thing happened, but now almost 2 months later I'm still having heart problems and thinking I'm going to die all the time. Quit smoking weed man don't make my mistake... BTW I wasn't a wannabe stoner, I've been smoking weed since grade 6, so if it can happen to me it WILL happen to you. If your going to smoke weed I'd wait till I was 20-25 b/c your brain is still developing, again I'm going to give you a reason.... My IQ was 135 when I was younger but now it has gone down to 104 so It does indeed make you not as smart.

this. just don't do it in the first place

[randominternetkid]

My advice would be not to tell them. Your parents may be cool and liberal, but then again I don't know them just from what you have said. If they are fine with legalization and the use of marijuana they still might not want their teenage son to smoke. I got in trouble at school a few years ago for smoking, I had to go to alternative school for a few weeks. My mom is extremely accepting and supportive of most things like abortion or gay marraige, but holy %$#@ did I find out her opinion on marijuana. She took my phone, comouter, and worst of all allowing to see my friends for months. She thinks what I did was terrible and I broke her heart. She is convinced it will damage my developing brain and will lead me to hard drugs. Basically every propaganda against marijuana is what she believes in. I've been caught a few times since then, one time I was in the alley behind my house with a few friends and some lady yelled at us and then chased after us. We lost her but by coincidence she was walking in tbe opposite direction on my street and we intersected right at my house. My mom was watering the lawn and she told my mom that we were "smoking da ganj". My mom was pissed. Not a single one of us actually smoked that day, her false suspicions were believable to my mom. I denied everything to my mom and she drug tested me. I failed since I HAD been smoking recently just not that day, nor had my friends. I got in trouble, she drug tested me a few times after that over the next month or two. Months later I came home with my eyes solid red after a bike ride since I lost my eye drops, that one was my fault. My dad has a different opinion on marijuana, he supports it and even uses it. He still gets mad when I get caught. I he's madder that I got caught than the fact I smoke. The only thing that has affected me long term is the fact that my mother tries to make connections to me smoking. Ex. Im extra drowsy in the morning"you must be smoking pot again", I'm "rude" to her ( usually I have reasons, but people have more that one emotion) "you're making me believe that your smoking again. Missed a few as sign men's at school? "Have you been doing something you shouldn't? It's things like that which make me regret my mistakes that lead to me being caught. I know people who's parents don't care or pretend not to know. A friend of mines parents would let him smoke whenever he needed it for stress/anxiety or as a reward. Some of my friends parents think it will kill you others will smoke with you. I think the rules make me say I don't not recommend the use of any illegal substance. I don't think you should tell them, either way they'll probably find out eventually but if it is a bad reaction it would be nice to push that further into the future. Its really late so this is going to be poorly written, if you have any more questions pm me or just pm for whatever reason go right ahead.

[xxxander]

Actually first they get upset if they know that you're smoking weed, but you have to prove to them that you're not getting addicted to it and prove to them that you only smoke a weed if you want to or occasionally.

[Decim]

Your parents are not going to support the habit, because there's really no benefits to smoking for someone who doesn't need to for their health.


I agree with him, but i'm going to give you a good reason... I used to smoke an ounce of weed every 1-2 days It was all good with no health effects or anything. But the last 2 times I've smoked It made my heart all screwed up, the first time this happened in july of this year it went away fairly fast but now the second time which was mid-september I did it and the same thing happened, but now almost 2 months later I'm still having heart problems and thinking I'm going to die all the time. Quit smoking weed man don't make my mistake... BTW I wasn't a wannabe stoner, I've been smoking weed since grade 6, so if it can happen to me it WILL happen to you. If your going to smoke weed I'd wait till I was 20-25 b/c your brain is still developing, again I'm going to give you a reason.... My IQ was 135 when I was younger but now it has gone down to 104 so It does indeed make you not as smart. No one in the world is going to agree you should smoke $200 of weed every 2 days. That is freaking ridiculous. Who are you, Chong? Bob Marley?

If you drink 10L of water every day, you will die of water poisoning. If you play games too much, you will forget to take care of your self and your responsibilities. Smoking too much is no different.

But you are incorrect. The IQ of a child can not properly be assessed, and you more than likely over the years have stopped studying and continuing to use your mind. You did not become "dumber", you merely stopped focusing on the knowledge you had and lost it over time, similar to forgetting the second language you learned in Elementary school.

[JakeD14]

Your parents are not going to support the habit, because there's really no benefits to smoking for someone who doesn't need to for their health.


No one in the world is going to agree you should smoke $200 of weed every 2 days. That is freaking ridiculous. Who are you, Chong? Bob Marley?

If you drink 10L of water every day, you will die of water poisoning. If you play games too much, you will forget to take care of your self and your responsibilities. Smoking too much is no different.

But you are incorrect. The IQ of a child can not properly be assessed, and you more than likely over the years have stopped studying and continuing to use your mind. You did not become "dumber", you merely stopped focusing on the knowledge you had and lost it over time, similar to forgetting the second language you learned in Elementary school.

This post made me happy.

Everyone who tells me "not to do it", I've made the choice to do it and I was looking for advice on the current situation, not advice on wether I should smoke weed or not. Also before you say it will "Mess up my life", you should educate yourself on the plant before saying such things.

[Decim]

Seriously though this situation depends on your age. If you're 18 and living with your parents, it's something you can discuss.

But your parents could be put into jail for many a years if they knowingly allowed you to smoke it in their home, if you're still not considered age of majority wherever you live and have no medical license.

If you choose to do it, do so responsibly and hide it. Of course, I still think you'd be better off waiting until you are responsible for the bills of the house you live in.

[Batman42]

Never smoke in my life and never will